Dhana Choko

In terms of cheating, the most important question is: "Can I be happy with me if I cheat?" Most people can't.

What do you think you would gain from having more sexual experiences with different girls?

I would seriously ask the question "Why do I want to be like Elon Musk?", "What do I believe I would have by being like Elon Husk, that I do not have right now?" "What are the deeper reasons for me wanting to be someone like Elon Musk?"

Many people disagree with this. Personally I think my life has gotten so much better after I started to pay attention to what I eat. I feel better, I do not have any of the health issues I used to have (acne, bloated body, extra 10kg of weight, higher blood pressure, worse blood test results, feeling unenergetic, skin looked grey etc.). If I just think about how much negative energy all of these things used to give me, I feel so much lighter, happier and I am healthier (by blood test results and feeling more energetic), so I think it is definitely worth it. It is not even that much work, cooking takes as long as it used to and I still have to go to supermarket and spend money on food, but I just choose products that give me things instead of taking from me. The process is still the same. Also, on personal developmental front, this has been so beneficial. It has done wonders for my psyche to get rid of addictions to sugar, meat products, milk products etc. It takes so much self-confidence and self-discipline to get over your addictions and I am so proud that I can walk in a supermarket and be completely in control of my food choices and choose foods that are actually good for me and not from the state of being addicted to something and making it okey by mental arguments, when in fact the main reason why I ate all these products was purely addiction based. I don't want that food groups control my life and my addictions make choices for me. With addictions, I mean that I could not see myself before living a happy life without certain products or without eating meat or milk products etc. and I could not give it up - and when I thought about it, I thought it was insane! That these products on shelves of supermarkets, controlled my life in away that I could not see my self living without them. I was never overweight and I never stuffed myself with food or anything like that - I think my relationship with food was actually much better than most people even when I ate meat and milk products and I still consider I was extremely addicted to some foods. Now I am free of it and I feel so much better psychologically cause I had to become strong to get over those and on the plus side, I am much better cook than I used to be, I eat better and more delcious food than before AND this food is good for my body, I lose weight and my skin looks amazing and I feel energetic. So many benefits with getting over addictions.

Yogi Bhajan (founder and master yogi of Kundalini yoga) teaches that PMS symptoms on women, especially if they are bad ones, are mostly due to the overconsumption of sugar. You should stop eating any sugar and lessen the amount of fruit to couple a fruit a day and see if your symptoms get better. Also meat and other animal products make PMS worse, but sugar is the worst.

If you had sex with him on the first night and after talking with him a bit, you are already ready to jump from "I do not want a relationship" to "I want him to love me", I think he is definitely right in wanting to run away and not wanting a relationship with you. Sorry, but you are not ready. If you are this easily swayed into wanting a relationship, I think he should not trust you nor you should trust yourself in these matters....You should definitely do some inner searching and some work with yourself.

So did your boyfriend cheat? Or why did you consider breaking up?

Most people look nice, if they have clean clothes, they are clean, they smell nice and take reasonably well care of themselves (do some sorts of exercise, think what they wear at least a little bit, shave, brush teeth etc.). Even if you would have some kind of slightly weird facial features, but if you dress nicely and genuinely think that you are a nice person and let that shine through, it is very likely that you will have great dates and nice relationships. The problem is that many people do not have the motivation to do even this bare minimum. They might think that you have to be something "so amazing" that with decent face and a bit too much on the waist - it is game over and they just let it slide completely. But this is just not true. Most people can do so much for themselves with little things - taking care of those little things is a sign of loving one self and it is positive energy and this is why it does make a difference.

Great Soon you will be off having your own cooking channel....Beware! ;D

Can you back up this claim? To my knowledge and research, our teeth and stomach acidity and intestines are not similar to pure carnivores and human babies (or adults) are usually unwilling to eat big chunks of raw meat.

I am 28

You don't need to escape the "system" to become free. Freedom comes from your mindset (enlightenment is a perspective). You don't need to sit in a cave and meditate 24/7. You can be aware while you live your life and know that it is very meaningful and meaningless at the same time. You can enjoy life and all the 'useless' activities in a new way. This gives new kind of freedom and enjoyment. Of course you can change your life according to your new un-worldly goals but it is not necessary.

