Raze

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How do you know you aren’t self sabotaging by coming across poorly when you think it won’t work creating a self fulfilling prophecy?

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If you think it’s a numbers game and you are basing your self esteem on how women respond, you haven’t actually tried understanding yourself or doing game properly

So try it

Get ifs therapy

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Yes

There are many different factors to intelligence. You can be very gifted in one area but heavily lacking in others. Men are more likely to be in the higher distribution in areas that relate to chess performance. Therefore, overall there will be more advanced male chess players.

The point is , that doesn’t debunk men being better at chess. Hard work plays a role, but baseline intelligence is a factor. Lack of participation alone doesn’t explain it.

Ok, I did further digging and I don’t think this is true. It seems people are citing this study which claimed that the gender imbalance can be explained just by participation rates https://en.chessbase.com/portals/all/2019/05/chess-gender/Why_are_the_best_women_so_good_at_chess_Participat.pdf but this analysis apparently debunked the original study and showed the imbalance can not be explained just by participation rates and that papers analysis was incorrect https://en.chessbase.com/portals/all/2019/05/chess-gender/wiesend_questioning gender studies on chess.pdf

IQ is primarily genetic, it’s not primarily trained. Even the studies that find it increasing from things like learning chess only show a slight increase. this study found the heritability of IQ at 80% https://doi.org/10.1017%2Fthg.2013.54 this study found IQ to be strongly correlated to genetics in late teens and adults https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC6551607/ You’re also assuming only males are introduced to hobbies that increase IQ. Not true, reading regularly increases IQ, and girls do that significantly more than boys.

If you got ifs therapy like I told you, you would already be on your way to solving this

The problem with this argument is that better chess players tend to have higher IQ’s, and due to IQ distribution there are more high IQ males than females. Even if there were equal numbers of men and women playing, there would still be mostly male masters and grandmasters. The average chess grandmaster IQ is 135, and there are twice as many men with IQ’s above 120 than women.

You’ve posted multiple threats here, how are you devoted to love and helping the planet?

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But there isn’t really a solution, a lot of people come here needing help and with a variety of view points.