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If you are some like me who watches a lot of advanced videos but are still trying to get your life together, then this series is probably the best in my opinion Let me know what you think!

Hey guys, I got an opportunity to interview Fred Davis! If you don't know who that is, then you should check out the book that Leo has on his book list. I don't know how Leo did it, but the list has the best books in the world literally. I wanted to ask you if you had any questions that you wanted to ask him! if so let me know and I shall ask how much ever I can from the list!

I couldn't ask him this question, apologies

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@Karmadhi I understand your frustration. What he means here is You need to have the father energy (strong, masculine, purpose driven, action done with intent) but also at the same time need to have the energy of the little kids trying to steal the cookie from the cookie jar, the mom catches them but lets it slide. Father energy: - Strong moral compass and knowing what you stand for and what you dont - Protecting someone - purpose driven like sailing a ship to a destination and navigating the trials and tribulations Kid energy: - Feminine - Can't make their tie or adjust it perfectly and need help with that (note: talking about the energy behind this rather than the thing itself) - innocent - helpless in small daily things like a kid is so on and so forth This wouldn't help you now, however, once you just start talking to women or have a lot of female friends, you will start to get it Hope this helps mate

Today I woke up angry with her. I realized even though I am attracted to her, there is nothing about her I liked. That's because she doesn't have a sense of identity that she sticks by, so she would change her values to please someone she likes. That MAKES ME ANGRY In my head, the movies that were playing are that I wanted to scream at her and tell her and point out how inconsistent with her values she is. I started listening to Abraham Hicks. She mentioned that you need to move from anger to hopefulness. I was regressing back the scale to guilty for falling in love with her in the first place. Stupid me. Took me 8 months to realize this. If I was more introspective, I wouldn't have gone through suffering like this. ( LOOK AT ME, doing it again, regressing back to guilt) This is how insidious this stuff really is. What does moving to hopefulness look like. I am thinking, I need to start writing "I hope" and fill in the blanks I hope I never go through shit like this again. I hope I never she lives a better life our interaction added value to her life I hope I learned something from this journey that made me a better person because it taught me how to be a better person. I hope I value moments of interaction more than the outcome after going through this. I hope she has an amazing life forward I hope I get to be with someone even more special I hope I become more attractive to myself after this I hope I feel better after this. Right now, I want to take a moment and acknowledge that doing this makes me feel better. I hope I find ways to be happy by myself (Now let me check the emotional scale and see what's higher than this) (It's optimism -> happiness - > enthusiasm -> eagerness -> passion -> empowerment -> love -> Joy -> Freedom) I feel optimistic about improving my health and getting into shape and making myself more attractive to myself such that when I look in the mirror. I feel optimistic about acing the university and get excited about the journey. I feel optimistic that the next person I am going to be with, I will have a better time with it. (Right now, I feel good about this emotion and feels like I can feel the optimism) (Let's move on to the next one) I feel happy that I got to make new friends in the process like Farah, Rose, Marcel, get more closer with Iki & Cat, Gray, and I am looking forward to more things in life. I feel happy that thanks to this, I choose to do this process even though the problem with the negative emotions seems to go away because thanks to that exp I gained the wisdom not to stop. I feel happy that I feel better now (Moving on to the next emotion) I feel eager to start my day with positivity because this sets the tone for the day and I feel like little things like this. I feel eager to see what happens today and how the day goes thanks to this process. I feel eager to cook some delicious meal after writing this I feel eager to cook some fried rice for dinner after this I am eager to do some meditation and breathwork after this. I feel eager to improve myself mentally, psychologically and physically I feel eager to schedule my day and have a rough idea of what I am going to do. (Moving on to the next emotion, love) I look at this, I feel love because when I was writing the eager part, the things I was eager about naturally came rather than me forcing myself to do it. I realised that literally, the state of being will help you get the wisdom of what to do. I feel thanks to this process, I can love myself even more. I feel the more I do this and become familiar with this, I will feel free! I need to do more of this.