That is a very difficult question. I have no idea if I know as much as Leo. I do know many things that he is talking about and I could definitely hold a conversation about most of his topics, but there are also some topics that I am just not interested in or feel like they are not relevant or interesting to me (like the recent video 27 habits of successful people). I also have studied things that Leo has not. It is very difficult to say who knows "more". Knowledge and understanding are very difficult things to measure. I am personally interested in truth and understanding and not just information.

Try Kundalini yoga if you are interested. The point of this yoga is to enlighten one self and to know and be the Truth. It is a very beautiful and powerful form of yoga and I can highly recommend it. Kundalini energy and kundalini awakening is just the tip of the ice berg to all of that there is to know about this beautiful form of yoga.

I have personally studied self-development and spirituality and psychology for about 13 years pretty much all the time, I constantly read, I listen to audiobooks and videos wherever I go, I attend courses online and live...It is a "hobby" that is also my lifestyle. Almost everything I do is some how connected to this stuff. If you do this for years and years with solid focus on it, it is very easy to get very "good" at it because it is just SO interesting!

I like Deliciously Ella. She cooks healthy vegan food.

I think that it is not so much about when you wake up but when you go to bed. It is much easier to go to bed early than to wake up early - at least in my opinion. I have noticed that when I go to bed around 9pm and I read a bit and just calm myself down, it is much gentler and nicer than going to bed in a "hurry" and then forcing myself up at 5 am. I might not wake up naturally at 5 am, but I feel much better if I naturally wake up at around 6am and then start my day. I feel like I have "accomplished" something and it feels so nice and natural.

This is very true. We need to keep the ego in check as well with spiritual goals. We must remember that ego is very clever and it uses whatever means to make itself real and to keep its identity and "realness" alive, so it will transform itself to whatever to stay alive. It is very important to stay aware, be aware of our "goals", reasons why "we" want it and all tendencies that come up.

Most PEOPLE are low consciousness. It has nothing to do with gender. There are many women who are very consciously self-actualizing and thriving for high consciousness states - actually many spiritual retreats and so on all full of women compared to men.

Everyone on this forum will realize they are enlightened at some point.

There are so many blood-pressure pills and so many ones to try that if the first one does not work, you can try another. It is very important to keep the blood pressure in check so that the kidneys and heart do not get overloaded. Most important things are of course getting excess weight off (if she has any), eat as well as she can (low sodium, mostly vegetables and fruit, minimal animal products or preferably none), exercise and keeping active. Meditation and lessening of stress helps of course as well. There are actually quite many things that one can do. I personally have to be on some blood pressure medication due to my kidney condition but I have actually been able to reduce the amount of my blood pressure pills over 50% by vegan diet.

So what do you find about this to be 'chimpery'? What do you mean by chimpery?

So this situation that you are in, causes you to have activated thoughts, beliefs and ideas in your mind and these thoughts and ideas and beliefs make you react in an angry way. Let's say that this situation that you were in, just stops and this person who made you angry, never says anything about this issue ever again. You go about your life and experience things and it is quite likely that you will run up against someone again in your life, that has similar type of characteristics and opinions as this person ((we all know very well that these types on people exist and there are a lot of them all over the world)) you are talking about now. They might even talk to you the same way as this person in this previous situation. It is quite likely that his ideas and actions will cause you to have very similar thoughts, beliefs and ideas pop up in your mind as it did on the first time and again, you are very angry and your life is filled with this deep anger towards this new situation and similar thoughts run in your head again: you would like to stop this person from saying these things, you would even have a thought where you wish that this person was dead as well. As a wise person as you are, you can see that we have a problem here. This same thing keeps happening all over again. How can we proceed?

@AHappyTeddyBear I see. So what you perceive in him, generates thoughts in you that stem from you own beliefs and background and history. Then these thoughts in your head make you aggressive and you make the association that these aggressive feelings are caused by his actions and words and you would like to make that stop - right? Isn't your initial want in that situation to stop this pain inside of you? You don't want to feel this bad and have all these emotions in you so you would want this to end. And in your mind, you kind of make the association that if this person would stop talking and acting the way he acts and talks, you would not have these thoughts that cause these emotions and then, your pain would stop. Then you feel like you don't have much of a choice to choose on if he stops or not, so maybe your mind makes the association that if he would just die and he would not be there to say those things, you would be better - right? Isn't this kind of how you think currently?

What do you think just before this aggression hits you? What kind of thoughts emerge in your mind when this person starts saying all these things about you?