Terell Kirby

Sounds like you are not really into her, and want to play the field. If you know this is true, then the most loving thing would be to free her by ending the relationship. It will sting for a while, and you have be prepared in case you find out she has began dating another guy (girls have no problem finding new men quickly). But the good thing is you'll be free to go for what you really want.

It can be hard to find a good wing. You'll have to play the social circle game with guys for a month or two, then determine which ones are have the same goals regarding improving their sex life (you'll get good at determining which guys are good prospects). It all starts with going out and being social, with both guys and girls.

There's your motivator right there.

I get it. Something being “popular” comes with the notion that it hold shared value among more than one person or thing … basically creating duality. Reality (God or I) is ultimately One .. having nothing and no one to share its insights with .. Thanks @Leo Gura

Isn't this placing limitation on Truth? I like to be an optimist in a sense that mankind will someday unite around it. Of course most of us here will be long dead by then .. but its possible that this is where collective consciousness is heading.

The notion of something repeating comes with an assumption that there is a start point and end point. Since reality is Infinite .. there is no mechanism that allows it to repeat .. it just is.

Might be best to explore psychedelics after you take care of your emotional baggage and past traumas. You always run the risk of mis-interpreting a trip if you do it in reverse .. this is where bad trips come from. Psychedelics may amplify the negative emotions which you have not released. I would start with more conservative means such as therapy, counseling, EMDR, meditation, etc. When you are in a natural, healthy emotional state .. then that would be a good time to experiment with psychedelics.

This has already happened in a sense .. religious dogma is a bi-product of spirituality and mysticism becoming popular. We should expect this .. but it shouldn't stop from spiritual leaders from making the effort to raise collective consciousness. Instead of focusing outward, turn inwards and make sure you avoid becoming a Zen devil yourself.

Why not try to actualize this in real life? It'll be much better than in the dream .. I promise

Love it. Thanks.

@Ulax thank you!

@kray yes they are. Specifically DevOps .. there are a lot of opportunities out in Silicon Valley. Like you said, it's expensive .. but the job market is hot, and a lot of tech companies are paying out fairly large salaries.

@kray awesome, this helps! Thank you.

*There (i'm a bit of a grammar Nazi). The notion of levels creates duality. Enlightenment is the collapsing of all the dualities the mind projects onto reality.

Don't use this work to justify suicide. You may know that everything is imaginary, but that doesn't mean your parents do. You killing yourself will surely guarantee suffering for them.

A better question would be: So am I also having an experience of the lives of "other people" like I am right now for my own life? The answer is yes of course .. you are God .

What you are submitting to is the reality that you are the entire Universe . Hope this helps.

In actuality, the ego doesn’t want to be God realized .. that would mean it would have take responsibility for all of reality .. hence having no one to blame or demonize . Becoming God is what the ego is deathly afraid of.

Well .. you severely limit your prospects without approaching. Unfortunately there is no way around it, confronting your limiting beliefs and fears is imperative. Also, make sure this is something you really want. I notice when Leo says “jump!” .. people go right to jumping without deeply contemplating if it’s right for them at their stage in life. And by jump, I mean his advice on various aspects of personal development and spiritual growth.

Take responsibility for allowing this person to take advantage of you. Making a bad guy out of them will do you no good. Use this situation to deeply reflect on why you allow such behavior and unable set proper boundaries in relationships. Be brutally honest with yourself, this will grow you. Basically, make it less about them and more about you.

Thank you. The answer is both, diving deep into the theoretical notions of Infinity, God, Love & Consciousness will open the door up for experiential understanding. Beware though, it’s easy to get stuck in theory .. pursuing the experience itself is much more difficult and scary.

This all goes full circle ... right after you realize that all "levels" are couched in One level .. that is singular, whole and complete.

@ToaTokuchi use this time to review some of the older content, and contemplate how you will integrate it into your life. Actualized.org content is not meant to be treated like a Netflix series .. get the nuggets, implement the insights through real-life practice, and be done with it.

Anything that involves blaming others for your problems in life. Along with the avoidance of taking full responsibility for the results you are getting.

@PurpleTree the lower the stage, the more prone it is to ideology and dogma. This is what separates Tier 2 thinking (yellow and above) from Tier 1 (everything below yellow).