Raze

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  1. Him being emotional and feminine wouldn’t be things that come naturally to him if he is naturally low neuroticism, masculine, and rational, I’m guessing he made conscious effort to cultivate and learn it.
  2. I’ve heard trans men (women transitioning to male) said after taking testosterone it made all their emotions reduce except anger. Men and women express and process emotions differently.
  3. They aren’t rare, you can find tons of them in IT. Women find them boring.
  4. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Az41hkLie6I
  5. The Washington Post is an American daily newspaper published in Washington, D.C. It is the most-widely circulated newspaper within the Washington metropolitan area and has a large international audience. David Weigel is a journalist for the Washington Post, and retweeted a post saying “Every girl is bi. You just have to figure out if it’s polar or sexual.” Another journalist for the Washington Post, Felicia Sonmez, called him out here, suggesting such retweets should not be allowed: David deleted the tweet and posted an apology. Another reporter, Jose A. Del Real replied to her saying while what David posted was wrong, this was targeted harassment, and they got into an argument, he eventually blocked her and temporarily privated his account after backlash. The Washington Post decided to suspend David for one month without pay Felicia has also been asking for the Washington Post to take action against Jose for accusing her of bullying. Although in 2020 David defended Felicia when she was suspended for tweets accusing Kobe Bryant of being a rapist when he died, and Felicia said she considered David a friend, she still said it was necessary to call him out publicly for sexism. Other reporters have been sending messages of support, like here: https://imgur.com/a/s7dbbGI My analysis: This is an example of stage blue-orange vs stage green conflict in the work place. The stage blue-orange perspective would see the joke as unserious by itself, and also assume jokes posted or retweeted outside of the workplace wouldn’t have much bearing on the persons job. The stage green perspective considers the joke inappropriate because it looks at the larger context of sexism and ableism it is making fun of. The stage green perspective also leans towards a holistic view of both work and life (this is where concepts such as bring your whole self to work come from), which is why she stated such jokes should not be allowed to be posted, even if it’s in his free time, without the workplace taking action. The fact that the Washington post outlet and journalists sided with Felicia and punished David for the retweet is an example of how they are transitioning further from stage orange to strange green, it’s likely they wouldn’t have responded this way if this happened years ago. It’s important to keep in mind the biggest effect this will have would be other journalists and people in media being more careful about what they say or do online, to avoid this happening to them. What is your opinion? Is my analysis off? Do you think this should have been handled differently?
  6. Try reading toxic parents overcoming their hurtful legacy https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KCjHxitUIiw https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lqr98O8QT3M
  7. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1rT-eMAtJyE https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wW8yzTUFcts https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=G9jUdynifAk https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DHfAMh6Edm4 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qu-wFuDqZws https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nZ1q07WHuOs https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KCOCAZGjvJk
  8. UPDATE: Another reporter, Lisa Rein tweeted at Felicia Sonmez asking her to stop Another reporter, Holden Saige Foreman, replied saying he looked through all who liked her tweet and noted all the Washington post journalists who liked her tweet were male. Sally Buzbee, executive editor for the post, sent a memo asking reporters to be collegial with each other. Another reporter, Breanna Muir, replied saying calling out sexism is not being non-collegial and asking for action to be taken towards Lisa Rein
  9. BPD symptoms can go into remission with medicine + DBT therapy
  10. Try IFS therapy https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7L2MzmE8cwo https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=V3miuaOWsj8 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VLH7yUwkBPg https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=P3mszliIb2Q
  11. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1q_3RwffAz0
  12. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3gv05sLZQBU
  13. Yes you can, you need to learn to meet your own emotional needs. Otherwise you will have neediness which turns off women.
  14. You can get a girlfriend without having self worth. It probably won’t go well though. The purpose of learning to accept yourself isn’t to get a girlfriend, it’s what life is calling for you to do.
  15. It doesn’t require that much to just get a girlfriend unless you are starting from an extremely bad place and/or using a really inefficient process to improve.
  16. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EogjdB3msWA https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aIYKMfm7vuo https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dwnZP1TPJic
  17. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UMDs_-zV8EU https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gftjbhpkJdo
  18. IFS therapy has shown good results for helping narcissists
  19. I’ve heard sulforaphane helps with autism symptoms
  20. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sNDvf0q2Xds https://www.shinzen.org/store/dealing-fear-anxiety/ read the ultramind solution
  21. Models is a nice basic dating advice book focused on inner game. Fearless dating isn’t a book it’s a video course summarizing models in video format.