Meetjoeblack

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  1. I don't think any of them have it figured out. Tomassi has broken down gender dynamics quite a bit. Culture is malleable. Whatever society and the culture pushes, people follow blindly. Can you link? Is it a business or youtube? As for your comment, "always go for the fuck boys," its their choice. Whatever. Who cares? My only pushback is that, when Chad's and alpha stop calling, man up isn't a argument. The Dicaprio affect for example. Gervais pot shots at dicaprio as its less flattering than white picket fence with women his age. For real if he's pushing 50 crushing girls 18-25, that's his choice the same way young girls want to chase alpha. Its savage. Its evolution. I agree, red pill hadn't figured it out but nor is play homemaker as Chad stops calling. I will check seductive instinct. As a side note, you can tell who the protected class is by who you cannot criticise. - Molyneux. He is correct. I watched Aubrey and Tomassi talk Dating. He couldn't date in high school. Makes it to the mlb and it all changes conveniently.
  2. If divorce is over 50 % and if 80% of divorce initiated by women, why would any sane man do it? Its no prerequisite. You don't need it to survive. Nobody is waiting till marriage in the degenerate society we live in. At 39. You have gone X amount of time without marriage. You can buy something nice like a house or a car or even save that for something productive. Jeff Bozo is the richest man in the world for amazon. The richest woman is his ex wife due to divorce lol. Don't do it!
  3. That's the dicaprio affect. Gervais had a field day roasting Leo that after the Oscars, it takes so long Leo's dates will be too old for him. Hilarious bid.
  4. There's reality and the delusions society pushes. Search up divorce stats. Stats on gender. Look up You can't have a honest discussion today without censorship of ideas. Who is collectivist? Who supports socialism? Communism? What makes up the welfare state?
  5. Pick accounting. You can work in financing with accounting but not visa versa. Pick up useful electives. Learn to code. YouTube Aaron Clarey. He picked financing. Recommended account by the fact that you can work remote more than in financing. You can learn marketing without the degree. If you pick a degree, go accounting. Entrepreneurs usually having littlest edu or coding, comp sci or engineering backgrounds. More annoying is that many profs teachers haven't succeeded on the field. They work as a teacher like himym mosby having failed in the career. See what you like but check Aaron Clarey out on YouTube. I read his book worthless. Most degrees are garbage. Pick STEM or trades or accounting. There's many aspects of accounting not just book keeping which isn't actually accounting. You sound lazy wanting to avoid math. I was not good at it but I busted my ass. Do the same. Consider learning to code. My buddy is in marketing but he learned to code. Its a amplifier in the job market. He's a jack of all trades. Master of none. Your aimed salary is not even close to hid bonus lol. Go where the money is. Another buddy is a DNOMAD. Internet marketing guy. Works from a laptop. Highest edu level is high school. He's nit rich. Makes more than the salary yiu aimed for in usd. Works anywhere in the world. Answers to nobody but no pension, no social skills or gf and wife. Its a5 a cost. Nothings free. Good luck. Make sure you network. Its not just what you know. Its who you know too.
  6. I am willing to go through hell fire to make it happen. I don't care. You shouldn't either. Don't worry about it. Its just a excuse. A reason to settle for mediocrity.
  7. I enjoyed Neil Patel and others like Eben Pagan. There's a lot of guys who are snake oil salesman. Guys like tai lopez. Be warned. Most are selling you on how to sell. A lot of drop shipping and garbage courses. If you have any experience with sales, you can make a lot of money.
  8. Welcome to my world. Entrepreneurship seems like a cool career choice but little to no room for error. I can't break or breach content but if you're going through it, you hear the the story. It is messy, bumpy and frustrating. I love the course. I have high hopes that it produces but I suspect it will be a while before I see results. My ego wants it now. I think we need to go through hell fire to make our dreams come true. When that happens, I will scream up the forum and i will repay @Leo Gura tenfold. After a psychedelic mushroom trip, everything i saw was through child-like eyes AGAIN. it is a lens in which we should all explore this life. It is so easy to Grow jaded, bitter, and resentful. If not a psychedelic trip, explore however you may but child-like. We had so many dreams as a child but life happens, dreams are shattered, rigor of life comes, and dread can set in. Good luck friend. Ps: if you want financial independence aka fuck you money, you're looking at investment banking and gun to the head. By no means am I there but I have pals in similar or other fields. Its nonstop. I am learning about minimalism and how little I need to get by. Lower unnecessary expenses. Most increase earnings but out spend it.
  9. I am banging through the process. I have a question about the course and how to utilise the course and how often? I have bought a corkboard and I am making a vision board. I have some self knowledge and educational pursuits particularly looking at learning a language. In all of the purpose course, i cannot fathom anything but entrepreneurship. It is a awful thing to consider being a employee and company man forever. I liked your story @Leo Gura. It all feels abstract like a random puzzle.
