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One of the generalizations ill make again can be seen in the thread here. Women more collectivist and guys, more disagreeable even amongst each other. Its fascinating to when looking at politics and orange man bad. Women Liberal early twenties. When her hubby is rich or well off, she's suddenly conservative lol Studying STEM vs Liberal arts or gender studies. The student debt affects more women then men. Shockingly itd political talking point. Not sure it would be if it were more dudes on the hook. The divorce stats are terrifying. Find any stat and its not good or flattering. We can all agree weinstein and Cosby are pieces of shit. A Unflattering point nobody talks about is the girls showing up to weinsteind place for parts IN EXCHANGE FOR WHAT? SOMEONE RIDDLE ME THIS? There's some nasty behaviour in men and women. Men are demonised. If you call out disgusting behaviour of women, you hate all women. Scream misogyny and whatever else. Facts or feels lol. The response is a strawman argument. There are women i dislike for whatever reason. Dij/Anna1 is my friend regardless of a topic, this or that. I have other friends. Even the girl I introduced to my buddy who was going nuts being a jump off. She just ruined it with my buddy and he's Dating a young hot girl. I am still her friend but she's a train wreck. Its just common theme in the modern era. Men and women have different strengths and weaknesses. Again, we're better together than apart. The Internet is very telling as is metrics and analytics on a number of things. I have found with "game," i much prefer rejection over a fence sitter /maybe /ambiguity. I next lol. More approaching! A really telling piece of reality, watch JRE and Peterson talk female hypergamy. Its on YouTube and everything not pc is deplatformed or demonetized. They scratch the surface. Its a bit more SAVAGE. Interestingly enough, its hind brain. Its dated behaviour but yet still applicable today. Jeff Bozo is the richest man on the planet. His ex is now the richest woman due to divorce rape.

Man, its ludicrous these days. Skeptical panda is skeptical lol.

Lol when I was beta, I would still be scratching my head on that one. Head followed by ghosting. Oh, there was a happy ending. Great times. Perplexing good times lol I've shared my shenanigans with Dij, the good, the bad, and the ugly. I am learning to laugh more. I suppose. Again, its not ideal. I am still grateful for that experience given, if not having learned, I would be worse off imho. If married, if we were married, i wouldn't be approaching anymore. I am a bachelor. I am enjoying it give my single status. Since hitting my stride, I've become a lot less agreeable with Dating and in general. Its not the path I would have preferred but again, what's the alternative?

Giving a fuck is overrated. Agreeableness is not ideal. Sometimes, people like me and other times, people dont, and I don't care. Stop caring.

So, i introduced my buddy to a girl I'm friends with. I'm friends with both. If my sister was alive, I'd introduce him to her. He's the best man i know. My generation doesn't do this. I thought I would. They match on app. Great right? She messages him. He messages her. Good right. No! Radio silence. Nodda. She's in the city living the sex and the city Lifestyle. Jumping of random guys, chasing sociopaths and it didn't end well. 30+ Chad/Tyrone stopped calling. My buddy met a young girl. She pursued nonstop. She's PROPER, beautiful, intelligent, dedicated to my buddy. She's a only child. Nuclear family. Great relationship with her father. Isn't out jumping off guys. She wants to get married, to be a wife, a mother, and have a family over everything. Moreover, she wants to be married to my buddy, to take his name, to be his wife and have HIS KIDS. The other girl then asks about him lol. She blew it. Its the same old story told again and again. Its her life. Do what ever you want. Yolo. Live it up. She's on route to spinster. Good luck. Its like night and day in contrasting the two. The older i get, the more patterns i see, and pick up (lol) on. Its night and day. Weird seeing that happen with my buddy. He's good looking, girls like him and yet still weirdness occurs BUT it all worked out fine lol for him. I've seen the following occur. Girls look me up after ages. The thought process is that, I'm the same guy as i was before. I am not. Guy or girl, everyone's free to live their life however they see fit without breaking the law lol. Its ridiculous to deem there's no fallout or sacrifice and consequences for our actions.

Why a girlfriend? Why not multiple? Foolish in assuming a gf will bring you happiness. Happiness being based upon XYZ factor rather than just being. Better results = higher SMV.

Not real life. There's another article. Non financially available men for marriage. Cliff notes. Wants men that make 58% more. There's another. Higher divorce stat for sharing household chores. People aren't waiting till marriage. Netflix and chill is empowering in 2020. The marriage rates are in decline. Another stat said 2/3 divorces initiated. Again, there's some really Unflattering reality for people to see. Screaming misogyny isn't an argument.

Its my truth. Less than appealing but. lol when young and dumb! I'm not mature. I try my best. Were still friends even if you disagree with me. It hope you're right. and I'll share when I do get there! <3

Ugh my post didn't save. She is my friend. I don't hate on her or women. When I bring up a divorce stat or something less flattering, it tends upset people. Being offensive just cause is stupid. Leo got called out for generalizing. Stats don't give a full picture but we can agree its alarming.

