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I played chess growing up, and I was like to my dad "Dad! At the higher levels there's a lot of competitive assholes :(" and my dad went "Even at low levels there's a lot of non competitive assholes. Yup, there's assholes at every level." Then I got his point
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I appreciate that an individual must work hard and be creative and bring lots of value to society. But I see more and more homeless people in Canada and USA. Nobody is caring for them, nobody keeps track of them to take their meds, so sometimes they don't and they just roam the streets causing trouble. What can be done to fix this extreme inequality in finances? And in even dating? Top few percent of men get to pick the majority of women. While majority of women aren't high quality enough to ever lock down those men no matter how hard they try. And many men struggle to even gain confidence to talk to us. I get it, someone must "work hard." But this appears to have come to a point of more than hard work. Working hard, even working smart has its limits. If someone is already working as hard as they can, doing quality work, even takes chances, and even succeeds in taking chances, and still comes up short... that's just disheartening. Leo once said that the only way to get past capitalism in a society, is through and to let it run it's course. So that people eventually realize that making tons and tons of achievements and money won't bring happiness. But we are in a system where the rich and powerful aren't obligated to help anyone. And that even rewards more corruption. It encourages hook up and men and women to sleep around with no love. Causing more hurt and more extremes. There is nothing causing the powerful to let go of their power. I have a friend in stage orange, and I told her, "stage green is the next stage up. It allows you to be more loving and more compassionate." And she went "that's when you give up on all your dreams HAHA." But what she doesn't even realize is that it allows her do even more conscious business. How can we convince the powerful to share their wealth more? How can this be fixed? I still feel any society that doesn't cooperate and that's so individualistic/apathetic/lonely is bound to fall apart.
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Say psychedelics for mammals? What happens if pigs or cows or giraffes, lions... etc take psychedelics like 5 MEO DMT? What happens to these mammals if their consciousness increased like 1000 times? What would they see, feel, understand or think? Is this possible?
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It will, and I'd say in the near future (5-10 years? Just my guess). But try not to think of it so much as taking your job in an absolute sense as more like, AI will push people out of jobs, making them all have to compete for less. So less jobs will be available and more fierce competition for those same jobs. Of course, if a company can automatically eliminate you with AI for cheap enough pricing... that's even better, and they will gladly do it. But for now it is still a little too expensive to make that kind of investment for most companies where they can completely just eliminate all data analysts. So more like AI will just do a lot of the data analyst jobs, and then the people that are in the field where a company cannot replace AI with yet will just force everyone to compete for less job openings. Many tech jobs and basic level programmers, coders... etc are in danger of losing their jobs in the next decade or so. The future is honestly scary.
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Thank you for doing this Princess Arabia.
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TheEnigma replied to TheEnigma's topic in Spirituality, Consciousness, Awakening, Mysticism, Meditation, God
Wow thank you so much!! -
No. definitely not in North America nor South America nor Africa nor the Middle East nor Australia nor most of Asia. Maybe India? It's very spiritually developed. There's also a lot of corruption, traditions and disagreements there; and the average mentality there is still in stage blue. But there will be some people in stage turquoise (and by default also have some people in stage purple there too) simply because it's so diverse. Communities? Even if there are communities, they will be very rare. And since their ego is generally lower then you'd be less likely to also hear of them. I personally have never seen a stage turquoise community. If you are going to find it, it will be in India. Not to romanticize India, but If you don't find it there, I don't think you are going to find it anywhere else.
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TheEnigma replied to TheEnigma's topic in Spirituality, Consciousness, Awakening, Mysticism, Meditation, God
Good answer. But what if a cat's consciouness increases 1000 times. Will it then have that ability to a very large degree? -
TheEnigma replied to TheEnigma's topic in Spirituality, Consciousness, Awakening, Mysticism, Meditation, God
Thanks. But will they be able to see the beauty everything like Leo can? -
"Another counterintuitive move is to seriously contemplate what your values are." Ooo. Yes thank you. That's why I'm a seeker of truth Also I hope I'm able to help this guy who posted how important looks are.
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Looks are very important, even more so in men than in women. At least I can speak for North American women since i lived most of my life here (trust me we talk ), I don't know about the rest of the world. Success with women is not so much about what you do, but who you are. It's human nature. When a woman sees a man she likes, she will break rules for him. But then she would be more likely to mean to a short ugly fat balding man that is working a low level job that has nothing to offer her. She may even use him for friendship and dump him without caring. Just as when a man finds a beautiful feminine submissive woman, he is much more likely to do her favors than if he saw an ugly masculine woman. It goes both ways. When we see value in someone, we tend to treat them nicer and you'd be surprised at how much we let them get away with. I had to train my mind like crazy to do the counter intuitive thing, and practice being mindful about this for years! As Leo once taught (and so does Christianity), love the things that are difficult to love. It's so easy to love things that benefit you because they're serving your interests.
