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@Mikael89 Why is black pill true for you exactly? If your picture is you I can't imagine why you couldn't develop yourself and dating skills? Don't agree with a lot of this dude's philosophy on life and his ethics etc, but even the first 30 seconds show that the majority of excuses are pretty bullshit.

@Michael569 You sir are a fucking legend, men need to start focusing on working on themselves and improving their lives and their dating/ seduction skills as well. I know you said not to use numbers lol, but for ease of communication. a 10/10 Wormen (Not just looks but amazing personality, your dream girl beyond appearance say) will not date a bloke who overall is a 5/10 barely takes care of himself, works at McDonalds and is 40lbs overweight, like you wouldn't if roles were reversed, it really isn't that complicated to figure out.

@moon777light Bro, you can certainly awaken, let's put it like that, 9 months ago I thought I was destined to never awaken and would just struggle with this stuff forever, Now I can't begin to describe the drastic change in my existential experience- let's just say it's amzing! Love

@Raptorsin7 Yeah man, you just gotta be careful as there's a lot of scammers out there and it's not as easy as they make out lol. In terms of my income, I've had months relatively deep into the 5 figures range, and my goal for 2020 is to grow 5 accounts to this region, it's a lofty goal but it spreads my risks and keeps me working extremely hard, and I'm after complete financial freedom. It also allows me to help my friends and family financially, which is always great. I've used a lot of my money and reinvested into building a separate Fiction Brand, this is more of an investment as me and my business partner work with a coach who does the majority of the work for a % split, this is a 3 year contract and we're starting publishing our first series literally next month. You could start publishing with $5k but you'd probs be reinvesting most of it first 12 months or so if you want to build a long term business, if you wanna learn more message me, in terms of SMMA I can recommend Iman Gadzhi as my fiction coach works with him and has gone to his seminars and gone through his course and said it's really good. I'm not in SMMA myself so don't know much else about it I'm afraid mate.

@Danioover9000 I'm sorry to hear about that man, I hope you heal from those things that happened to you and your recent relationship I'm not saying you need women, I am saying don't demonize them and then use women being 'low consciousness' or anything else as a reason not to have a relationship, if you don't want one that's down to you, but a lot of men that do this come from a victim mentality, and project their blame onto women. I'm not sure how to respond to your last question, are you asking how a women re-engages with young men, are you a woman or a man if you don't mind me asking? My main point is don't demonize women as an excuse to why your dating life/ social life isn't where you want it to be.

@Sombra Yeah John Anthony is actually highly skilled with women, but like you said a pathological sex addict lol, he doesn't show any sign of slowing down either after 1100+ girls, it's crazy. He's also quite unethical in many areas of game, and will do whatever it takes usually to get what he wants with Women. I bought his system when it was 87% off and tbh most of it is proper solid advice, there's key information on a range of Game related topics that's actually really helpful, if you can apply them in a much more conscious manner his teachings could be extremely helpful for getting the dating life or sex life you desire, albeit it probably won't be the 10-15 girl harem he has lol. But the whole developing yourself and dating ability is very useful, and a lot of his students do get results, oh and he also says Daygame is a lot harder than Nightgame, probably to do with the fact most people in the day don't want to be stopped as discussed in this thread. I found some of his teachings really helpful, but I wouldn't recommend applying them like he does, his whole life is centred around sex haha.

@Nash @Fede83 @Danioover9000 This will genuinely harm you in the long run. Sounds stupid but because you think like that you're much more likely to attract Women like that into your life. Instead, realize there are MILLIONS of amazing Women out there, you just have to be an amazing man for them to want to be with you. Don't wallow in self-pity that high-quality women don't find you attractive, it's probably because you're not high quality enough yourself, this was a harsh truth I had to come to terms with also, high-quality women expect a high-quality man and why shouldn't they? Also, a relationship can actually be a great Sadhana, it's easy to be peaceful when all alone meditating in a cave, how about bringing awakenings into a relationship and building deep bonds with people. I obviously don't know you but high-quality Women won't take notice of you or come up to you 9/10, why? Because you're meant to be the fucking man, you want something to go after it and stop bitching about it, who gives a shit if you get rejected over and over, that's how you learn. A lot of men today seem to make up a lot of excuses instead of 1) Developing themselves and their SMV (Sexual Market Value) 2) Learning about Dating, Seduction and Sex, to me it sounds like a form of Spiritual Bypassing. I realize this sounds a bit like a dick thing to say, but I realized this a while ago and it was the kick up the arse I needed, and maybe it will help you or anyone reading this, instead of avoiding relationship, go work on that area of your life and get the relationship or sex life you truly want, 9/10 the reason your avoiding Women isn't because you actually want to. Also not saying I'm an expert or anything, I'm just saying I see this mindset from young men a lot and it's honestly quite toxic, 'Women' aren't the problem.