Its savage. You're definitely not missing much. A friend of mine got cucked by his wife. Recently, he found out that his child isn't his. I felt like puking when I heard that. Friends and I keep checking in on him to make sure he's OK and doesn't end it all. There's some shit I've seen and heard and I wish I didn't. Ironically enough, i starting out with the end on mind, learn game in pursuit of a wife and kids. I still do but in no rush.

Independence is fine. I draw a line at ambiguity. Maybe when blue pill. I imagine Leo has vids on love and the science behind it. Sure? Maybe? I don't know. I read a new earth by eckhart tolle ages ago. In it, he speaks about the two phrases for "I love you. " one is less common then the other. He argued its likely rarer for love. Family is important to me. I started my journey in pursuit of the following. Its here I am forced to see things contrary to popular opinion. Signing up for my own cucking in the name of love is a false dilemma.

I think its subjective. In keeping with my point, I went to learn game with the end in mind. To find a wife. Society has a blue pill, happily ever after. Red pill as analogy from matrix. The illusion versus reality. There's a huge number of guys destroyed in divorce court. Its terrifying. I don't know what a solution is but I can state a outrageous amount of married women have invited me over the last few years. Sent nudes. No ambiguity. Its not what I want. There's memes, "Karen took the kids." funny but not funny. One of the red pill truths being that there's no ambivalence on desire. She either desires me or doesn't. If i text, does she respond? If we have plans, does she come? There's no 3 date rule for desire. I went home with a girl. I was 25. She was 18 or 19. There's no question for desire. Its weird now looking back. It almost feels like another lifetime. Last point, I notice the best relationships, the girl was committed early. There's a diff in wants marriage and babies or wants my baby and marriage to me. There's no substitute for genuine desire.

Lol Everyone wants to hedge their bets. Hopefully, you're sorted out on that area now. I am working on it.

I would have preferred a natural way to find a girl. It is not topic for my friend's and family. Again, what's the alternative? My parents met through friends. My generation doesn't do this often if st all. Everything is tinder or social media which is nothing short of cucked. Pareto principle 80/20. 80% sleeping with the top 20% of men. IMHO its far worse. I would have preferred to met a girl, start a life together travel, build a foundation, get married, wife, and kids. A dog. White picket fence lol. I took girls out. I bought dinner. I was the biggest beta. I was blue pill. I couldn't understand why if i "did everything right," why is my high school crush sleeping with the asshole? Why is my college crush a single mom and still chasing the guy who made her a side piece? And then i learned game. I got red pilled. I want a wife and kids. I started the process with the end in mind. I don't wonder what if? I approach. I chat. I see who likes me and i exercise deductive reasoning. If flakey, dodgy, any resistance, i am out. No bf destroyer. No. LMR. DESIRE! Any ambiguity can be a false allegations in the future so, I'm out. Any combative, man hating, any rhetoric on toxic masculinity, feminism, any father hate, bpd, crazy etc I'm out. If you aren't interested, that's completely fine and your choice. Its your life. Yolo. Live it up. Imho men and women are better together than apart. I keep learning. I have not figured it out yet. I have seen some stuff and it really is wild. I would go as far to say, much of the ideologies and things pretending to have women's best interests at hand are lie. I know far too many girls who chaser the career and bad boys through 20s. It doesn’t end well but to each their own. With approaching the biggest red pill is knowing success or lack thereof is on SMV, looks, money, height resources, game etc. Decaprio is a classic example. If i am better looking, taller, bigger horn lol, morr money, social status game, etc life is on easy mode. Another red pill, wildest nights were not ladies nights or some random event. Its a night running into a group of girls on a bachelorette party regardless of LTR or marriage status. The darker side of game is just seeing reality as it is. Anybody can mental masturbate. Anyways, good chatting. I am still figuring it. I got ghosted on once after getting head. Lol I don't try to understand anymore. The show must go on.

https://www.divorcesource.com/blog/why-women-file-80-percent-of-divorces/ Why Women File 80 Percent of Divorces According to the National Center for Health Statistics, about 50 percent of marriages in the United States end in divorce, and about 80 percent of the divorces are initiated by women. That 50 percent is often quoted and it is probably on the high side, but it is illuminating that 80 percent of the divorces are filed by the wife.

True. I meant pickup not youtube. Channels deleted, demonetized and deplatformed. Rsd has pivot to self help but they seed game still. Its nuanced. My point was that, when it goes underground the next iteration will be darker and far from ideal. In obscurity, it will not have any policing which is not good.

Lmfao... The balls to approach. Nuanced point, in the #metoo era its not easy. Not saying some guys aren't savage. Some are lol. I also got a buddy who had a false accusation. Terrifying! I vet for crazy lol. Lmfao.. Ya. I am new. I Unsure about small chunk quotes without deleting mostly everything. Anyways, cheers on recognising my genius lol.