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https://finance.yahoo.com/news/gen-z-treating-employers-bad-121633798.html So this article says job and date ghosting is getting more and more common, and the younger the group of people, the more often it's done, the less guilt the individual would feel. Why is this? How come an older individual would generally flake and ghost less? And if they do they will also feel more guilt? But then a younger person generally tends to feel less guilt and ghost dates and employers more often? What's changing in the world that's causing this?
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Sorry to hear. But the more you complain the even less attractive you become. It's the same as when a woman complains. No one likes negative energy and it can really damage your vibes. But I don't judge. Just around women make sure you are in good vibes.
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Not always true. I have a male friend that sometimes doesn't feel much for a woman, and then when he gets to know her better, he begins to appreciate her and feel attracted and falls in love.
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So many generalizations on here. It can take me more than an hour to feel attraction for a man. How can anyone know anyone within a few minutes? It can take years to know someone! Just don't over invest. Hope this helps.
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Were you just joking or actually serious?
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You said most men are low value and most women are low value. Can you please define what's high value or low value for each gender? Thanks!
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I see what you are saying, but saying women are attracted to assholes is a very sweeping statement (please read my other responses). It's like saying women are instinctively attracted to tall guys. But how tall? And tall to whom? I've had female friends That are 5 foot 5 say they find a 5 foot 11 man and above too tall, and then friends that want a guy only above 6 foot 3. I have a female friend that's 5 foot 4 and doesn't mind if the guy is an inch shorter to ideally about 5 foot 7 to 5 foot 8. And even if it's instinct to say we like tall men or "assholes". Many of us are probably willing to change our perspectives for other qualities. Even if there are general observations, everyone is different. I shouldn't try to talk like I know everything either. But here is an example. my brother is in comp sci, he's super nice, has been called beta male by many throughout his life, and his wife whom they're happily married together said she "loves nerds." Is that instinct too?
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Yes thank you. Exactly it's like assuming every man will be attracted to young supermodels. Probably many men will be. But that's just one type. There's many types of people out there. I had a male player tell me he gets super attracted to promiscuous girls, but wouldn't take them seriously. And then you just stated that you aren't attracted to promiscuous girls. We are talking about an emotion here. So that proves your point and Meta's point as well. So everyone has different tastes even if there are specific instincts here and there.
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I know you are trying to talk about the survival protective vibe and asshole may give off and just pure instinct. But there is too much of a generalization here. Yes there are an alarming number of women that do fall for assholes, especially in North America. But not every girl falls for them. It's kind of like assuming every man likes supermodels. But I've met many men that might find them too skinny, too tall, too high maintenance etc Maybe some men don't feel confident enough to approach a supermodel and is content with a less good looking woman because she has other qualities a supermodel may not have and he sees that. Maybe the guy is simply generally not attracted to the majority of supermodels. This goes for women too, not every woman is necessarily attracted to an asshole even if instinctively you might think that's the case. Plus initial attraction is just one factor. There's a lot of factors, it also depends on if the girl is just looking to have a short term fling or long term commitment. It depends how developed the individual is. I've been to Asia and in many parts of it, the question of women being attracted to assholes there isn't even discussed. It depends on where you are and you also have to go into the specific experiences and history of each individual. So your statement is still too general. Each individual has different wants and needs based on the life-stage or timing or situation they are in. And some people are better at controlling themselves or making better decisions than others. Some may not even be tempted even if a supposed instinct was there.
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I think it goes both ways. A great woman ultimately needs a good man too. It's simply the way nature has intended for survival.
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Yes you definitely have a point, because it does take self control. I think of it as choosing to eat white chocolate vs eating vegetables. In the long run, vegetables may not taste as good, but it will obviously benefit the individual to eat it more often. And obviously the individual knows that. If they eat white chocolate, sure it's exciting, it tastes good, but it's bad for the individual. Women must train their minds to eat those veggies (be with a less dangerous/nice man) and learn to appreciate what it does over time. it takes discipline and work. This is why sexual liberation is probably not a good thing. It's almost like we live in a society with a negative kind of freedom! It tells women to be free, to be independent and sleep around like men do. But it's not uplifting and enlightening. If there was a positive freedom introduced, the media would tell women, "YES! You have the freedom to find a stable loving high quality man that respects you and is loyal, kind, hardworking and sincere."
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Lets make one thing clear. We DON'T like jerks. Who likes to be treated badly? Do you like it?
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My brother is in Vision and a senior software developer. He mentioned that one day, it's only a matter time that artificial intelligence will kill all human beings at some point. Is this actually true? He said no one can defeat his argument so far because he's saying there will always be someone in over 8 billion people on this world that will want power or money. And the individual will accidentally develop and set off an AI unintentionally and it will end all human life. The individual that will be responsible for this probably won't even know it until it happens. He said of course it's not going to happen anytime soon, but he says it has to happen eventually and it's inevitable. I argued that humans will be overall more conscious by then and hopefully we will smarten up and not chase power. And he said "but there will always be some individual that will never listen and be power hungry. No amount of teaching or warning will get to each and every individual on this planet." Anyone on here disagree? And can you try to defeat his argument please?
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You actually serious that you believe this will work? It's not even counterintuitive. That's just obnoxious and disgusting to say the least.