I process what for me is super personal stuff. Please don't give me unsolicited advice/argue unless I ask you. There is a difference between understanding and realizing and this process helped me realize. ------------------------------------------------------------ I woke up today thinking about her...again. I cut ties with her on Feb. It's May now, it still lingers...this desire... This desire to talk to her again. I know it will be not healthy for me and I have already wasted a year of my life with this bullshit. I know I need to move on from this... however, I am still holding on to something? Maybe my insecurity of not being handsome enough or I feel like people see me as a nice guy but never sexually like a man. They love to talk to me but not fuck me, basically. Something missing me? If so, then what is it? Self-inquiry seems to be the key (One of the reasons I started this, this is my anonymous confession box to process my emotions) I woke up today and I looked good. I like it. I sat down to write this, now I feel a weird sensation in my throat. Ahh, a familiar sensation indeed. I usually feel this when I wanted to say something and I keep it within myself. What are you trying to say P? I...don't know. I only know and feel this...pain...this longing for beauty and love. Beauty is transient. Always present, never everlasting. She was and is beautiful. A kind of mystique words can't describe. I have thoughts sometimes, maybe if I was more emotionally mature and charismatic, would it still have worked? Well, doesn't matter now I guess. This lifetime I met her in these circumstances. *When I don't let go of her, there is something in me that I am not letting go of myself* This pain and suffering really has nothing to do with her. There is beauty inside me that I have lost touch with and I am not willing to let go of the pleasure from holding on to whatever I am holding on to. I was never in love with her. For the first time, I was in love with myself through her. And she is gone, these obsessive thoughts about her, I never really had it for myself. Appreciation, I wish I could appreciate myself the way I appreciated her. I was not truthful to myself which caused this suffering. There is a feeling below my sternum A familiar feeling indeed. Breathing exercise does help me to resolve this feeling. Bodywork is really important, I am realizing. I am an extroverted guy, when talking to people, I forget my suffering. When alone tho...it comes back. This familiar pain of unresolved confusion. Watching the Owen video although I am a huge fan of pickup stuff Twisted emotions and confused unconcious. Maybe I should watch Leo's self deception video again

I realized yesterday that even though I was intensely attracted to that girl, there was nothing about her I liked. When I ask myself "What do I like about her?" Nothing particularly stands out. I just know I am attracted to her. I was reading a book, the alabaster girl, and in that, they asked me "Women fantasize about someone. Why are you not a women's fantasy?" Man, that's a tough question Why? Maybe because I am not masculine enough? Maybe I am too much of a nice guy? They don't see me as a man? A question that springs more questions! Feels like a journey that I am not yet willing to begin. Why indeed. What characters do I like about the women? I don't know. Nothing particularly stands out. I feel it in my body (if you know what I mean) and then go yep she's the one, would she love me back? Wrong approach. I won't make the same mistake again. This time, I will qualify her and try to find out what I like about her. Else, I will be lost in sea of sexual tension and frustration. Am I being honest with my desires? Probably not, I was not honest with her about it. Liked her yet accepted the friend zone. Caused me intense suffering. What makes a person seductive? What is the essence of it? What is it? A question that leaves me staring at the stars at 11:00 PM

I just watched this video and read the book that he spoke about here and I never realised how powerful this video is. Really recommend watching if you are a nice guy and talk to a lot of women but don't connect with them

This is a fascinating topic that I been trying to understand for years now. It's simple but needs sacrifice to execute. Step 1: Write down/bitch/rant in an unfiltered way on a paper or your journal. Step 2: Take each sentence and ask yourself "How does me choosing this feeling and thus acting this way server me?" Step 3: Take the answer and ask the same question again to the answer. How does it server me. Step 4: When it realized (not understand) that this doesn't serve you, you will drop it in that instance. This requires you to let your ego go and increase your sense of love. Watch Leo's video on "What is Self Love" to understand this deeper Step 5: Choose the belief that you do want to believe (Notice, here were self-love comes in to create a higher conscious belief) Voila! You have successfully changed your belief. Notice this requires contemplation which also Leo made a video on. Check that out as well! Hope this helps, let me know what you think in the comments below!

