Terell Kirby

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  1. Only you can have an energy shift .. there is no "we" in this work. States of high vibration and detachment are just illusions your mind is spinning. These "states" are no more different than being attached and reactive. Do everything you must to realize the illusory nature of reality, and the role you play in it (as God).
  2. Such a great point, I believe a ton of people confuse the two. I do recommend everyone check out your vids on holism .. it breaks down what true intelligence is, making academia only a small piece of a much larger (intelligent) ecosystem that is conscious.
  3. Challenge builds character .. unless you are doing things to create dysfunction in your life (self-harm). Reframing / re-contextualization is key.
  4. @Vercingetorix Having a life purpose is a conscious, healthy way to develop your masculinity. Masculine drive is fueled by drive, mission, purpose and breaking through barriers and challenges. Being motivated by juicy vision / life purpose will spill into other areas in your life .. women find this quality very attractive in men as well .. not to mention, it is very authentic.
  5. Who said that there was anything wrong with talking to yourself? There's no reason to do it .. but it's also no reason not to do it. That is the beauty of reality / life. You get to choose what you want to do in the dream, and it doesn't change the fact that it's a dream.
  6. But .. have you realized that you are God? The bedroom is a product of your imagination, as is all of Existence.
  7. For the same reason it created everything else .. out of Love for its existence.
  8. What motivates you to still teach after realizing you have no other? I guess it’s for Self benefit these days? Either way, thank you for teaching Yourself about Yourself. When I realized that I am you, an instant connection and understanding was developed. Sending Love you way for your contribution to Universal Consciousness ❤️ ??
  9. Being the center-point of the Universe, where all of the 'looking' is taking place. Floating, gravity holds the body to Earth, but consciousness (the I) is not held down by any gravitational force. The eradication such concepts as past and future, by recognizing the present is the only thing that exist .. though mutating into varying forms. The recognition that "my" body .. is not "my" body at all. It is simply a body that is appearing, as are the rest.. Realizing that I have never had any human to human interactions in my life. Nothing / no one has any relation to me outside of what I imagine. Reality becomes "screen-like", although I can't see what I am, physically, I am known by what is taking place through observation of the Universe.
  10. The willingness to surrender to the leadership quality that masculine energy brings into a sexual / romantic relationship. This assumes that the male does not abuse his masculine power, and aims to protect the feminine (physically and emotionally).
  11. @Leo Gura why is it so hard to get people to acknowledge the validity of alternative perspectives? I'd pull my hair out trying to do what you do.. To be able to do this is to transcend moralism .. which is what is dominating the Ukraine/Russian conversation.
  12. Yes, everyone and everything that has ever Existed. Solipsism itself is a human construction, meant to twist this realization as something bad and unwanted.
  13. I’m happy he put a price on it .. it’s a good way separate his serious students from his casual followers.
  14. Stop taking it personally. Many girls will flake, that’s why it’s important to keep approaching many times to get a high number of dating prospects. It’s a numbers game.
  15. why are you doing this again? Hopefully you’re not suppressing natural urges with guilt and shame.
  16. This will work for now .. be confident externally, and work on your internal attachment issues by introspection / shadow work.
  17. Feeling like God these days (I say this not from ego / narcissism .. I could care less about my ego). My advice is to try to love yourself more and more each day.
  18. If you explore consciousness deep enough, you'll realize there is no "other" to become, and no "other" that is imagining you.
  19. This works against you of course. If you can't find a way to genuinely detach from whatever end result you want from a girl, at least display it in your external mannerism. You are 23, be thankful for your youth. Keep circulating, dating more people and you'll naturally become less attached / needy for sex.
  20. Re-contextualize your notion of what's unfair. Jealousy and envy comes from wanting something that someone else has, but deeply question why you should want it. Would it be at worth it, if deep down inside, you continued to feel unworthy? You have to be willing to love yourself, and life just as it is .. by finding the beauty in whatever is happening at this moment. Your ego will not want to do this, but it is your ego that keeps you in a constant state of suffering. God loves you as you are.
  21. Self = God = Infinity = Love = Consciousness = You ** No-Self is a popular term used by Neo Advaita followers. It really just highlights the formless nature of Self .. but still .. there is a Self. It would be better if ‘The Selfless Self’ was used instead of ‘No-Self’.
  22. This thread is still alive? Lol. Fap till you tap is my motto .. to hell with this virtue signaling ! God didn’t create your hands, private parts, and high speed internet for no reason
  23. Unfortunately, it’s most likely due to a deeper feeling that you have of being undeserving of the relationship you have with your girlfriend (insecurity). The root of this is a low self esteem. You have to look at things for what they are before you can begin changing them.
  24. Good that you can admit when you are jealous. It may help you to tell your girlfriend how you feel, with no expectation of her to change her behavior (as this is about you, not her). If you think you'll ruin her time at the concert with your jealous behavior, you may want to consider skipping out. By all means, don't make her feel bad about who she's attracted to .. true love is deeper than any celebrity crush.
  25. Why does it shock you? What matters in existence is a relative notion .. the wise thing would be to not take offense.