WonderSeeker

That's what cucks are for @Jirh I appreciate your inquisitive nature, but dude stop taking everything too seriously. Can you not see this thread is fucking hilarious and join in on the fun? I say this cuz I used to be just like you. Learn to embody other parts of you, silly parts. Not just the serious interviewer. Hope this helps~

The older you get the easier it is. Sex becomes less of a big deal, therefore there is no needieness for them to sniff off you. ---- Also ever since learning about impermanence, I realized she is not the same person the next day. So when we bang she is actually an entirely new person. Now my body count is super super high. Go me! Yes but... where I am, pizza shops are hard to come by. Gonna have to do twice-cooked spicy pork and rice off a plate instead. Might get messy. Will let you know the results ! !

Skip steps 1-4. Time is of the essence. Step 5, but like a machine gun. Step 6, devour pizza off of her whole doing step 5. Step 7, only if you wanna ring on it.

America is a 3rd world country when it comes to dating. Move to Asia or South America. Boom! Good times (and an STD or two) ahead!

Not even trying. Just am. Work. Friends of friends. Being a regular at different places. By accident. The contrast really is stark. I've been to Mongolia and Korea. The level of ailienness in those places was high, but China is straight up out of this world. I use a plant analogy. China grew out of a totally different part of the world, yes with some connection to other places, but not much integration. They self-integrated. Then Europe rose, followed by America; those places are their own plants, albeit in the same garden. The sprouted with different fruits to bear. ----- I don't know where you are in your life, but I'd turn Tibet into a whole spiritual pilgrimage. Place is mystical by it's very nature.

This is probably niche for this forum. But in 2 months I'll be moving to Chengdu 成都 Is there anybody on the forum who has lived in China before or is currently living in China? For those who haven't heard, living abroad is a great opportunity if you're: young, open-minded, want to flip the bird to corporate, tired of watching your country deteriorate, ready to get your pre-programmed cultural paradigms shattered without trying, eager to live somewhere that's on the rise, and already 30 years into the future. For me I've been living and teaching English in Korea for the past year. It's been an epic experience, but after doing 50+ hours of deep research, I decided on moving to China. After another 20 hours of militant outreaech, I landed a job there. The best part is, this move is allowing me to: make 2x my Korean salary starting out, live in an apartment that would easily cost $3,000/month in the US, but only $415 in China, have the opportunity to learn the 2nd most spoken language in the world straight from the source, experience more exotic dating opportunities (it's so fascinating experiencing how sexually and relationally different things are out here). After doing lots of reasearch and experiencing things firsthand, I found that the US distorts reality when it comes to east Asia. It over-glorifies Korea and Japan (naturally because they are 2 of its major far-east vassel states) and straight up demonizes China, acting like its a communist hell-hole. Based on firsthand, Korea is highly uncultured and materialistic. I mean, there is a culture, but it is 100% trends and K-nonsense. I haven't been to China yet, but I've personally watched over a dozen videos of creators essentially saying, "yeah, it's not perfect like any place, but overall it has world-class convenience, it feels extremely safe, and the west's portrayal of it is total propaganda." Again this is probably a niche post for this forum. I've been in my own bubble of researching and making this my life, because I've had the best time living exotic lifestyles in my 20s. I've had the good fortune of spending over a month in Mongolia and Alaska, almost a full year in South Korea, and multiple years in several US states. All before age 30. Nevertheless I'm putting this out there to see if any of you know about this opportunity. Cheers!

Woo hoo! 🥳 I havent watched porn since the first week of July 2026. I've been wanting to stop for several months now because I ultimately want to make everything in my life as natural as possible and take less 'fast-food' versions of everything. Fast food version of sex = porn, for example But breaking the inertia of watching porn 2-4x a week wasn't easy. The reason I was able to do it is I chose a meaningful mission that included porn sobriety: my recent move to China. I told myself: "once you move there, you will enter dating abundance." Which would make watching porn essentially like eating cheesy fried chicken right after drinking a green smoothie. The two don't compute. Well? Since arriving here I already found a lover and we've been having all kinds of fun. I haven't even gone clubbing or tried Tantan yet (which will open Pandora's box if I so desire. But now I'm finding that I am rediscovering my own authentic sexuality and how sex works from scratch after breaking the psychic hypnosis porn puts you in. It's a beautiful thing, though it has its challenges. Just like how a Coca-Cola gives you an instant sugar high, porn can yet you to cum within seconds. Now when I please myself or get with my hunny, I find getting hard and staying there takes more foreplay and effort. But more effort isn't a problem; you gain authentic connection to yourself this way. Where are y'all at with digital sex entertainment? I'm done for life.

