Human Mint

@UnbornTao The thing is, you are going to be missing good stuff of life with that kind of framework. Years down the road... Unless you seriously consider the things that are stated here, which you won't. What if dismissing what I say will impact you negatively in the future? Will you still do it? Do you really apreciate what belief is or you are just full of it? Genuinely asking. I am fully aware that I only get like 10% of the thing that are being teached here. But before I didn't, so I am actually learning. And you could prove that if you listened more. Like this song:

Quite a complex question to ask. As general thinking through stuff for yourself, or contemplating and coming to your conclusions. That's where emotions find it's place and can settle. That's what facing fears also means, because you ain't letting emotional turmoil dictate your mood, instead you do a careful investigation and if you don't know something you are ok with that and bulshit won't get to you. So those points I made they all combust each other and act in sinergy. Also as a quick example by burning through karma and getting stuff out of your system and you'll naturally be less draged by emotional needs. For example if you feel excluded, then spending a lot of time with people might help you. And evidently it is relative to you, since spending a lot of time with people can very certainly make you a weak emotional slug. The best emotional mastery is done through your own efforts. So do it yourself. Think stuff for yourself

Fine. It's a model. But you present it as the final solution to my problems. Which is childish. All the minds are interconnected as one mind. That alone is a much powerful concept than all of your mental gymnastics. And it is true. Seeing that any human is very different in terms of personality and emotional responses is a crucial skill of life. Like actually something of priority to know about. And I agree with you in that. But I don't face the challenges you so confidently potrait I do. I know my uniqueness and it took me years to develop that knowing. Did I stop understanding myself? Absolutely not. But this model is very little insight compared to all that I've learned these years. I am not saying there aren't valuable things to extract, and you might be into something here. But I suggest you polish your delivery.

It might be true. But in the end you're focusing to much in the differences. You're not incorporating, for example, the fact that any human will need to do hard-work to accomplish anything valuable no matter ND, NT, race, money (money can't buy skill). You might already know that, but you don't talk about it. Being overly-biased towards one facet will skew your efforts of helping, paradoxically. Also you learn by posting, so that's no big deal.

Taking rests from this adds to the healthy relationship. Yes, this is especially true for mods.

A message for the users. I wanted to write something about actually enjoying your time using the forum, since it is not talked about it. Try to develop a healthy relationship with the forum, since you have the oportunity. Especially if you get frustrated a lot and you find yourself constantly arguing. You won't have a good time that way. Think on ways your time in this forum can be meaningful to you. On ways you can make use of it for your life, or to share your insights. Use it to understand how people work, how the collective behaves, what people like and what they hate. And especially to understand yourself, what you hate and what you love. Also this is a byproduct of your own development. So as you grow yourself you will naturally develop healthy relationship to a lot of personal stuff. Which is the hard part but on the other hand what should motivate you to grow. In other words, if you have the choice between having fun or hating it what would you choose? Anyone can benefit from this. There is always something you can improve on. You should feel your way to the answers that best suit you. If you think you could make progress then understand that it will not be easy and it will be emotionally challenging. But in exchange for that you're gaining happiness because you're changing habits that make you miserable. So, it is possible to enjoy the forum. But it is not immediate and it will take time. It is the best thing you can work on, have that in mind.

Example and counter-example: Honking your car horn to say hello or goodbye and thus alarming everyone. Conformity Versus: Using your car horn to alarm people to avoid an accident. Non-conformity

Remember that content doesn't really matter. A lot of people contradicts themselves, including you. To different degrees but we all contradict ourselves at some point. You can't control that for others but for yourself yes you can, if that's what you want. If you truly want to understand people you better focus on principles and not in the minutia of what they say. Because the problem is you will feel attacked all the time, and that's a waste of time. Of course we want good content, but that's just a byproduct of the state of mind.

Don't take what I said as a chore, but as a quest. It's about finding new ways of deriving satisfaction.

I have a lot of vision and I can inspire people a lot, explaining my vision and why is important is a need I have. My main quest is putting that into practice as much as possible.

Lol. I am actually a natural leader, I would fit very good in a director type of position. But I would need a person like you to look people in the eyes and tell me what their needs are. I don't have the habit of looking people in the eyes, and that's a deal breaker for a lot of people. I talked with my parents and they told me they were worried when I was a child because I would not look in the eyes of people. I might be a ND afterall.

Yes, sometimes.

More like confused eyes. Jeez, I really could make stuff up about emojis and believe it. You are telling me that non autistic people don't do that? That's boring

I edited it and reframe it a bit... But in all honestly if I am autistic I would really like to know and what it entails for me.

That must have a name or something.

The test isn't quite good. I don't have trouble speaking to people and feeling the rythm of the conversation. Is just that I find more meaning inside me. But I understand very well how people feel when I speak to them.

This is for the people that already find meaning in this but also could find more ways of enjoying. For some it would be wise to stop. But for others just a little change in aproach.

I don't know how to feel about it.

I am glad I did spirituality early on. Contemplation, philosophy, meditation, psychedelics. I am also glad that I started learning piano besides only playing guitar. I can already improvise a bit and I enjoy playng bach pieces. They're like puzzles and a meditation. I am also glad my parents never forced me to do thing I didn't like and supported my interests.

17/36 I didn't like the result. I thought this was subjective, didn't expect there were correct answers lol. Like how can you possible know for sure how someone feels? For example instead of aghast I chosed distrustful, and they technically go hand in hand but aparently I was wrong.

This is funny

Maybe you've got a point there. I would have to ask people that can't live without socializing and feel worthless if they don't if this is the case for them.

Cool, I just want to understand your point of view. I don't care if it validates what I believe honestly.

Have you done psychedelics? Also, what is exactly your view on them? What are you thinking I want them to do? This is nonsense if you don't provide more detail.

Doing psychedelics alone won't fundamentally change you. It is all the work you do in parallel that does it. This is emphasized a lot in the forum. No need to talk as if it is not. But here goes the reminder.