50% divorce stat and 80% initiated by women. Unflattering red pill truths.

Lol People can't handle truth especially if it sheds light on a predisposition to particular behaviour. More infuriating IF said behaviour is unflattering. Divorce stats based on gender for example lol.

I like this post. It stems yes from wanting sex but the stones it takes is highly under appreciated. Good on you acknowledging lol.

There's a bbc hit piece. The julien media scandal lol. I was more concerned with the Scotland pus who git arrested. Infield is stupid imho. I understand for that business but any random dude to do it is dumb. The guy doing the hit piece is a cuck. Every time I see some goof virtue signaling, they get caught with their pants down. Canadas president pushes pc but was caught doing black face lol multiple times. I swear they all end up virtue signalling as a smoke screen to hide thrur crime or caught with pedo porn or something twisted. Imho a small fine seems reasonable lol Oh its definitely a money grab. I am pro libertarian. As long as nobody is harmed, make money. A classic example is weed. Drugs bad until government taxes it. Now its ok. Before you were bad. Tax money... Bazillion made... Its ok now.

Read the evolution of desire, the selfish genes, the red queen, etc. Its a savage aspect of human nature and the animal kingdom. Similarly, the dating market is absolutely savage. It is even more hilarious seeing Petersons daughter flying out to see Cobra Tate in Romania lol. Sex transmutation is why Mykala Peterson is flying out to Peterson and not her husband. There's a savage aspect to dating, sex and winner takes all. Its ruthless. If you approach thousands of girls, how many would sleep with you? Date you (note, not the same thing)? Would be your friend? Ignore you? There's only one way to find out. I found myself in a similar scenario as you only girls liked me. They were in social circle, school college, on my street etc. I wanted to find a wife. I wanted sex and a lot more of it. I learned game. I got red pilled in the process. It is undeniable to see the world differently after. If a girl breaks up, there's always another guy or guys lol. If she flakes or ghosts, read between the lines. I was beta. I was provider. A girl would come out for the date but get banged out by Chad's or Tyrone or both (devil's triangle lol). I remember running into a crush from high school or college now single mom's. I kept seeing the world i was told and faced with reality. I learned game. Its never been the same again. Once you unplug, there's no going back. I've lost count of married women inviting me over. I decline obviously. I approach. Theirs either desire or not. Its Pragmatism. The piece I can control is the opportunity to come out. That's it. I have more sex. I get rejected way more. I casually date a lot more. I am consistently generating state from within self amuse and I see who I click with. I am still a bachelor. I hit my stride late. One consequence of this Lifestyle is growing jaded. Meditation is great. Working out is a must. Wanting a better life is not easy. Truth be told, if i was taller, better looking, more money, resources, status, game etc I'd have more success. You got decaprio who dates 18-24 and nobody over 25 for the last 25yrs not married. Women typically choose different career paths. Today, theirs absurd amounts of indoctrination and trillion dollar student debt owed by women (i saw a source recently). There's a push for women in stem. A guy i know is a it manager who at gun point must hire based on the quota. Its more woke nonsense. A female friend wants to get married and be a stay st home mom but feels the attacks from friends or other women for wanting that. Jordan Peterson pointed out that, a ton of women doctors and lawyers drop out after kids. Hubby makes more or the same. Her values align higher than chasing coin. Yes, there's women who are about the career. I've seen it too in work life or dating. While no blanket statement covers everything its fascinating to see evolution at work contrary to social engineering and indoctrination. Nature always wins. Shift focus. Double down on you, your passion purpose, your life path, and don't look back. You meet more people that way rather than compromising you.

What are you after? Is it money or an actual interest in the field? I don't necessarily think it is low consciousness but, I think a lot of low consciousness people are in the office. Its where workplace politics stems from. I would put your talents to use. Be conscious of whatever endeavour you undertake. We've had 60yrs of follow your passion nonsensical jargon and trillion dollars student debt mess which people can't afford. They are stuck with and can't declare bankruptcy on. All paths are work. Its lots of sacrifice. I am in the process of executing and its not easy. Nothing great comes easy. Good luck.

Any piece of the pie is better than going to work you dread everyday. I don't think there's a easy way about it. Its hard to have your business and harder to go to work with office politics and little or no promo but the carrots dangled. I remember chasing a job or a promotion. Getting it and my first thought was, now what?

People typically have a family. They then keep upgrading car, house, and keep up with the Jones. I see it at work where the girls want a bigger house, new car or whatever. I am a bachelor. My expenses are nearly nonexistent but if i had a family, wife and kids, my expenses will be 10x. My friend's wife is baby proofing the house. Everything baby is expensive and the sales pitch embeds guilt. Like you wouldn't pay extra for keeping your baby safe?