bejapuskas

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  1. @AleksM Thanks buddy!
  2. @Consept Don't read that book to much though, there are certain people, who would just completely crush your hand when you give them a handshake and use your name in every sentence they say, you probably know what I mean
  3. @Marinus I'm on day 10 now, having next to no cravings, I literally have to go deep into the fantasy world to feel anything, there are only positive effects, my meditation is way more effective. But when do these problems come? I mean, blue balls and pain is kind of scary, how do you deal with it, is it ok?
  4. It hit my eyes the first time I saw him, his body language is indeed very weird, but I don't understand psychosis...
  5. @lmfao This extraversion vs. introversion problem is interesting... Many people mistake extraversin for neediness to be around people and introversion for social anxiety, which is obviously unhealthy. I think of all people as ambiverts (can be both), because most of the time, it is about whether the other person is giving you space in the conversation and also another big aspect is whether you can actually be honest in the conversation and express yourself. In bigger groups, you cannot really express yourself that much and you have to be careful about what you say a bit more... But this doesn't apply to everyone obviously, it's just my perspective
  6. @Ampresus Why should I be bothered by this problem of yours?
  7. @Toby Of course, it's just ignorance from their side, everyone is doing the best they know But you hopefully know better than that.
  8. @howdoistopobsessing If you were a high quality woman, would you want a guy who is desperate or a guy who is loving? Your thinking is too linear, you have to first fix the problems in yourself and by doing that, all the needs and superstitious things might actually disappear. Try contemplation - just write whatever comes into your mind, be honest and don't overthink it, you will learn so much about yourself. Stop looking for some external thing that will magically solve all your problems. Alexander the Great died with a regret, even though he „made his ego distractions dreams come true“ or Arnold Schwarzenegger, even after being the #1 bodybuilder and #1 actor, he still needed something else, it's not like it will do the job, even if you go to the extreme like those two guys Try studying Katie Byron and Eckhart Tolle, maybe it will help you. Also, be honest with yourself: do you actually do all the practices Leo recommends you to do? How often and precisely do you do them? Do you read books? Are you addicted to something? @F A B What you are advising him is great, these things obviously make a difference, but drop the idea of these „achievements“, there is much bigger treasure hidden from you in the present moment You literally sound like TJ Reeves
  9. @Viking Dude you are just staying in a place, asking more questions will not help you, you have to do a radical step forward, or you will just continue to suffer in your life
  10. When your parents and grandparents love you unconditionally, do you just overlook them, without even saying thank you? When you have a huge passive income, do you think about what to spend it on, or do you just gamble with it?
  11. @Toby Young people can now easily encounter other cultures and world views via internet and religion is becoming „outdated“, thus the colour blue is slowly dying off. This however makes darwinian worldviews very popular and it also makes it seem as if people like Richard Dawkins knew it all (in certain cases). You can often see people saying: All it means for a person is to pass on their genes! which is obviously a very deluded approach to life. I mean, the book Selfish gene has helped me to destroy my false beliefs about relationships and ultimately made me go from blue to orange more easily, but if you are planning to live your whole life just chasing these values... You can probably see the problem
  12. @F A B You don't have to show anything to anybody, rather just observe the beauty in others
  13. @F A B That's ma boy You almost fell into it! Instead, go for a walk by yourself and let that craving STARVE
  14. @martins name That's quite likely
  15. Do you actually need to obtain success in order to develop? Maybe I don't understand the question, just because our view of success is different... Can you elaborate?
  16. @Shin You perfectly embody the yin and yang of sarcasm and seriousness, you know we all love you for that
  17. @Emerald Just make a video with charismatic, muscular, afroamerican man, who is good at speaking and make it public... That's what Old spice people do as well!
  18. @VictorB02 Have you ever seen Shin talking serious stuff?
  19. @Michael569 He makes videos performing squats in the gym, that is a way more attractive environment, than Leo's black room, he is very masculine, analytical and strong, which appeals to young men and he is very proud of his company, he thinks, that it can solve all of our problems just by showing some numbers, so he makes it seem like it has no mistake at all... This all seems awesome, if you don't think about it. I also had a videocall with him and 2 of his business partners and they are all very friendly people, they motivate you to do the work and they help you to realize what you want and it all ACTUALLY makes sense, they don't even criticize Leo that much, when you talk 1 on 1 with them. But then they make a video like that from this week and you go like whaaaat, they are saying something different everytime you hear them talking.
  20. @Viking Of course, if you are ego-driven, you cannot experience gratitude, because you don't live in the present moment, you are striving for more, which keeps you away from what you already have NOW. Don't think of Enlightenment as something, that will satisfy your ego, that's bullshit.
  21. @Viking So many things that are awesome happen automatically, they just become a lot more enjoyable if you notice them That's obviously not what I want you to do. It's not that you should thoughtlessly believe others, but you also shouldn't only believe yourself like that, do you see it? There is a big self-deception going on, this all is ego - it cannot be satisfied in the present moment, but that's exactly the place you have to go to in order to find happiness. That's also the place where you find love and genuine beauty - the things you've listed, but haven't experienced yet If you believe Leo and not me, go check out his happiness spectrum video, being and gratefulness are high up there
  22. Read that again - you are obviously stuck in your mind, you are too rational, stop overthinking everything like this... If you ask a question here and you are just waiting for others to prove your points... what do you expect? Contemplating your own death can show you the hidden love inside you, it is very important, don't take survival for granted. When you walk for a long time, you become tired, that's why you sit And you can also take your time to just look around. Focus on your breath, because that's what keeps you alive, your ego is idiotic for questioning the importance of breath, do you see it now? If you just focus on climbing to the top of the pyramid, you will end up egotistical, just look at TJ Reeves. Be grateful.