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@Mikael89 So little people actually do nofap, that it's impossible to see the difference, it's the norm nowadays.

They want attention and you are giving it to them. If you feel as if you were betrayed in this situation... There are gonna be many harder things happening, you need to be able to handle them.

You are so close to quitting your addictions now, just keep noticing it more and more You can replace these things with meditation, stretching, reading and some other great things to do Experiment.

@AudibleLocket That's good that you thought about it There are too many things to worry about in yourself, if you put other people's opinions into the mixture, it's gonna drive you mad Many people are addicted to other people, being needy and annoying and they deny this by saying that they are extroverted. Good relationships with your family and friends are crucial actually - how are you gonna pursue your life purpose, if you aren't good with people? You cannot change the world alone most of the time. It's just that you have to take care of yourself first and don't try to suck out love from others, that will dry you. With unconditional love comes happiness, you can understand this by having some mystical experiences With hatred, you cannot be happy. If you work on yourself, get rid of all the addictions, false beliefs, moralizations... almost everything in life will play in your cards, there will be no need to hate. There are people that can push you forward, that understand you, that want to support you no matter what - stay with these people, why not right. But if you only love some people, mostly because of their positive actions towards you, there must be some bad people. Most people think that they love Leo unconditionally, but they only love him because he helps us by everything he does - can you really love him, if he hurts you? Just look at any teacher who doesn't respect their students, are they considered a good or a bad teacher among the students? What is balance for you in this topic? Is it to love some and hate some? Or to be sometimes happy alone and sometimes not? Most people live like this and are miserable, think about it more

@Charlotte I don't know what are your friends like, but... you probably need to be more flexible, if you don't want them to be angry... A normal person wants to talk with you to get approval, compliments, fun - questioning their knowledge doesn't give them any of that. I remember when I was in that stage and my developed friend would question everything I said and it really annoyed me, but in the end, I learnt a lot from him doing that, because I had to start thinking about what am I actually saying much more... That's not the usual case though!

@kingroboto I actually read it haha. @AceTrainerGreen You still don't understand the problem.

@Aquarius I see... thank you I usually don't ask people to be my mentors

Hey guys, do you know any highly developed, high yellow/turquoise people, who are open to conversation? I want to experience speaking or at least calling/chattting with a person like that, I think there is a big opportunity to grow from such a conversation.

@Viking I think you should consider watching the whole thing Teal Swan is a good channel, if you cannot solve your problems in the Leo style...

Is there gonna be a Europe tour in the future? I am pretty confused... We are building a community in Prague + there is a psychedelic community, maybe they have some 5 MeO DMT to shower Leo with But we will probably be able to go to Berlin if necessary

Try watching this, it has helped me

@Key Elements Thank you so much! I think that's my next step... Shaolin monks are indeed a good example

@kieranperez I meant the people who are actually mentoring someone, like @aurum It's obvious there isn't, but sorry for distraction...

It matters who's approach is more realistic and objective at that time... You can be as equal as possible, but if there are no animals on the planet or if it's impossible to grow plants, you won't have a choice... It goes deeper than this.

You are oversimplifying it way too much.

What are you guys doing, that attracts people to you? What are you looking for in your students? I am not trying to copy it, I am just curious...

@aurum I dont think that it will be for free... As I said, I am willing to do many things, it would be great to work for my mentor. (for free) But my parents wont let me work for a stranger when i am 15 now So I need to gain some more knowledge and values I can offer before doing so...

@Key Elements Thanks so much I am actually quite good at doing that, as I have a lot of practise from learning languages... just going to people But I would first have to know more about these people, it's kind of rude to walk up to someone without knowing who he is Then I would ask them questions about their story... I am laways interested in stories... @Nahm Of course I am!

Thank you so much, I will contemplate all these questions, I probably already know the answers

@aurum @Timotheus I am sure that I have many qualities to offer, I am very helpful, industrious and serious about improving and pushing each other's limits, I am willing to do many things to have such a person talking to me. I think that teachers want their students to be able to actually grow and improve, while giving them compassion and the great feeling of giving and helping people get out of the maze. I have seen a thread here about directly messaging people like Peter Ralston - it turned out that they are genuinely interested to help (if you ask them good question probably and show that you are not just kidding around) so I got really inspired to try such a thing... That's what I was asking in the first place - if you know people like this

@Roch I am a Japanese otaku myself, but there are many types of otaku, you cannot really throw us all in one bag. Why people dont like SOME of them? They tend to be ethnocentric, pervert, annoying, obsessed, needy and unable to talk about normal topics with people... you dont really have to be an otaku to not be liked for these reasons though...

@Annoynymous I think you already got the answer written here many times Now you need to actually work.

@saffron Definitely

@VictorB02 I am happy you got it Hatred is never a good option, why would you ever hate someone, when it causes YOU actual bad feelings? It's mad!