  10. Lmfao i didnt offer her a treat. That's rude lol. You're feisty tonight ?! Its been my experience that stating works better than asking. Asking as if there is a alternative lulz! Furthermore, compliance is king. If i give her instructions and she follows, it translates well inside (and outside) the bedroom. Theres nothing respectable in the game chance.
  11. Lmfao no shit. And, its ok but, you're clearly a sweeter dude then me. You question love in the thread lulz. You crack me up. I had a laugh. Are you familiar with YouTuber Elliot Hulse? He's a Paul Check prodigy. He's a strength camp lifter and trainer. He is no pickup guy. He married his high school sweetheart. He did however collaborate with Rsd Tyler. There's several videos where Elliott says to "breathe into your balls." Note, when you see her or you see the next girl, you can feel out of state or nervous. Breathe into your balls. Ground your self. The reference point is key. Freedom from outcome + intent. Keep me posted bud.
  12. Interestingly enough, a lot of married couples started off with a hookup. They are now married with kids. I find the promiscuity and degenerate society annoying but I think the pendulum is swinging back now. Time will tell. Poly is cuck. Its funny to because its being normalised today and tomorrow people will try to play homemaker. Little do they know, a basic search on the net, and you find all sorts of crap. Its like, why commit when I can Netflix and chill? High body count equals a inability to pair bond. The data and science has been there for ages. Gaslighting and shame follows when pointing out the facts. Bottom line, promiscuity virtually guarantee divorce.
  13. I personally don't care. Its just annoying how much its pushed in the culture today. Even more creepy its pushed onto children. Slinging hormones on children. That's fucked up. Anyways, live your id.
  14. Any update? In future, ASSUME this is it. You won't ever see her again. Act as such. Get digits. You have ZERO control of your outcome. You can only control your actions in the moment. Go for it. Live your truth. No regrets. You want the reference because it won't be the last time you have a experience like this. Seek competence. Lastly, if you don't I will lol. Some other guy is going to and his intention isn't for love lololol. Throw caution to the wind.
  15. Read Way of the superior man by David Deida. Its a superb read. There's a lot of arts about not releasing during. Emphasis on the breathe and dispersing the energy throughout the body. I am reading and learning about it but it is uncommon. If you sit around and fap all day, you are lowering testosterone and just messing within yourself. You can see that same thing in betas. Guys who land their little cherish, they ditch family and friends because they got a happy bubble. You see that in guys who lift with their gf. When you got 18x the testosterone, unless she's on gear, theirs no comparison for the push. Do Leo Gura purpose program. Go workout. Start a business. Get creative. There's a lot more than fap or sex. It clearly had its purpose.
  16. Sex god method my good man.
  17. Search online for the sex god method lololol srs.
  18. Just tell her to give you her #. Lmfao having a sock puppet with a girls name on it isn't love lol. Its a infatuation. You want to smash. Don't over think it. Get her number and proceed. Years ago, i was telling Dij about "this girl." we met. We had a flirt. It was prolonged because of circumstances. She was working or i was. I can't remember BUT, there is no substitute for CHEMISTRY AND INTEREST LEVEL. With that said, GIRLS will make it apparent. Break rapport. Assume that you will NEVER see her again. Act as such. I STATED (not asking) what I was doing. Where I was going. TELL HER COME! She asked, "how do i know if you're going?" i took her number. So, we ran at each other on a beach and lived happily ever after. 2.2 children. Marriage. White picket fence? Hell nah! I flaked. Something came up. I rescheduled. She had a meeting. We reschedule. Finally, we met for drinks. Bro, it was brutal. She was a radical feminist, SJW, rants about patriarchy, rape culture and male privilege lol. I just requested that cheque, didn't pay hers, made out JUST CAUSE, AND I never saw her again. That is, until recently. She saw me with my buddy hitting on other people. My buddy asked after about the tall brunette shooting me daggers lol. Op, its never going to be how you want exactly nor what you want and expect. Do it again for the reference point. In retrospect, it reminded me of MJB coffee shop scene. But the highlight was the pickup and not the interaction thereafter. It was a dead lead BUT I KNOW IT. No mental masturbation. Get her digits. Just be nonchalant about it. Its no biggie. Good luck.
  19. Rsd Tyler mentioned a 6step process. Imho, its far better to integrate it into the way that you are. Its not just needing a fake fucking mustache and wig to do your little routine. Its hardwired into your way of being. In terms of the big 5 personality traits, personality is static. Someone introvert is introverted the way someone extroverted is a extrovert through and through. Yes, you can develop skills and experience but it is why someone natural is such a outlier. Likely, the experience with women was better than say the schmuck who never got play. Rsd Tyler mentioned the baby step approach. Approach all. Minimise time between interaction. Its in polar contrast to the myth of the one. Hitch for example which is garbage. The idea that some fat slob can go find love with a celebrity lol. Its ridiculous. You can succeed. Its just a lot of work. Again, what is the alternative? Tinder is cuck. OLD is lame and its not likely to yield any caliber that's worthwhile on any level. Lots of catfish lol. Do the Jordan Peterson personality test. That or a free one online. It can demonstrate the spectrum of where you reside.