@Raptorsin7 If your goal is purely F.I. and then you'd like to automate that business, use the income for investments to create more wealth (what I'm in the process of atm) then I'd say start an online business, there's lots out there. I personally own my own publishing business and am now also helping coach/ manage friends/ Families to help diversify risk/ grow my income further, but it'd be hard to do publishing on $500 a month, but actually what's your income goal from this business? Online businesses that require little upfront investment are things such as Social Media Marketing, they have much lower expenses. How much money do you have to start this business?

@moon777light Not at all mate, self-realization is possible for anyone on this path. Nobody is more special if they are enlightened, in fact in Zen they call it the 'Stink of Enlightenment' when someone walks around thinking they are better than people because they are enlightened. There's something beyond enlightenment, beyond Non-Duality, after all these are concepts, or pointers to the Absolute

@Tanz Just thought I'd add Enlightenment frees you up to do exactly what you want, that can include orgies and materialism if you wish. However, it is likely to be slightly different to mainstream materialism.

@petar8p lol yeah I used to skim until I got to Leo a while ago. You have to learn to be able to evaluate teachers and messages etc for yourself, study from a wide range of sources etc. Subconsciously the colors will have an effect, but that doesn't mean they are always right, nobody is going to be 100% right all of the time, not even Leo!

@Leo Gura Exactly, but this guy openly admits to lying and being manipulative to seal the deal, his teachings were effective though and he has an unreal lay count, the challenge is doing Game in a conscious manner, wonder when we will see the first enlightened dating coach lol. I see why men want to do it though, especially those going from sexual scarcity or being tied down to one girl for years, it's kind of like a reaction to that, but I do feel it's very difficult to maintain in the long run.

@themovement Yes sorry, I should've read more. However, if you were to go be a monk what would be your reason for doing so? I just think society is facing so many issues right now, that personal awakening and then doing your own to help society is soo valuable atm, but monks can also do this, such as Thich Naht Hanh. However, unless there are already many fully self Realized teachers already teaching at the monastery there's no guarantee you'll get there, and with so much access to teachings and awakening 'tools' I feel it is less necessary in 2019 to become a monk to awaken, although I see it's value for some people.

@Leo Gura I wasn't accusing him of that, I was just making a general statement about opening the heart. Yes, he's young, good looking and people will see him as a master, many girls are going to flock to him, which is why it's so hard for these kind of people to avoid 'scandals.' I personally don't see anything wrong with having Harems per say as long as he isn't acting like a complete arsehole with these girls, although the guy I used to follow for Pick Up used to flat out lie about only seeing them etc, so I imagine it's much harder to build a Harem if you're open about dating multiple women at once.

@Scholar I don't agree with Leo 100% on a lot of things, but people won't dismiss him because he wasn't vegan, I don't think a lot of teachers are vegan actually. Realization of the absolute doesn't come with requirements, for example Nisgardatta Maharaj smoked and sold Cigarettes, yet was one of the greatest masters over the last century. I also believe Veganism is amazing and is something that will really help people, but being militant about it isn't the only way to about promoting it, in fact it will turn a lot of people away.

@Matt23 Yeah no offence mate, to me that's like teaching someone to cook without ever cooking yourself, but you've read cookbooks. I don't mean to shoot you down and by all means, introduce people to this, but I don't think you should really begin teaching until you're at least enlightened yourself, also, 2 years is a long time to be at this with little results in my opinion. Psychedelics could give you insights but in my opinion, there's much more 'efficient' ways to help you grow spiritually and actually permanently embody awakenings. I've worked 1-1 with a teacher since February and my growth has been amazing, the Spiritual Transmissions have been amazing. Good luck on your journey, but please don't teach until you are actually awakened yourself.

