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It's not very much. If you're eating out, about three meals. Maybe a week's worth of groceries for a single person if you're frugal. More annoying than disastrous to lose.

That's what a Sith would say

I don't know what your question actually is but you do you. I post a lot on social media and don't feel like it detracts from my life. Some people get obsessed and it takes over their mind and poisons it. Self-awareness is key.

I didn't know how seriously I should take this, that's why I posted it on the highest consciousness social board I know. I'd love to hear Leo's thoughts but I like a lot of what the other commenters had to say. I don't think it's a conspiracy anymore but there is a lot of sketchy stuff going on. It's my first time experimenting a global event really and so I'm not used to the media concealing information and taking control of the narrative. It's truly fascinating how mass-scale political games are played. And yeah, I've had a psychotic break too. It's super interesting. I can relate to a lot of what you said. I think it's a pseudo enlightenment experience with the ego massively corrupting it. Kind of like how Leo describes religious people taking psychedelics and misinterpreting it for a Jesus revelation. In mine, I thought I was the antichrist and the whole world was trying to kill me. Lasted about two weeks and I had to be put on antipsychotics and be put in an inpatient facility to come down. Still the craziest experience of my life.

The plague didn't happen in an era where you can bio engineer viruses and where a simulation for a theoretical coronavirus called CAPS was run just a month and a half before the first case of COVID-19 happened in China ?. You can't make this shit up and obviously no mainstream news organization will ever report on this. What do we know about Bill Gates? From reading a bit of his back story as also recommended by Leo, he used extremely predatory and unethical practices while building up Microsoft into the giant it is today and amassing his fortune. Who knows what these people are up to, how could any of us know really? I'd love to hear your thoughts @Leo Gura.

My child, how do you fare?

@Meetjoeblack You get banned from this forum? That's funny, I think I saw a post where Anna warned you that you'd get permabanned. I think it's important to have a lot of different perspectives, especially in a forum like this, to get to the truth. I like your opinions, they're familiar to me and they help ground the rest. I like Leo's opinions on relationships a lot because he's done game but some of the other ones I cringe at. Some seem to just parrot spirituality blindly or maybe they're just on a different level of consciousness that I can't even relate to anymore(which I doubt) but they give, what I feel is, harmful advice when it comes to dating. I really doubt that you can meditate your way into a great relationship. It does help and you should do it but I would never recommend to not do pickup and "just let go of your baggage and wounds and authentically connect with another human being" instead. That's a good tip, for sure, but the way it's given is harmful at times. So to the mods, give my man a break. He's bringing much-needed nuance. @Solvinden Bro, tell me if I'm wrong but you're 27 and this is the first hottie that you've slept with and your mind is now literally imploding. You're doing good work son, don't worry. This is probably your first intimate connection to feminity, and it's, of course, gonna make you feel things you've never experienced. It's a taste of true divine unity, your deep masculine has awoken due to its contact with its polar mate. Now you gotta move on from this girl and use that experience as motivation to build yourself up more to be able to connect with another girl(and yourself) even deeper. You were able to open yourself up and start the process of authenticity and vulnerability which is amazing. Never blame yourself for doing that and finding out that you're not compatible with your partner, you're doing both of you an immeasurable favor. People literally spend decades in fake relationships because neither of them had the courage to be fully themselves and express it. It's useless to dwell on the path. Just be grateful that you got to have that experience and that you have the proof that you can create a connection with a girl. Now use that to find and make a connection with the right girl for you. I sincerely don't think this one is and I think you know that. Best of luck friend.

Where are the conscious relationship videos? I'm looking forward to it!

