freepaul

Hi guys! I'm 18 yo and I'm from Romania. I've been growing up in a family with an abusive, alcoholic father. My mom was always acting like a victim, due to him... Also, she was abused emotionally by her parents from the age of 5. I always tried to help her deal with those situations, and it made me very empathetic. I discovered Leo 2 years ago, and it clicked very quickly for me that I found the one I was always looking for. We both share complex systematic thinking about the world. I was having pretty big changes, but still something's smelling pretty fishy as I climb up. I'm in my last year of highschool and there's a guy in my class whose character I can't relate with. Almost 2 years ago, he started bullying me emotionally and psychologically. He begs for attention, status and power, therefore he's got a very big ego... He chose me as a target because I'm the one different in the class. All my classmates are centered on money, hollow stuff, poor in wisdom. How do I deal with him bullying me more exactly? What do I do in that very second?

this one @Feel Good @ajasatya I will try acting with compassion, as you previously mentioned. Because I just realized that all the good things I've done were accomplished through love and understanding... I really appreciate your help in resolving the problem.

@Feel Good My insecure part is that I'm taking things personally. I generally understand the feelings of others, but for some reason, I haven't thought about bullying as a self-doubt aspect... The problem may stand in my compulsive acting...

I've seen him suffering in the past, but I wasn't really aware of that... will look up I acted pretty defensive, so already I did this mistake... am I gonna win his trust now?

Interesting... Found one more maze song. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=V1Pl8CzNzCw

Hi there! What's the most important method to grasp all of reality? Is it to focus on going out there and learning from different sources, viewing as many perspectives as possible and reading books? Or is it to contemplate deeply and ignore all reality? I know both are important, both are enumerated by Leo, but if you had to choose one, which is it?