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  1. @Tech36363 Hi, be open and you will meet people you seek for, they arent open to you, if you are closed to them. One example of many sites https://beherenownetwork.com/ @Nahm ❤️? https://www.actualityofbeing.com/ Was the one helping me, after some period with some baby steps first, then more advanced trial and error ... tada begun slowly adjust to be able "meet" more people in a another level and also able find some new friends. Yes, it was terrifying a while..
  2. @The Mystical Man Wow thank you for eye opener. He is awesome, had not understand what he speaks about, then was young and saw his movies. Now i will watch his movies again Amazing!
  3. @Village Thank you ❤️ That was perfect, it will for sure, help reduce intake towards zero faster.
  4. More good habits, food, exercise, let go of negative thoughts(various ways), less stress and more creativity. I had many addictions and ended them in various ways, also started to be more conscious about, why and what substances i still use. If you ask me, i would say all addictions, fading eventually by it self. Coffee have different taste and flavor. Choice of brand, change strength and quality to be conscious coffee drinker Drink less coffee when it is black and feel the sort, change sorts, test new sorts, for not drink by slentrian. Makes each cup "worth" more for well being, even if there are pros and cons with coffee. There are ways to do every cup more "healthy", in other ways than just drink a cup of coffee I am minimize coffee by it self, because it taste less good for each year. Drink whatever coffee for the socially connection, then are coffee really good and are boosting the health
  5. @Seven7 A break up can be a opportunity, to be alone and grow with the one, you have closest, before searching for a new relationship
  6. @Roy Let go of suffering: Age 2.5 Fostercare Age 7 Social workers gave Biological-mom back custody, for me, not my older sister, so i almost moved to complete stranger alone, left mates in 1:grade class and begun 2:grade class, yep insane.. Stepfather got cancer after 6 months...about after 12 months i been there or so, he died= mom druglife again, OD= i did call. + bunch of adventures during 1.5 years. Aha.. first time i was drunk + cigarettes was then was 8 years old... With mom and her friend+ was at adventure with her friends hiding from social workers a couple of weeks, shit got crazy, The A-Team was showing me their lifestyle.. That was the start for a long adventure. Let go of suffering and live life whatever age. Better it gets, better it gets.. Teal Swan have a lot helpful solutions for complex c-ptsd. I returned to fostercare family, not a child that came back. Age 38....Actualized.org / Leo's Videos I am comfortable, i wish i could write the way i talk native.
  7. @Lemar98 Welcome to the forum Hearth vs Money = Balance Help someone are not always easy. If a homeless ask for money, are this person going to be able use them in a way that not lead into more suffering? If you give money that day, you find out if needs clothes or food are important for example. Can make an difference what you sense then help someone. Who knows, buy a coffee and share and care time can be in the long run what heals the most. Maybe
  8. @ivankiss Thank you for sharing Wonderful. Glad on your behalf. Awesome list, impressing how you distilled, so much important into a readable short list. These kind of summarizing are something i would like to have done a long time. Will save yours and maybe use some of it and remodel some into what suits my situation or period in life. This forum are amazing.
  9. I have used ADHD meds during "re-program" all the trillion dopamine thing brain can use as source. This is a long story short. So i choose one solution for deal with the many problems, to solve the dopamine source "meds", so brain let go of seeking and instead start able get focus to do something about it in the long run. But it was necessary to take a big break reset and stop doing almost everything fun, that was mostly distractions from what ego ,knows are towards a change and death are coming... again...again and The need feeling for meds are slowly fading, all changes that done makes it fading automatic, but it has been a struggle and process to keep the "needs" stable.
  10. @Eternal Unity Ye What Can We Learn from Nelson Mandela's Life - by Sadhguru Hero of humanity = Freedom fighter = 26,5 years in prison
  11. @SonataAllegro Hmm.. Advanced power point, make maybe videos, that you can use as complement? Video bundle. Charity page, legit, active since many year. Super nice bundles comes and goes. Depends what in the bundle, but totally around 15$ - 25$. Humble Software Bundle: VEGAS Pro - Discover your endless freedom Main page: www.humblebundle.com Direct link: https://www.humblebundle.com/software/vegas-pro-discover-your-endless-freedom-software?hmb_source=&hmb_medium=product_tile&hmb_campaign=mosaic_section_1_layout_index_1_layout_type_threes_tile_index_1_c_vegaspro_discoveryourendlessfreedom_softwarebundle
  12. @SonataAllegro Admire your attitude! Wow, ye i totally got stunned. I dont know, not a clue. A chair, duck tape, picture tell the rest , best idea i could find out then brainstormed I say to people that we might have to focus, help younger generation before they fall into.. ye that indoctrination la viva logic. Some kind of play, learn and get a carrot. Teamwork, group dynamics? @integral Awesome
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  14. Great important topic and wonderful responses in various post It can be healthy doing a "relapse" to bring up suppressed stuff or get a slap reminder, so can stop the romantics how it was back then, and work with left over crumbs that need attention to be able move on. Turn your past into experience and able use it as balanced tools for your self and others, instead of get triggered and wake up after a couple of party weeks or longer for example..
  15. @Flowerfaeiry Thank you for sharing Was in this track my self last 2 hours, then i had to remember my self, how much joy there is many more days, that never had been so profound without done personal development, to be able appreciate the nuances
  16. @Hap E-Boi
  17. @Hap E-Boi Glad to hear you made it and now are here and can share. Courage! Wonderful and a perfect perspective, for them who not understand, from own similar experience them self
  18. @Carl-Richard Nice approach I wonder how many that would actually being judge her as a psychopath, if there was an blind test. It would be interesting to meet her irl and see how that would be from an non judge - mental interview. @integral Got that feeling too, that i cant be sure, and definitely not going too judge her be a psychopath when not sure, what is an psychopath, do we know for sure? What is really truth after all credulity and cruelty, man kind have produced and introduced on each other with all the righteous preaching. She sounds have same kind of attitude that many grows in this forum, kind of neglect or block their emotions, as society in generations forced towards to be the standard framed "workaholic good citizen", la viva the logic intellectual mind and pho pho all emotional behavior as weakness. Who knows, she maybe are an unconscious enlighten being. Who knows maybe fully aware and playing the game, so she can move around and make a change from the inside. I dont know, just an perspective. Felt as an rant write this. Take care, stay safe and remember social distance during summertime. Hugh and intimacy was more or less endangered before pandemic, now Hughs are more or less prohibited and intimacy are on the list for basic survival need, lets make virtual hugs at least.
  19. Speak Truth in a dominated Ego world= It takes a lot of to navigate openly, and to survive in society, there are a game that lacks some features, that makes it pretty interesting, when not even want use a small white lie, to solve day-to-day moments.