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Guys, your advice is definitely useful, but keep in mind that Victor should not become resentful in the process, it can seem like you are suggesting him that, even though you arent, to someone who has just started this journey... Quitting social media and non-supportive people can surely help, just not become hateful and anxious with them, thats what I am trying to say here... You dont have to suddenly start hating them, just dont participate in the actions you dont resonate with... Also find some ACTUAL friends, who push and support you, understand you... It might be dangerous to isolate yourself completely

@JohnLeyo What is success in your opinion? The word gets misused...

@saffron This is great. Think about it. You can definitely be grateful, without fighting. You can contribute without winning. If we rather focus on increasing the global awareness of mankind, war will disappear, unless it destroys us before that happens... War probably was necessary in the past, you cannot just surrender to Hitler and hope for the best... But I honestly think that conflict wont be necessary, as we evolve - but its not guaranteed that it will be in our lifetimes, as the world leaders are stage red partially...

@SoonHei I see... Something clicked.

I watched the video What is perception yesterday and I actually had a glimpse of the Infinite, the ego just fell down and couldnt fight for a moment... It was a huge mindfuck for me... Actually only fuck, because the mind wasnt quite there I am not a fearful or unstable person or anything, but I got this thought, it was like some kind of feeling that I am gonna die or have to die in order to experience God, there still was this barrier between me and Being. I also couldnt understand, how is it possible for the mind-body to die and for the Consciousness to survive. I will probably watch my hand more and try to experience this more often. Any advice on how to overcome these problems? I was thinking about going on a psychedelic trip, but I am affraid that I am too young for it and I am not ready in general... But Leo has finally showed me the value of it

@SoonHei Oh thats interesting... To what death was Jesus reffering to, assuming he was Enlightened then? I thought it was the ego death....

This is just too much... I still have the connection with Being and the organs, mainly brain... Another question pops up, that takes it from the other end: What if there was only the possibility to feel but nothing else? Could it sense anything? There would be no space to feel, no thoughts to think about, no objects to see... Its kind of meaningless to talk about, it needs to be grasped... Are you guys Enlightened? Or have had some experiences?

@VictorB02 You welcome Just stop caring what other people think about you, you dont have to become toxic or resentful to them, just leave, maybe tell them something so that they understand you... If they dont understand you, they are not really your friends or they are just kidding around... Its not really their fault to be like that... I have actually stopped talking to my friends, I dont participate in many things they do, but we can still chat sometimes, if one of us needs something or we just feel like having some fun together... Its not anything THAT serious

Have you seen Leo's video What is perception? I have actually had a little glimpse of infinity while watching it. You actually have to kill your self

@Annoynymous I have been a typical nice guy and still partially am, so I understand your struggles quite well in my opinion I had been dreaming about becoming this perfectly moral, excellent justice warrior (nice guy) who gets all the girls with his honesty and humbleness. Bullshit. Just a little note, I am 15, so maybe my advice is not very relevant for you, but still, I made some big progress lately 1) The feminine CANNOT be understood from the perspective of the masculine. 2) Nofap definitely makes a difference, I dont know how, but when I fap, I suck, when I dont fap, girls just tend to be around me all the time. 3) Work on yourself, rather than trying to learn about how to attract someone. I have girls coming to me saying they enjoy the way I am driven in the things I am doing and it is obvious that I am confident, happy and passionate - yet I didnt do pick up or anything like that... Deida's book will actually teach you more about life than about women

@fewrocker Oh ok... Maybe I actually see yellow When I try to help people, it still seems that I am not wise enough, even though I am the most intelligent and non-biased person in the room most of the time... It will probably take a year or two to properly work on myself... @Space Thanks! I will check out the content there... I actually have a stable yellow friend, who is probably about to move into turquoise soon... Our friendship is so valuable, as I have developed the lower stages more than him and he is higher in the spiral than me, so we can just push each other's limits incredibly well. Yeah, even turquoise is kind of slippery when we talk about it... @Rilles I will probably do the exact same thing What about the epochs, cognitive development, states, types and lines, are there any good books on these? I think I don't really understand the terms Leo is using in his video...

Hey everyone, I saw the latest video and it has really helped to understand the model of Spiral dynamics better, but at the same time, I feel dumb. Leo for the first time mentioned stage Coral in his development table - what the hell is it actually like? I also feel that I havent even understood yellow and turquoise till now, can someone explain, how can you actually understand these by thinking? Are there any books on the booklist that explain the epochs, morality line and cognitive line of development? I am just getting super lost...

@Annoynymous That's the counter-intuitive thing, if you try to achieve this mastery of attracting women, you will end up manipulating. If you master yourself, you won't manipulate. Read David Deida's book - The way of the superior man, it's no stage orange crap, trust me.

@Annoynymous Do nofap and work on yourself, embrace your feminine/masculine side more, do consiousness work, find a life purpose - be driven by it.

@VictorB02 I don't know if they are the right friends for you, if you are a high-achiever... But it still seems that you have some inner problems, as if you were anxious or something... Try looking for that.

@Rilles Same here...

@Rilles I have already watched all the spiral videos twice... I think its time for another round There is still much to learn... By reading about yellow, I think, that I actually have a yellow part of myself, its just not stable

By the way, Jesus' body wasn't found, it went to God Therefore it cannot rot... Sorry everyone who likes this

@Rilles That's obivous, I am probably blue/orange/green, like a typical European... It's way beyond me... How does one embody yellow?

@Ampresus Hey buddy, I am in a very similar situation, I am just 1 year older, living in Czechia and Christian... My parents are also quite strict with religion, my grandparents are even more strict, but you need to understand, that dogma is very strong weapon and they are using it against themselves, without knowing it. Be more open and compassionate, your style of thinking is still quite blue/orange. Be careful not to turn Actualized.org into another religion Happened to me... You dont need to just look at Leo and do whatever he does... He is a very inspiring man, I wish i could swap lives with him - thats why I listen - but sooner or later, you will have to think on your own I dont know if this is still your problem, but I learn this about myself when speaking with my more developed friend... He was waiting for me to realize it EDIT: Have you watched Leo's latest video? I think that it is very helpful, it answered many questions to me and I think it is basically handmade for people like us... You need to differentiate between stage, state, line and type of development and also all the independent variables, life isnt just about the Spiral....

You arent even trying to work on yourself, even if we helped you, it would just remain the same.

Hey everyone! I just found this talk on youtube and it is quite funny how this guy is basically trying to create a summary of so many self-actualizing models in one speech But seriously, can anyone really help someone else by telling them, if they arent genuinely interested? How is it possible? Some people like to see a good example in their leaders, but some people think that a person like that is just egotistical and wants to manipulate. How do I overcome that, if I wanna focus my life purpose on creating a self-actualizing community?

@YoYoYo Have you read/tried Katie Byron techniques? Many Leo's videos are based around that... It really helps, its a legitemate solution

@i am I AM Isn't it more like that the thinking about it breaks the meditation? You probably laugh when you think mostly, but...

Yeah, its super funny, you could definitely create a meme from it haha. I heard Sadhguru talking about it in one of his stories, I dont know if it happened to him, but he was talking about a boy, who was sitting at his desk in one of his classes and he didnt understand the teacher, because he was in a meditative state.