Yeah, don't most enlightenment/spirituality cults or communes mostly all eventually turn into sex cults? Agreed with @Emerald. It's easy to be scared by the radical changes in society but I don't think people can imagine how well it's gonna turn out. On a social/sexual/financial level, ridiculously big changes are gonna happen in the next decade or two. I can't wait for it, well it's already happening. I'm kind of appalled at the bad name pickup gets. I totally agree that it can be manipulative and come from a bad place but it's birthed out of a serious need. There is an unprecedented number of men that literally get 0 female intimacy/interaction in their lives and have no idea how to get it. It deeply saddens me that people hate particularly incels, yes they're hateful but do you see the place they're coming from? Half of them literally have a fantasy of holding hands with a girl and would probably kill for that. Obviously, it's not the healthiest of mindsets but it's definitely coming from love and a thirst for intimacy rather than hate. The critiques are warranted and ultimately will help the movement go in the right direction but a little more understanding wouldn't hurt. Like @Leo Gura said, most of these guys don't have dreams of fucking hundreds of hot girls and being a master player, most of them just want to find someone of the opposite sex to cuddle, hang out and of course have sex with. Modern culture has 0 pity for these men and the advice they're given is preposterous and the tips given here are mostly not much better. You can't tell someone with poor social skills and drastically distorted views on sexual dynamics to just "be themselves" and "don't put the other sex on a pedestal, just relate on a human level" and expect them to actually be able to take that advice. For a lot of people, they need to do years of personal work before they can use advice like "just be yourself" and attract people, it's definitely not an entry-level tip.

Definitely. I've taken his advice and taken a lot of psychedelics but I found stuff I wasn't ready for. I'm glad I peeked behind the curtain but I need to stay in materialism for now. Perhaps we'll reexplore it in a few years.

It's the most simple but cleverest and destructive one. How can you reach your goals if you forget about them?

Do you think passion is necessarily a bad thing? I think issues arise when people let passion blind them to the truth of a situation. You could have a person that's not right for you and you clearly have no future with but passion blinds you to it and you stay with them much longer than you should. With a bit of experience though, I think passion and love can go hand in hand.

Basically this. The true danger of Red Pill is that it's the truth but only half the truth. It has good advice but it's surrounded with a lot of hate, bitterness and mistrust, basically the characterization of a hurt ego. If you're interested in gender dynamics and specific tips on attracting women and female nature, I would recommend this instead : (Spam link removed by moderator) I've been reading Red Pill for literally 6 years and I outgrew it. This is the closest thing I've found in regards to detailed breakdown of inter-gender relations but with an actual appreciation of female nature and all the lovely feminine gifts that come with it.

Voices?

If anyone here is from Toronto or the GTA in Canada, hit me up!

Don't marry someone who you're not crazily into and who's not crazily into you. Most marriage fail because the people that get in them are mostly afraid of being alone or conform to social norms and settle for those relationships. In this day and age, you can learn seduction and connection and find a partner that will blow you away and the doubts you have now will not even enter your mind. It's already obvious that you're asking this question out of scarcity. Are you confident in your ability to attract a multitude of high quality women in your life that would jump at the chance of a relationship with you if you did break up with this one? I'd be shocked if you were. Work on yourself and your views on relationships and women because just the fact that you're asking this question shows that you don't know enough. You want both and you NEED both. Why would you choose between two terrible options?

I'm assuming you're either from a middle eastern, African or Indian culture as that train of thought seems particularly prevalent here. Watch Leo's video on Masculinity and Feminity. Your attitude is precisely what's making you not masculine, not the hidden desire to take it up the butt. He suggests that being a true man is not being afraid of being yourself or looking "feminine" and he uses the example of openly crying in front of someone. Think about it. You're literally scared of yourself and your emotions. How can you be a strong, fearless masculine force when the first thing that scares you in the morning are your inner thoughts? I'm not judging you, just giving you something to think about. Fear of "gayness" is one of the most hilarious male ideas. I saw a guy on Reddit that took it to the extent that he didn't wash his dick because touching a Penis, even if it's your own, is gay. Just own yourself. You'd be surprised how common this is. I've had bisexual thoughts before and somewhat acted on them and found out I really like women but I have repressed parts of my sexuality. Why do you think it's so common for conservative politicians to publicly demonize homosexuals only to turn out to be Gay or Bi themselves? Watch Leo's video on self-love again, you're literally shaming and hating yourself. Accept yourself fully and your life will be bliss.

You're definitely missing the point then. His newer videos are the exact opposite of what you're saying, he's reached full circle and now combines enlightenment, nonduality and spirituality with exactly culture, religion and science. His latest video is literally about how to replicate yourself as an organism through culture on both an intellectual and emotional level. He mixes biology with cultural zeitgeist. Not to sound condescending but your opinion is entirely valid but proves you have not integrated the content. He's teaching you to see and connect various disciplines that have nothing to do with eachother. It's much more profound and advanced than anything he put out in previous years. All that being said, I agree with the brosky that said more girl cumming videos ?. I think Leo is not particularly interested in relationships and sex but it's my domain of fascination. I'd be very curious on videos on advanced relationships/sex, specifically on achieving nondual states while fucking and what a yellow level relationship based on raw sexual polarity would look like.