  20. Assume everyone is single till proven otherwise. A lot of girls have orbiters. Don't mistake a soybean, beta, and cucks as her bf. Chat. Approach. Assume attraction. There's data on women who DHV are typically in a relationship. It's a numbers game. Keep exploring. Its a sentiment of wanting what you can't have. Infidelity and cucking is common place in the world especially in the degenerate society we live in. Its not my problem nor my concern if she has a bf or hubby. I just approach. Shut me down. Its been my experience that, if she has a bf, its not even mentioned during her flirting. Any time a girl says bf, its disinterest. Stop caring so much. Chat up everyone. Beyond orange is when you can ho past pickup and just be.
  21. There's a lot soy boys and feminism that counters anything Unflattering to the opposite sex as misogyny. That's not an argument. You posted about a girl who cheater on her hubby. Personally, I don't care much for people like that. The idea of marrying someone out doing ONS is absurd at best. Stefan Molyneux breakdown attacks against himself with his daughter. A group of women on Real Talk girl chat lol call out a group of men racist, sexist and a number of ridiculous claims without any evidence. Ironic, its OK for a group of people to give their 2 cents on men. If men do it, people freak out. Thank god Stefan is educated his daughter from leftist jargon. Classic example of misandry and gaslighting. The following of which is more common in our society. JP is GOAT. Spam (calibrated approaches) is ideal. Think numbers game and volume. Options are the solution to any particular problem. Instead of fixing a solution, more approaching. You can accept reality as it is but there's Unflattering aspects (divorce stats for example) that are telling. The more approaching you do, the more you see it, and the option is to act accordingly with the facts or to be delusional. Its a fork in the road. After a ridiculous amount of approaching, the idea of forever and marriage seems ridiculous. The divorce stats, child custody, and alimony are less than appealing. I think even the most alpha male and dude at the top of the dominance hierarchy, say Dicaprio for example will eventually settle down and start a family. The difference being made in living a life of abundance. Again if your end point is wife and kids, i cannot stress it enough to VET hard. There's a huge difference in wants marriage and baby versus wants to be married with you and wants your babies. Its not the same. Its a savage process to endure and no amount of mental masturbation will do. Everyone's got a opinion. Opinions are like assholes. Everyone's got one. Very few men approach and even fewer are any good at it. Lots have an opinion on the subject despite ZERO experience. Its comical actually. Good luck bro on your endeavour.
  22. Its common place in approaching. As i get older, it is pretty evident that people's lives go different directions. I meet lots of people. I make new friends and dates. A common theme for guys especially younger guys is disappearing the sec their little cherish comes along. Could be days, weekd months or years of no contact. Then, she cheats, ghosts or dumps their ass and the friend needs a pal again. They are soft. If a girl is a flake or a buddy is, you next them. "gett better. Not bitter." - JB Best advice ever. Easier said than done of course.
  23. I've been working at it for a couple years. Assuming attraction gives permission to approach when baseline is cucked, beta, and bitch out while Chad and Tyrone to take her down. The action is immediately, no hesitation, straight line in, and let the chips fall where they may. Interestingly, i have nights where its garbage. I can't get out of my way. Other nights, I'm hank scorpio with the flame thrower and going absolutely insane. Its not to say, i pull all the time but, other nights or says i hit the flow state. Every set just opens. Its a head fuck. One night, i can't get anything done. Its all going through the motions. Likely, its felt on the approach. Generic chatter. Go nowhere. The following night was hank scorpio flame thrower. Approaching machine. Assumed attraction. I ended up in the girls bathroom with a random lol. The night prior i ended up fapping alone. The glow state night, I am getting throated on a random chicks balcony. Chemistry wasn't great. Direct SNL. ONS. The aftermath is... Whatever. She texted me to get home safe. I thanked her. Never seen her again lulz. Its fucked to say that. To live it when prior, i was beta. I paid for dates. I needed a emotional connection. I wanted a family wife and kids. Maybe i still do. I am seeing a lot of people who are following the beaten path. The homemaker route because its time, what society says versus knowing it yourself. @Chew211, good stuff. Be warned by the darker side of the game. You see a lot infidelity cucking, and randomness. Game is red Pilling. I have a preference in age range. I also recognise that difference in "wants baby and marriage" vs "wants my baby and to marry me." there's a savage elements in dating and game by both men and women. You see LMR between the beta. Its not something Chad's or Tyrone experience. Furthermore, in the ers of metoo, LMR destroyers are asking for trouble. I don't play at it. There's no ambiguity around female desire. Genuinely desiring you. 3 or whatever date rules don't apply for genuine desire. Good luck to you man. What are you seeking from the following approaches? I wanted a wife originally. Now I am unsure.