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@Serotoninluv I am just wondering if the lack of acceptance is external, internal, or both enhancing each other mutually... Does it start with denial of sex and then escalate into homosexuality/bisexuality/transgender, or does it start there and then lead to lack of acceptance from the inside? Or maybe there are all these different cases mixed in society. It might seem like I hate them, but I actually love my lgbtq friends and I want to be able to support them better... Maybe I should just behave normally, sometimes that's the best you can do for someone.

@Serotoninluv Interesting, so you think it's only because of the lack of acceptance? Don't you think there might be also some other factors worth considering?

@Serotoninluv What do you think is the relationship between being homosexual/bisexual and depression? It just happens so that all of my female friends who aren't only attracted to guys or not at all also have some psychological issues. Do you think there is any connection?

A conscious action, an action full of life, mindfulness and love

That's a valid point, but only a few people care about it mindfully and that makes the difference.

@Mikael89 If you cared about quality of your everyday experience, you would automatically become attractive to most women. But you only care about suffering

@Voladores Be careful with this „my ego is doing this, my selfishness causes me to do that...“ it is just blaming, limiting beliefs, helplessness. You are in control, nobody else is, you have to fix these things if you want. The ego will not just walk away, if you keep thinking about it.

@Voladores Practice mindfulness. You are not a douchebag. I am a douchebag that's looking at me from inside the mirror is just a thought. If you shut your mind and look at the mirror, who is there?

@remember Don't worry I am not a parent, I am only asking out of curiosity

Sounds like a big project, since most adults aren't gonna be communicating this and it is not realistic to think that these kids would only meet high-consciousness individuals. What would it actually be like if you only met these people, hm... Maybe a person like this wouldn't even be able to feel compassion, because they wouldn't know suffering.

good for you

@Truth Addict Shutting your mind is not the same thing as repressing though

@Truth Addict Especially for you it's hard, right?

@Rujan Mehar Bajracha Let go of these labels

@Rujan Mehar Bajracha It often happens to people that they have a glimpse, but they then go like „Oh my God! This is unbelievable stuff! I have this crazy experience! This is what Leo talked about!“ But in order to get more juice from it, you have to realize that you aren't having this experience and it is not describable. Just stay quiet.

@Rujan Mehar Bajracha How can there be you AND the True Self, how can you see the True Self? Detach from that ownership, you cannot possess the Truth.

A strong man actively creates his experience, therefore he builds up his skills, he doesn't need anyone to help him with that, nor is it really that possible. A teacher can give you pointers, but the inner work has to be done by you.

I know a philosophy professor who has been into philosophy his whole life and I feel like he's become good at speaking for a long time about things without making any sense. It is sad how corrupt it is... But probably you can do better than that, it will just take a lot of effort.

I am not a native English speaker, so I couldn't watch Leo and participate on this forum, if I hadn't learnt English to a sufficient level. The way I used to learn back in the day as a kid was watching Minecraft let's plays on youtube, then playing in multiplayer with English speaking friends and doing all sorts of stuff in English. It was a distraction, but I am glad I did it, because now I am on top of my class in English and I can understand basically anything. I think kids can easily learn a new language by watching youtube and playing video games, my nephews are 3 and 5 and they are already billingual, because they watch Peppa Pig in English instead of Czech. It's true that I have had some problem with understanding other people's emotions, but I don't really know what's more important, because like if I wasn't able to speak English at that time, I couldn't have watched the videos that started that interest to develop my understanding in me and now I have both... I think it's just too complicated, but definitely not black and white.

Again, I don't know what you mean, you cannot assume that people can see into your head. Calm down, meditate every morning.

Basic understanding of relativism starts to emerge at green, they see how every person has different experience, values... Orange starts to be more innovative and thinks for itself more than blue.

@FabulousKitchen You are just thinking too much Meditate every morning, be in peace with yourself. Silent eye contact is a beautiful thing. With the tongue thing... You can damage all of your body parts if you make a mistake like this, I mean like turning the music in your ear phones too loud or looking at the sun for too long...

Hey everyone, I was talking about a similar topic in my previous post, but now I have contemplated it more and I still dont see through the wall of relationships between men and women. I think that after some work, I evolved myself into yellow (I still have orange and green parts though) and I see the world very differently, can spot the root causes of many problems, understand issues that seem very hard to solve at first. I think, that SD affects everything you do. I can see how it affects business, health, friendship, learning, but not intimate relationships. I admit there is still tons of work to do for me, I am just curious about your opinions and perspectives on this. To me, love at red-green consciousness seems all very needy and manipulative, more or less. When I was blue and orange, I used to fall in love almost every month. Now, when I see the big picture, is so hard, I am so detached that the kind of attraction I felt before seems impossible... I literally got friendzoned an hour ago and felt no pain at all. What the hell is happening?

@Average Investor That's a good list I don't get attracted to people with emotional baggage, but rather they get attracted to me, do you think that says something about me or not?

@Average Investor Hey! Thanks for sharing your experience here. Yeh it's funny how it works... But yeh, it kind of gives me this feeling of confidence, power, helps me integrate my shadow... What criteria are the most critical for you? (both, positive and negative)