After finishing the women usually get all curious and playful about our bodies and ask all sorts of questions about life. At least in my experience. I just throw a blanket on her and she curls up and we just chat and connect. I think it's just a natural afterglow/aftereffect. Am I the only one? Bro, I had that happen once too and I saw fucking planets and galaxies while it was happening. Some celestial shit. Let's us know what happens when you start exploring tantra.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Asian_baby_girl Just looked it up. No ABGs! We speak 95% English and little Mandarin (she's helping me learn some new words, like 性感 and 牛逼，heheh). It's really worthwhile. Americans and Canadians can still visit China visa-free until the end of this year. (Hopefully they extend this option into future years).

Social momentum is a real thing. I don't have a natural talent for conversation. I just allow myself to start at a 1 or 2 and work my way up to a 6 or 7 after a couple hours, and finally a 9 or 10 after several hours.

Alabaster Girl is in my top 3 books of all time. Not just game books, top 3 books period. Must read for ALL men. What was it like for your buddy that worked for him? Sounds like a phenomenal opportunity.

Cool! The forum really is a great opportunity for networking. Even better when you meet them in person.

We only started hooking up a week ago. Each time has been better and better. Deeper connection. Smoother chemistry. We're feeding off each other nicely. The post-sex bonding has also been quite nice. It's actually a nice cherry on top. Do you find that as well?

Not a topic, but... It's just that after reading 100 books on all the intellectual stuff Leo talks about it's all falling by the wayside and I'm finding life have to be lived now. Reading books is hard because I'd rather live and learn then read and apply. After a while you know too much and you need to burn the books and go outside.

Why aren't there squatty potties in the USA? All my life I've been taking my shoes off and squatting on raised, round toilet bowls because I can't take a shit while sitting. Then I move to China and it's all squat pots and it's like all my problems were solved.

Took a nice shit this morning.

For me it wasn't my college major in particular that was important. Just having a bachelor's degree in general opens the door to all kinds of work worldwide. It's why I was able to move to South Korea and then China with relative ease. Also, college teaches you a lot of things that have nothing to do with the classes themselves that are worth the value in my opinion. Even though the debt has been a problem for me, I wouldn't have achieved the level I am at now because I basically lived/mastered my academic mind to the point where I only exercise it when needed instead of overusing it all of the time. Those are my thoughts.

Good for you. I've been wanting to it for some time. I only keep Instagram because it's the only way I can stay in touch with a big chunk of my network. 1 year ago I deleted LinkedIn, Facebook, and Twitter (thank God)

Sometimes. But in your case, I'd say be less analytical. Like when you started analyzing why that one club wasn't good. Analyzing why never brings you up, it only continues the toilet drain vibes. I'd have bounced from that club straight away and opened a new set without thinking.

@trenton Is it that you want something intellectual? Or is that just your defense, and once you get past that you find yourself craving something soft (life the soft touch on the cat's head in your profile photo). I resonate with your situation, although I don't think it's as extreme for me. Honestly, when I dove beneath the surface, I found I was craving more feminine women in my life. I don't know where you live, but for me, in America, all the women are masculine these days and it's a huge turn-off for me. It makes approaching them in authentic because I don't even resonate with the vibes 99% of them are giving off. In Asia, the women are feminine, sweet, and open. I've easily had my best relationships here. Places like China in Asia, or Colombia in South America might suit you. The former has for me.

Some of that is true. There's a plaza near where I live in Chengdu that's not even 3 years old that has a bunch of cracked tiles, I guess from cars driving on them. When you walk by you can see they are thin and brittle. Otherwise China is extremely convenient, efficient, and fun to be in. I am already much happier here than in America. Friends and ladies are easy to come by, and everything is very affordable.

This guy is impressive. I haven't felt this much hope for a candidate in American politics since Bernie in 2016. He's also a great example of healthy masculinity.

Success can be driven by a vast number of things. But to keep it simple, it can be driven either by low, egoic needs, or higher, more purposeful, more inclusive needs. Not just by unhappiness. That's silly.

If hotness is the only thing you care about when it comes to dating then you are missing the emotional, intellectual, and spiritual satisfaction you can have with a woman. I find the hottest ones are usually the shallowest. This is not a blanket rule, but that's been my consistent observation. From up close and afar. An 8/10 looks woman with a 10/10 personality blasts a 10/10 looks woman with a 8/10 personality out of the water every time for me. Because society's 10/10 in looks I actually find borderline ugly. Also, a poor personality can't make up for great looks (and it is nowhere near a cope to say that).

At least in Sweden you guys have multiple parties on the left. In America the 2-party system fucks us every 4 years with a choice between lesser evils.