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Yeah, this one was ridiculously obvious. She told you. Extremely creepy behaviour.

Video games are quite popular among women these days too, that’s true, but I would still think it’s way more unattractive than attractive among most women. Video games is probably the main thing that this new generation of highly unattractive men have been doing way too much in their lives. Minecraft is also a very man-dominated game, as far as I’ve understood. When you first do something pretty socially weird/unusual as to approach a girl during daytime, and then immediately start talking about video games, you will give off the vibe that you’ve been inside your house, playing video games all your life and have now lost all sense of social norms.

Even though it was hurtful, you should be thankful for this experience. I'm sorry to say, but if this was you being authentic, your interests are too unattractive and this needs to change if you want decent results. The more you realize how unattractive geeky stuff like Minecraft is, the more of a distaste you'll develop for it, and this will make you more attractive. Start developing a taste for more attractive stuff.

It probably gets most guys laid, but not that often. What he's saying is that guys who never get laid, like virgins, incels, etc. are like this mainly because they haven't been social enough in their lives.

For me it's actually trying to do anything other than being myself.

Why? It’s a very common way to get a partner here in Norway. I met my best friend there, and two other close friends of mine met their girlfriends there and they are both happy fathers now.

Yes, I have, several times. Amazing stuff! I have Asperger's and am at a very low spiritual level, so getting to know my body is way more appealing than leaving it for the time being

No, that's not what I meant. Sorry if it looked that way. I have absolutely no problem with Leo covering topics I'm not interested or don't see the value in (yet). This doesn't seem to be the case for you...

All the women who are affected by it too?

I don't find Infinity, God-Consciousness or abstraction interesting at all, so if it was up to me, it would be the opposite... Do you think it would be better for the world if guys like me instead of learning from Leo, ended up in the clutches of a guy like Andrew Tate?

I rarely see anybody make threads about this, which kind of concerns me... It seems like the big problem for most people is to actually get dates. For me this is not a problem at all. For me, the big problem is succeeding at the dates I go on. It took me around 40 dates until I finally found a girl who liked me back. Things have been going better since then, but most of my dates still fail. Flirting is usually nearly impossible, since the girl usually doesn't flirt back at all and just seems to want to have a regular logical conversation. Is this normal? One thing I find very undercommunicated is the difference between how a man should act during a cold approach vs. on an actual date. My impression is that most of pickup advise goes out the window on dates. I have for example seen infield videos by Todd V (who seems to have a pretty high standing on this forum) where he's picking up girls and videos where he's being on dates, and he acts completely different.

Makes a lot of sense! This must be the reason why all the dating advises I try to apply usually backfire, even though I try to balance them with authenticity. I also have a hard time relating to some of the struggles many guys seem to deal with, like for example being perceived as too nice by women.

I’ve been evaluated at a hospital for several months.

I usually have fun on my dates. When I go home, on the other hand, and just know that no matter how good i think it all went (with a lot of laughter, kissing etc.) she most likely doesn't want to see me again and definitely not sleep with me. That's hell. Out of all the 60-70 girls I've gone out with, I've only slept with one who I didn't sleep with on the first date. In my experience it's absolutely not worth asking for a second date if nothing sexual happens on the first.

I was diagnosed with Asperger's today. I guess the mystery is finally solved...

Not if we're talking nightgame. If you stick with a girl long enough, she sooner or later wants to dance. Since Norwegian girls also don't go on dates with men they don’t know well or haven’t met through a dating app, grabbing her phone number is absolutely worthless.

Is man-woman relationship illegal in the West now?

These men spend way too much time watching the wrong videos on Youtube, like this one. I used to be one of those. Being exposed to too many horror examples, like the girl in this video, brainwashes you into believing the world is a much much worse and dangerous place than it actually is.

A conservative person will interpret feminism as man-hate, and he will be really good at cherry-picking proof which makes him think he's right. I have been very conservative in the past, so it's very obvious for me that this was the case for my parts. There will also obviously be more demonization of feminism in a country, the more conservative it is. This can easily leave you with a false impression of feminism being generally more extreme in countries like The US and Spain than here in Norway, where demonization of feminism is completely invisible in comparison, even though Norway is a more progressive country. This happens because the two first counties have bigger populations, and on average more conservatism and excellent cherry-picking of toxic examples.

This is so true. I've failed and suffered a lot because I didn't really understand this until very recently.

I'm sorry. That was not what I meant. What I meant is that your problem is not that feminists hate men (and therefore you). Your problem is that you hate feminists and it's causing you a lot of suffering. I was like this some years ago and it's the worst part of my life to think back on. It was truly hell. Luckily it didn't take too long for me to realize I was wrong and get over it.

How are you going to inspire anyone here to follow you in this crusade against the "evil feminists" when you act like this towards people who are just trying to help you, with a trollface profile pic? Not a very smart way to go about it, is it?

@mr_engineer I recommended you the book "Loving what is" last week. If you read that book and do the work, you will also realize that you actually have this man-hating stuff all backwards, which is pretty much always the case when we're angry and upset at someone and suffer because of it.

I know, but feminists are very rarely man-haters. So rarely that it shouldn't bother you at all. That's what I finally realized. I've lived in a very feminist society all my life, but the closest things to "man-hate" I've ever witnessed have all been online, usually cherrypicked by American right-wingers. Just like right-wingers focus so ridiculously much on muslim terrorists, compared to the muslims who aren't terrorists, which are the vast majority.

@mr_engineer It's so easy to get right-wing radicalized online these days. I've been just like you are now, but thankfully it didn't last long. Start getting very critical of how representative these man-hate horror examples of yours really are.