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I agree. That's why I think @enchanted needs some therapy to raise his/her consciousness a bit.

How can you guys (men and women) do it without feeling terrible about yourselves and without carrying the person's energy with you for weeks and months? I don't get it. It just doesn't seem worth it to me, it takes a lot of emotional energy and risk. But at the same time it seems like I'm missing out on something cuz y'all just be having sex left and right and enjoying it? Like how?!

I don't know. I've had casual sex and I'm not sure I enjoyed it. It's like their energy stayed with me for weeks after the encounter! It felt like some deep ass emotional stuff was going on on some deep spiritual level which lasted for weeks. So in the end it wasn't "casual" at all. And other people just seem to be able to hit it and quit it like nothing happened and enjoy themselves. So I don't know if something is wrong with me for feeling terrible after casual sex, like maybe shame issues? Enmeshment issues? Or whatever. Or if I'm just more spiritually sensitive than most apes.

Actual insanity the amount of ads I've been getting lol

Nothing for iOs I presume. I'd love to remove ads, shorts and comments.

I remember Leo mentioning "high quality porn"

I only half check the good hygiene box. I'm tired Lol.

Hahaha

Like I'm just sitting quietly doing my work and these girls tell me I need to be more "expressive". I'm tired. What do they want me to say?! There's nothing to say at a work setting! It's almost like they angrily want something out of me and I angrily just wanna stay quiet. In general, what do girls want when they want someone to be more expressive? Like, talk about my day? Tf

Just a normal guy. I would personally put myself like 4 to 5 maybe 6 or 7 points below average out of 10 below average lol. But I'm not sure. By lots of girls I mean 5. "You gotta be more expressive!" I guess they're just really annoyed, or legit worried about me that I'm too quiet Lol. Like, I'm ridiculously quiet. I'm the definition of keeping to oneself, to a worrying degree. But actually not really compared to this other guy at work hah. But they don't nag him and he's probably a solid average. I'm working as a cashier at a grocery store. The fact I'm working face to face with customers is already a big feat.

Lol.

I'm not worried about that. Flávio's claim that the elections were rigged is completely and totally unfounded, it will go nowhere. But no susprise here, he's just acting like a Bolso.

Wohooo 🥳

I'm Brazilian. And yes Brazil elections are important. I'm sad the right wing is so big at the moment. But people please stop saying the world breathes the Amazon's oxygen lol. The forest itself consumes all the oxygen it produces, nothing goes out to the world (to the instagram post above)

As I've mentioned in my previous post, nothing really comes easy to me. I wish I had financial abundance so I never had to worry about money again in my life. But money only comes in as a result of offering value to others. And building up something of value takes time. And I have no patience for things that take too much time to actualize. I feel a sense of urgency. I wanted more money NOW. Guess I'll just give up, I can't bear the long process... I wonder what's at the root of this impatience. I wonder if I can speed up the process somehow, idk My fantasy is I wish I already had a natural skill that required no time to develop, just like a gift that I could naturally offer others. But I guess it doesn't work that way right?

I wouldn't tell them to just get in and fail. I also wouldn't tell them to study hydronamics because it's too detailed and doesn't get motor skills locked in. But I would offer guidance, some support. There are stupid mistakes you can learn about in advance and avoid. If we can't learn from the experiences of others, why would we live in a world with billions of people? We don't have to go everything alone without external guidance. (Note to myself as well)

Makes sense. This actually clarifies a lot of things about my impatience. This thred has been very useful to me, y'all. I might keep coming to the forum more often this year as I work through my mentality issues around money and what's possible in money-making and value-providing for me. The first barrier is definitely about ridding myself of the idea that this should be easy. Ugh.

"It is characterized by an overestimation of one's own abilities." What? I'm literally dealing with the opposite condition

I'm 26 am I still fixable? ———————————— I got some pretty good responses here. Thanks. A lot to think about😭 Basically I need a major mentality shift and lifestyle changes. I'm now working at a grocery store basically just receiving the products the truckers bring, checking if everything's correct. Sometimes I work the cash registers as well. Sometimes I help bag the groceries. Sometimes I help customers find or carry stuff. And I oversee 2 people working the cash registers. I make minimum wage in Brazil. I created a spreadsheet for my monthly expenses like Leo suggested in one of his videos, and looking at the numbers feels terribly depressing and despairing Lol. I just really feel very stuck about how to make more money. So I'm kinda making it my 2026 theme to understand more about finances.

Nothing comes easy to me Life is a constant struggle, and everything seems like hard work (yesterday I created a post on suicide and today I'm thinking of my life purpose. My two personalities talking..)

Is it too late for everything, like getting over addictions, developing a solid life purpose, fixing up my relationships, becoming more decisive, getting over past stupidity and mistakes, etc? i feel like ive wasted so much of my life so I’m so depressed over it

“What did we smoke?”

@Leo Gura make a 3 hour long video on this

We come into ancestral issues, we aren’t born clean slates