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The word free will doesn't exist in objective reality. The word free will only get it's meaning if you buy into the illusion of an observer and there are 2 things that's not the observer, now you get to choose. Depending on the level you illusion you subscribe to, you will have free will. However, if you identify with everything, then that word ceases to have meaning. So, as long as you haven't seen through the illusion there is free will. Also, unconditional Love is free will that has evolved to its max. Like pichu to raichu. haha

Every emotion that one experiences and if you feel stuck is because there is pleasure in experienced in your sub consciousness. Once you became conscious of it, you can choose to let it go. It's like this, you know how they catch monkey in india? They put peanuts in a bottle and when the monkey puts it's hand inside and grabs the peanuts, it makes a fist and is stuck. The monkey is not willing to let go of the peanuts and also wants to gets its hand out of the bottle. Our goal is to be honest and transparent with ourselves and become conscious of the peanuts we are holding on to. Once you become aware that you are one that's holding to the peanuts, you can choose let it go. Fear is a habit. As you recognize it, you will be able to loosen the viselike grip— not that fear has upon you— but that you have upon fear. Fear will go away once you give it permission to leave. ~Emmanuel

The series like self-deception, Love, and duality was really good, but in my opinion, I think going Meta was the best video thus far! If I could recommend one video, it would be this. Because so much that is unsaid in most of the self-help/spirituality circle is so beautifully articulated in this one! If Leo, you are reading this, could you please share your writing process? Like how do you structure and script your videos? If the idea of sharing excites you, please do share! I would love to know!

@seeking_brilliance Thanks! Will check it out!

@Bando Going Meta on emotions and becoming a witness! I think I got a more conscious understanding of the letting go technique!

the alabaster girl by zan perrion This is amazing in the sense it very nicely dovetails with that book! Do read it. The guy is amazing and is loved by women. Very intersting!

Authentic YOU! I love this topic because this seems to be the essence of your soul expressed in the external reality in it's truest vibration. I researched this for years and I realized this, the person you are now if you don't feel authentic, you probably are not. It's like you are listening to piano play and something doesn't sound right. A key that's out of key. You find it, fix it and play again. Hmm, something still doesn't sound right. Is it the C4? Let's find out! My journey is something similar. My soul wants to express itself in a certain way, however, I have limiting beliefs that stop it from being the way it wants to. "You are not supposed to do this in public!" "Yuck! did you just puke?" "You did this to him? Disgusting!"... Once I find these beliefs and realize it doesn't serve me anymore, I let go. Once I let go, the soul now can express itself evermore, and thus now I'm more authentic. I am not in any way achieved the pinnacle of this process, it's an ongoing journey of becoming more aware of what I believe and asking myself "how does this serve me?" Helps?

Hey guys, I would love your input on this. There is this girl I really liked and tried my best to get over the feeling of lust and be friends but couldn't. Decided in the end to go our own ways. However, she's kinda is in the same friend group as me so it's hard to get over it. I now took a 3 month break from the friends group as well. I was wondering if you could given me some tips to over come this from a spiritual perspective of love and acceptance.

@Eternity @SamC Thanks guys. It keeps life on hold, I definitely agree. I think what happened to me was I think i equated that to Oh, I am not good enough or what could I have done to change that? and regrets of had I did this in the past then this wouldn't have happened. I have to process and resolve that. Thanks for the input!

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Hey guys! I'm going to canada and definitely want to do shrooms. I am thinking of ordering the Goldern Teacher. My goal is to self actualize and become more loving and deal with my lust for women, my studies and money In my research, the best thing they suggest is tea? Could you guys please give me your input as to what's the best way to go about it? couple of questions: - What shroom to buy? - Can I have it in my room? - Should I be listening to some lecture from leo, alan watts or ram dass? - what to do about the puking thing? anything else I should be aware of? Please let me know! Thanks guys! much love!

I don't know how but I just stumbled upon this and I only found out now!!! I have to watch the entire thing but why didn't I find it sooonerrrr