@themovement You're idolizing monks a lot here. If everyone went off and become a monk, there'd be serious repercussions, also being a Monk doesn't = enlightenment so it wouldn't automatically mean peace on Earth, you're thinking extremely simplistically here. They still have politics in their monasteries and hierarchies, and they can also have their fare share of scandals... https://www.dw.com/en/dalai-lama-admits-he-knew-about-buddhist-teachers-sexual-abuse/a-45507680 https://info-buddhism.com/Abuse_and_Buddhism-Behind_the_Smiling_Facade-Anna_Sawerthal.html Also, a lot of monasteries are quite stage Blue institutions, I'm not saying becoming a Monk can't help on your path, it certainly can but it isn't some golden ticket to full self-realization. If it's your path, then go for it all in, if not then find your path

When you awaken you're free to be who you truly are and do what you want so of course, however once people open the heart fully they are HIGHLY unlilely to engage in things that cause harm to other people etc, so won't round cheating or sexually assaulting people etc. Bentinho is certainly awakened, I wouldn't say he is fully awakened or finished though. Also, I'd recommend doing some research on these kind of guys: https://www.vice.com/en_us/article/wjmxvm/the-controversial-guru-who-wants-to-upgrade-civilization-bentinho-massaro-video

You don’t need to live in a monastery to become enlightened or fully self realised. Maybe for some people this is their path, but personally it isn’t mine as I LOVE life

Rupert often loves concepts, however his explanations here are amazing!

@Matt23 firstly, are you enlightened before teaching? One of the biggest worries for me in the Non-Dual community is the blind leading the blind. Basically people who aren’t even awakened/ fully awakened teaching people which brings with it a lot of risks. also, a lot of teachers tend to then lose focus on their own development and “crystallise” where they’re at often, so that’s something to consider. Most people will need some sort of theoretical Non-Dual understanding etc Things that helped me most- 1) Working 1-1 with a “Fully” awakened teacher (I class this as LOC 1000) 2) Spiritual Transmissions/ RASA 3) Enneagram work to learn my biggest pitfalls in awakening 4) Foundational Meditation/ Self-Inquiry work of course 5) Guided presence meditations, hard to explain mind of like walking through your true nature as presence There’s a lot more that helps on the path, but this has helped the most in my own awakening process. Good luck!

@VeganAwake Enjoy yourself In the Navy! Remember this is it from an absolute level, everything is perfect as it is

@VeganAwake I’m glad Fred emailed back, them sort of sessions are exactly what helped me more than ANYTHING on this path! Yea you will have incredible non dual awakenings, but after all what matters is your 24/7 consciousness that will be transformed and I’m sure Fred will help do that, I can feel that is best for you right now! Enjoy your time in the Navy, I guess there’s no way you could leave early?:)

@WisdomSeeker hi mate I’ll cut a long story short. I began working with my teacher (Ananda Devi) in February on a 1-1 basis and reviving RASA (a transmission) and honestly without it I think I’d still be in the rut, personally as it’s worked for me I support this path. In 9 months my existential experienced has revolutionised honestly. I understand the solo psychedelic path has its benefits, but personally I feel most of us will need some assistance if we want to fully self realize in this lifetime, for me it has made the journey so much easier and enjoyable! I had my first awakening around March time and honestly the growth has been amazing since then, if you want to know more aboht my path feel free to message me, but as I respect this is Leo’s forum and community I won’t go into too much detail here. (I’m not denying psychedelics can give you amazing insights and awakenings, I just believe there are more efficient paths to full self realisation in your everyday life) have an amazing weekend

Hi mate never taken 5MEO, but been in the rut you’ve described and can say I’ve come out of the other side. Let me just say it gets a LOT fucking better, in fact I often forget how much I’ve grown in the last 9 months and take my existential experience for granted, so there is light at the end of the tunnel. Yes most of life is illusory, however this frees us up to do whatever we want in life. in the end it comes back full cuticle, this moment as it is is truly it, they may sound foreign now, but contemplate it, THIS IS IT! Also, awakening doesn’t mean you can’t lead a “normal” life, you can develop a career you love, have hobbies you enjoy, friends and relationships etc, in fact complete awakening (what I class as LOC 1000) makes you more human than ever before. After all what’s the point In life if we don’t enjoy it and have fun? As westerners who are involved in life, Tantric spirituality (more than just sex lol) is what suits us best, there’s nothing wrong with pleasure and enjoying life! If you want to go and life in a cave by all means feel free, but if you want to be involved and live a full life you can! Whatever you love, go out and do that, enjoy yourself for a while, you sound stuck in a rut, and having fun might help you get out of it If you ever feel you need to chat feel free to ask questions as I know just how shit this path can truly be mate. But there is light at the end of the tunnel, life is amazing! And, this is it