Terell Kirby

Haha good one ;-)

Hmm .. maybe, but i dont think thats a bad thing? It's not that we can completely avoid spiritual bypassing .. it happens. My goal is to be able to notice it, and its limitations.

Thanks for sharing .. I should probably consider the same, for other social platforms as well

+1 +1 Yes, from my understanding .. psychedelics allow the uncomfortable feelings to bubble up to the so that they can then be processed.

Totally agree, I think many seekers fall into this trap. I believe it’s better to look at spirituality as one of many tools to enable a better life, not the sole tool. This was deep realization I had. Yes. Totally, for a while I was subconsciously hoping I could outsource all my issues to spirituality, only to find that my problems didn’t go away, it just made me more conscious of them lol. thanks!

Never had a bpd girlfriend (i think), but was able to observe the relationship and marriage between my parents (where Dad had some form of bpd). What I got from it is that it creates a very hellish dynamic ... simply due to the inconsistency of emotions coming from one partner. It leaves the spouse of the bpd person very confused and emotionally distraught. The bpd partner may actually love their spouse and kids, but they have an alter ego that is hell bent on destruction. Constantly leaving them picking up the pieces of relationships, only to tear it down again. Ultimately, if no treatment / therapy / healing is sought ... those relationship decay and eventually collapse.

Such a good question. For me, it's the level mastery in spotting your self-biases and survival mechanisms ... at least the ones that pull you further away from Truth and create a low vibration in your everyday existence. It's kind of complicated, but lots of spiritual work (meditation, contemplation, psychedelics, yoga, etc) .. will get you back to being present to what IS. This will open the doors to expand your consciousness, and be more attuned to spotting self deceptions. This is the recipe for an authentic, satisfying life.

Entertainment I guess The why really doesn't matter as long as I'm awakened to Truth that Leo and I are God/One (this includes you too).

Thanks much for replying, I've always wanted to ask you about your "why" in this dream ... mainly because I am doing the same thing these days as my awakenings get deeper. I call these God problems

Jerking off / porn isn't the problem .. it's the lack of taking action to develop yourself into an attractive man that women would want to sleep and be in a relationship with. As far as how to do that, there are plenty of learning resources available .. Google is your best friend.

@Leo Gura I take it you have realized, as God, that every user you interact with on the forum is imaginary. So why continue to play this game? You are essentially spending time telling imaginary “people” (ie. Yourself) that they are imagining.

Sounds like you have waved the white flag. yes indeed .. awakening is not for everyone, but those that it is for are bearing some pretty awesome fruits of their labor. Feels good not be human

Seems as though you are overthinking. The answer to all this theory, is taking action .. getting outside a socializing. You won't meet like-minded friends or romantic partners without being social. Ignore any negative self-talk on this front.

You haven't interacted with enough women to make such a generalization (kudos to you for realizing that it is a generalization). When you do, you'll realize that looks don't count for much in judging the character of humans ... for men, women and everything in between.

It isn't stealing, they had the same idea and actualized it faster than you did. You could possibly look at their product and service and find a way to improve it as an alternative.

Self actualization.

I wouldn't take Leo's assertions so literally .. all business are exploiting for profit to some extent (even what you call high consciousness ones). Remember, you are dreaming up Leo ... be willing to carve out your own path that is authentic to you .. could be sales, could be something else.

Be careful not to use spiritual insights as a weapon.

The point is whatever you want it to be. Stop complicating life.

Happy for you .. my ex was sexually repressed as well. She was a sweet girl but grew up and traditional, patriarchal family where her father was domineering..and her mother would shame her. She was always weird about sex due to lack of experience, and shame associated with her childhood programming. Good to see that there is hope out there for these kinds of women.

Solipsism, God realization… whatever, won’t stop the experience of the heartbreak that follows a breakup of a relationship. This work is not about escaping suffering, but accepting it as a necessary component of human existence..and embracing with Love. That being said, focus on the part you played in the breakdown of your relationship, use it it to better yourself in future relationships.

Primarily due to painful Truth that others (friends, family, lovers, employers, enemies, etc) are all imaginary. Take a moment to think about how attached you are to humans and what it would mean to rid of those attachments. Most normies can’t handle this.

I’ve been pondering this for quite some time. It has been mentioned many times that awakening and God realization is beyond concept, though being able to frame it thru language is helpful to get some kind of grip on what is being pointed to (The Self, No Self, Infinite Love, you are the Creator of reality, you are imagining stuff etc). Each of these punchlines helps in opening one’s mind … but the goal is not only open the mind, but transcend it. How do spiritual seekers go from a conceptual understanding of Infinite Consciousness to an Absolute understanding that goes beyond the mind? @Leo Gura and others for insights. Thank you ??

I was waiting for an answer like this . Holy cow

This is a gross generalization of why people pursue enlightenment. Quite an unfair assessment really ..