You don't build connections/attraction online, you theoretically can but it's a very poor means of doing so. You build just enough attraction that they're invested enough to meet you in person and then the magic happens. They are showing you love and kindness ?. They're not settling for your half ass attempt at a connection and forcing you to connect in a better way. Earn their connection, don't be entitled and expect them to welcome your pixels on a screen as a valuable part of their life.

The judgement is definitely too harsh and doesn't help. We are all victims at some point or another in our lives and we all need empathy and compassion. I think the aversion to victim mentality is because it's a mentality that fundamentally disempowers you and modern society despises weakness. When you're complaining about being a victim you're saying that the world is against you and you're powerless to change your situation. Capitalism is based on the belief that all is fair and you can pull yourself by the bootstrap and if you're not doing well its your fault and you're a fuck up. Why do you think people hate addicts and poor people and ridicule things like mental illness? It fundamentally goes against our whole culture.

View people as the same as yourself and offer value. The more differences you build up in your mind and other people, the harder it will be to connect with them. "These are the cool kids, I don't belong." beliefs like that will kill your charisma. Use nondual beliefs and treat everyone like an old friend and they will start to feel familiar to you and you'll feel familiar to them and you'll be able to make friends and social connections at a speed that bows your mind.

Human interactions are based off value exchange. Ask yourself what value you're offering them when they see your message in your inbox. If they don't know you before, not much. If you're the cool guy from class that everyone respects and you message random people in your class that you've never talked to, guaranteed they'll reply. If you're the awkward kid that people try to distance themselves from, guaranteed they don't. Human politeness is very dependent on how people perceive your status compared to theirs. Dress well and ask for directions on a random street and most people will happily take time out of their day to help you out and might even take you there. Dress like you're homeless and they will ignore you and frown like the very act of you talking to them offends them. Just don't take it personally and access yourself and your approach as objectively as you can. How would you react if someone messaged you the exact same way you message them?

Okay, that gives more context. If you want concrete advice: lower your expectation of what you consider amazing. We're sold by society that we need big materialistic things to be happy( new car, promotion, new watch, shoes, girlfriend, sex, etc) but we're also sold the equivalent in a way that sounds more natural/spiritual(a sunset, travelling, true love, walk in the forest, etc.) Thruth is you can enjoy the amazingness of a beautiful sunset just as much as you can enjoy sitting on your couch in your cluttered living room. It sounds like absolute bullshit if you're not used to it but it really works. That's what all of spirituality is based on, enjoying a state of being without having to do anything. I really started to feel it when mediated consistently for the first time. I started being able to enjoy the little things a lot more. Just a warm breeze or seeing a cat walking down the street would pull me out of the negative patterns in my head. I would have a saying "if I can even find one good thing about the present moment, then it's good." and you can usually find a lot more than one if you lower your threshold for what you consider good and don't take things for granted. Anything from not having to work right now, having shoes on, being able to go indoors for warmth in the winter, having a computer to look at YouTube and procrastinate if I want to, being able to take a shower, having chips in the fridge, having data left on my phone, etc. Next step to that is starting to appreciate the bad as well. You can enjoy being broke because it teaches you a different life perspective. Enjoy being sick because you can become aware of how pleasant your body is to inhabit when you're healthy. Enjoy awkward social moments because of the absurdity of human interactions. Enjoy rejection because you're finally able to ask/go after what you want and be okay even when you're ridiculed for it. Enjoy loss and heartbreak because you're grateful someone was in your life that meant so much to you. Thats what helped me face existential dread which seems to be what you're describing. There are still shit moments where I feel anxious, depressed and despaired but I can now sit in them, take a deep breath and know that I'll be okay no matter what which sends a calm wave of relief through me no matter what darkness tried to swallow me.

What exactly about life causes you pain? There must be some expectation or heavy emotion/experience you're holding on to that's making you suffer. Otherwise life itself is pretty blissful if you just take it in as is. Expand and perhaps I can give a better answer.

The other two are not wrong. Just don't become her BFF buddy. When it comes down to it, you wanna stick your dick in her right? So make it happen. If you're close with her, invite her over to watch a movie. If a bit less close, ask her out for a drink.