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Everything posted by bejapuskas
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@VictorB02 All the insecurities that you feel are your „fault“, same with others, but this is kind of unpractical. Are you at the same time trying to understand them and have a deep talk, or are you just kind of being weird while doing this eye gazing?
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@Tim Stretton I observed this on myself and my parents, but I think it also works in romantic relationships. They always think like they need to tell me what to do, it's as if they were my owners. They are good parents, but this is really their problem, I want to feel independent and free. I think this is what it means to accept the other person, to not try to own them, to set them free and if they go back to you, they're truly yours. The first for growth is a good indicator of a high quality partner in my opinion, they don't have to be like some Jesus type of person if you know what I mean. I don't know about the gender roles and sexual polarities though, they seem to have some meaning, some people really benefit from them, but I wonder how does it improve your life, how do you find out what kind of polarity you have...
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Ecosia https://www.ecosia.org/
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bejapuskas replied to Anton Rogachevski's topic in Spirituality, Consciousness, Awakening, Mysticism, Meditation, God
@Shiva My main argument for not commercializing Awakening would be, that you cannot focus on God, when you are chasing money. But that depends on the person, it's just that it is hard for most people -
bejapuskas replied to Anton Rogachevski's topic in Spirituality, Consciousness, Awakening, Mysticism, Meditation, God
@Anton Rogachevski Value of money is relative, you imagine it. You can do a business from it for sure, some people are doing that, but I am not sure if it is a good motivation for spiritual growth. -
@abrakamowse Oh nice
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@abrakamowse Oh so you speak that? Sounds interesting
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bejapuskas replied to SFRL's topic in Spirituality, Consciousness, Awakening, Mysticism, Meditation, God
@SFRL I also think that thinking like you have to do something or you should something is still limited, when you give up all the have tos and shoulds, you feel much more free. But it jas to be authentic, because the I should get rid of all the shoulds is also a should. -
@abrakamowse Yes Same thing. Are you from Italy?
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@yellowschnee Told many people about my feelings of love for everything and also how love actually is everything and many more things like that... But I only told it to some people, some of them were quite questionable to tell this to though... Didn't think it was risky, I don't do that anymore. I also only told it to one teacher who many kids trust, so that's probably why it didn't come up to the surface. But still many of the people I told it to think I am weird and stopped talking to me. I really learned a lot by doing it.
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@Seed @Charlotte That's why you eat your meals slowly (of course it's just a materialist traddition, I don't really like these ) @abrakamowse We also do that on Christmas with our carp and potato salad. We usually add a lottery ticket and a fish scale.
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@yellowschnee Whoa I did something very similar here, but fortunately I wasn't hospitalized, sounds awful man.
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@Knock Yeh right, it's pretty insane... I hope the world will evolve soon It would be great to see the African culture develop. I once lived with 3 African kids in a small flat in London as an exchange programme, really enjoyed it, they were totally different. But I don't think you should be regretful for what you did, my family sent some money to a boy in Africa who lost his parents and sister and he sent us a letter, where he said that he is grateful, so it probably helped him in some way
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Sharing this, because it shows you the importance of understanding, groundedness, openness, love, creativity and commitment.
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@Charlotte Idk, probably to make the person who gets the coin cheer up a bit when they bite it
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bejapuskas replied to SFRL's topic in Spirituality, Consciousness, Awakening, Mysticism, Meditation, God
Just a small note - sometimes the win or loose outcome might not be so obvious, sometimes it might give you benefits in the long term, that you or the other person might not see now -
I've seen people put coins into their pies, that was on purpose though
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bejapuskas replied to electroBeam's topic in Spirituality, Consciousness, Awakening, Mysticism, Meditation, God
omg I never realized minecraft has this poem on the end screen, thanks! good one! -
Wow this sounds like a good exercise, thanks for sharing your inner genius Shin My 2 cents: don't go to the toilet when you are dreaming in bed. Just came to my mind randomly.
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@themovement The Truth doesn't need someone like you to create evidence for it Keep living in la la land (hell)
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@themovement We accept the love we think we deserve
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@BreadbuterknifeNinja Your suffering is a fuel for growth Watch this:
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@Daz Romance I think your line of thought makes sense You cannot be „the master of mastery“ - that's another word for hypocrisy. But mastering your values, activities that you do, health etc. is a very good idea, go ahead
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@yellowschnee Teaching sport might be different from teaching maths and languages, but being strict is probably good, I have some of my best memories about training with strict coaches hahahaha. It was tough, but worth it, they really contribute your life by putting you down, just as zen masters do. I think you are doing great if the kid is interested and wants to persevere I am not sure if I understand you, I think you should definitely let him ask questions, but keep challenging him I guess. I agree with you that it is good to have different teaching styles. I have many good teachers, each of them has a different approach, but you could probably find some similarities - not letting the kids to literally what they want is one of them. They give us meaningful exercises and homework, they are relatable, compassionate and very smart. I guess you can enjoy any subject, if you are interested in it. For example I started enjoying history and civics much more, because there are many similarities and connections with the things Leo talks about in his videos. I am working on being interested in all the subjects now I believe it is possible.
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@Surfingthewave Of course you have a clear role, but just allowing the kids to do whatever they want? Really?
