vindicated erudite

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  1. I've been this situation and I've put people in this situation and it sucks when you're left out, like really bad. A way to resolve the issue could be to ask the girl that liked if she knew of any girls that might be interested in your friend (or would be willing to talk to him) and forward the social media of any girls to your friend that way he has a reason to keep his hopes up. I'm assuming that alcohol was involved in this party which probably influenced him to become an asshole in this situation. I think it would be best if you reached out to him to bring the friendship back together.
  2. I've been this situation and I've put people in this situation and it sucks when you're left out, like really bad. A way to resolve the issue could be to ask the girl that liked if she knew of any girls that might be interested in your friend (or would be willing to talk to him) and forward the social media of any girls to your friend that way he has a reason to keep his hopes up. I'm assuming that alcohol was involved in this party which probably influenced him to become an asshole in this situation. I think it would be best if you reached out to him to bring the friendship back together.
  3. Don't go chasing after something she doesn't value in order to impress her. If she has feelings for you she has them for YOU and not some fantasy you want to portray to her.
  4. I agree with this. I don't think it's over for someone if they have autism. People can be quiet accepting of neurodivergents once they know somebody is autistic and know how to take their needs into account.
  5. Pay for sexual services. You might have to travel to a red light district in order to do this safely. But once you've lost your virginity you're going to realise that intimacy is more important than the act of sex itself. After you realise this you should focus on creating emotional connection with the women you want to date. Traveling to a shorter country might help with your height if you find that you get rejected to often because of it. This is what's holding you back. Inject your presence into social situations that contain lots of women. Then you have to get into the habit of conversing with women without trying to hit on them. Use these experiences to learn how to communicate with women. Then when once you're confident approach women with romantic interests. I think you should create a personal rule to limit the amount of women advance to romantically to something like for every 10 women you make laugh romantically pursue one female. This is to keep your morale up when you romantically pursue women. Change the rule to fit you. Another thing you can in friend groups is saying something like you're single and looking for a long-term partner if the topic of relationships rise in the convo. I'm assuming that you're in a Muslim conservative country (correct me if I'm wrong), if I'm along the lines that you'll just have to follow the advice in blue when in conversations with male elders. Also you can do the obvious stuff like hit the gym and work on your career.
  6. A significant amount of incels have autism which should be a contributing factor to why they make PUA work. I agree PUA is scammy however I think that women rely on looks when there's nothing else for them to work with thus would be the case in a cold approach scenario which is why PUA definitely benefits more attractive looking guys.
  7. I think confused is a better term.
  8. Both are alternatives are worse than PUA. PUA needs a new face tbh.
  9. DHT gel has been proving to increase penis size, however DHT is the hormone that makes you go bald if you are predisposed to male pattern baldness.
  10. Buy 2 pairs or gloves and headgear and practice with a friend.
  11. Use a water mister with warm water to soften the vocal chords and do vocal exercises then.
  12. I don't think law of attraction is real. I tried manifesting to be taller but I'm still waiting :-/
  13. 1. You're meant to read the book multiple times. 2. A book is a tool which you can use to inquiry deeper into topics if you read the book in a non linear way. The use of the contents page and sticky notes or highlighters can help you with this. If you combine these two points together then you're going to get a lot out of reading books.
  14. Masculinity is a role given to men to uphold and maintain society. Therefore traits that maintain the social fabric of society and uphold collective unity are desirable in men. Desirable traits in men are: Dependability. Honesty. A sense of honor. A diplomatic mindset around conflict resolution. Courage. Strength. Selflessness. Perseverance. The ability to forgive. The ability to cooperate. Trait may vary from culture to culture in order to suit the environment.
  15. Ask him to have a threesome?
  16. The thing about socialcirclemaxxing is that it doesn't have to be within your direct social circle. For example, if your friend knows a guy that hosting a party and he wants you to come along and you hit it up with a girl from that party that's still socialcirclemaxxing. In my opinion this is way of meeting women is better than trying to hit up girls at your local library because you're already vetted by your social circle and will likely have something in common to talk (people who you already know).
  17. Looks, height, ability to provide security, respect, emotional stability, access to resources. Also if a woman is open to a relationship or not (with anybody).
  18. You're still at risk for getting charged with sexual assault even if you think you are not being creepy. Imagine how much courage and nerves it took for you to approach your first woman. It probably took you multiple attempts to even say hi to a woman. Yet you want to throw all this stress onto a woman within a single instant, something that to you multiple attempts and hours of "game" practice in order to perfect. You're going to overwhelm them and then they are going to see you as creepy because of this fact. The problem with day game is that it is too direct and doesn't give the girl the ability to go at her own pace.
  19. God is sending you a warning. Everyone who does this pick up shit is playing with fire. If you do this long enough in the West YOU WILL ARRESTED FOR SEXUAL HARASSMENT. So my advice would be to stop day gaming.
  20. Men offer, women choose - humans are a female selective species and thus you failed when you tried to approach women. IT LITERALLY IS NOT YOUR FAULT THAT THOSE WOMEN COULD NOT SEE YOUR VALUE. Don't believe these Jordan Peterson style copes about dating that "Dating is unfair but it's your fault" all this is gaslighting. The best thing you can do as a man is to looksmax and achieve status through socialising.
  21. I think he's right in this case. Day game is too confrontational for most women even with all your game. It's 1000x better to advertise your desire for a relationship with women that are already acquainted with you through your social circle. The hard part is building up the trust and connections to pull off such a thing.
  22. Fear of going broke which is reasonable in my opinon.
  23. Men are put under greater selection pressures than women and thus more variation is seen with men.