Terell Kirby

The term dream can cause a ton of confusion. At it’s core, reality is constructed .. from scratch. This is the magnificence of God (yourself).

Leo’s version of putting heads on a spike lol

Women can definitely be lazy in bed .. no denying that. Men and can too, of course. Point is, sexual chemistry goes out the window if either partner is not interested in pleasing in the other. Really boils down to selfishness on both sides.

There isn’t any raw data to back this up .. seems as though you’re not objectively evaluating progressives (ie. Bias). This may be true in your subjective experience, but it’s not universally true that progressives complain the most. Not to my knowledge at least.

@Leo Gura In light of the recent events of taking your solipsism video down, how do you deal with having so many people relying on you to satisfy their egos in so many ways (a good amount of it being toxic)? You could easily becoming a spiritual cult leader / Zen devil with this amount of pull. I deeply respect the fact that you have actively pushed back against this, encouraging others to forge their own spiritual path, instead of marketing yourself as the solution to all of their problems. How can we embody this level of principled leadership and integrity as we begin to take back our personal power .. and become sources of inspiration to others without getting corrupted by our ego?

@supremeyingyang sure, shoot me a direct message.

You act as though progressives are the only ones that do this? To subscribe to any political ideology is to bitch and moan about the other party is doing / not doing (be it democrats, conservatives, progressives, etc). This is what politics is about.

Leo doesn't owe us anything, honestly.

Healthy relationships are. No one is denying healthy relationships are possible. But you'd also need to be realistic that there are many toxic, and unhealthy relationships that exist in society .. maybe even more so.

You guys are missing the point .. it's much more nuanced. Men and women often have mediocre relationships, with a sex life that is dry. In many cases, they'll resort to porn or dildo's over cheating on their partner (if they have an ounce of integrity). People settle for low-grade relationships and marriages more than you think. A benefit of porn and dildos (for single people and incels) is that you get your physical needs met, without the emotional component that leads to heartbreak, codependency and toxicity. I'm not saying one is better than the other, but there is no one-size-fits-all way of thinking that you can readily rely on.

The counter-intuitive thing is we often think the addiction is the problem. But it's the guilt that follows the activity in that keeps you in a vicious cycle. Stop feeling bad about falling off the wagon from time to time. Also .. we need to stop categorizing things as an "addiction" so readily. Being addicted has two main traits: An inability to stop after repeated attempts. Participating in activity causes physical, mental, spiritual, financial and emotional harm to self and others. I find rarely that occasional jerking off to porn results in the above. Make sure you are not being influence by societal programming that tells you expressing your sexuality is a bad thing. Healthy men are born horny .. we are designed to sow our seeds indiscriminately .. porn is often a healthy outlet to these (natural) animalistic cravings.

Thanks for the interest guys. My LP is to empower children globally by providing resources to parents that will help them consciously raising their kids .. thus creating a more wholesome society free of childhood trauma. I was recently certified as a Family Life Coach .. with a specialty in parenting. I plan creating courses and a learning center .. as well as private coaching services.

this is all you need to make the right decision. You are most likely worried about how other's will perceive this change. The mind is sneaking this way .. I struggle with worrying about how other's will perceive my decisions as well.

^ The framing of this question is the problem. Humans cannot confirm these things .. only YOU can.

Smart decision @Leo Gura Truth be told, when One arrives at Truth .. they have to integrate the painful realization that what they have discovered cannot ever be shared with any other conscious being outside of themselves. At the end of the day, what you call "other people" (along with their experiences) are literally being constructed by your Mind. Those who have gone deep have recognized this a long time ago.

Yeah .. and unfortunately there's no magic pill humans can take to acquire the grit and hustle to do this.

@Leo Gura seems as though psychedelic use does not guarantee full God-realization in every instance. I wonder what does? ..well aware that whatever it is , is not associated with some biological/genetic mechanism. (science being an ego-ic construction).

Only when that comfort will prevent physical and/or psychological harm to self and others. Most of the time comfort is there to protect limited belief systems, which is not the same to what is mentioned above. The opposite of comfort is to be open to an unknown circumstance in the future.

No need to suppress it, focus only on transcending it by deconstructing its narrative.

How do you scheme to escape wage slavery? Im not a fan of the word scheme, I like to think of it as strategizing. For me, it’s finding a life purpose which is grounded in helping mankind (luckily I have found it), then finding a way to pay my bills with it (difficult part).

Notice how you are imagining these two camps. On the simple grounds that each of these camps are being imagined, there is no difference between the two. The more you try get of this through endless word games, the faster you dig yourself deeper into mental masturbation. Stop imagining differences between things, and you’ll maybe get somewhere.

Pluses: physical attractiveness (relative to my standards), feminine, sexual chemistry, loyal and a good communicator

Getting good at being counterintuitive is the efficiency in diagnosing your selfishness and self bias in everyday decisions and perspective taking on reality. This is damn hard to do, but you become quite magical if you can do it.

Not into to her enough to marry and have kids though?

The consequence would be you expressing your desire for a relationship, when she is not ready. This is a sure fired way to lower her attraction. Women don't want it easy when it comes to the pursuit of a man's heart.