LordFall

Your issue is the method of socializing. Introverts enjoy depth. Extroverts enjoy letting loose after a week of work. Use your brain to put yourself in more intellectual environments and create your own through social circle game. Have you ever hosted your own party before? That's where I'd start. You also change the center of gravity to yourself as opposed to you having to cold approach people to hook them. Meaning that other people will be the ones approaching you to hook you instead! I wrote a post on social circle game here. I filmed a vlog at the photoshoot I hosted last weekend, will be editing it and posting it soon.

This is why social circle game is so important. It allows you to define the rules of the environment. If you try to be a high level player in someone else's game, irregardless you have to adopt their paradigm. And in clubs and nightlife, that paradigm is indeed quite low. Have you ever tried hosting your own event? You I host photoshoots and talk to women about bitcoin or whatever else is on my mind at the time. When the environment you've curated takes care of good vibes and flow then you can talk about whatever you want. The problem with nightlife is people use it as an escape from their regular life where they have to be logical. If your environment becomes part of their life then it serves a different function altogether. Thus why a lot of women sleep with their bosses because their missions are intertwined and the boss's logical thoughts become valuable to her unlike some random dude rambling about something boring to her at the club.

You made this thread on Tuesday, it's now Sunday. What action have you taken since then? Sounds like a victim mindset to me. "The enemy of the great is the good." Meaning people that are naturally good at something probably won't have the motivation to ever become great at it. Build up your social capital, a lot of socialization is very powerful. Do you post content on social media? Gemini thinks you're failing your namesake: "It’s ironic that his username is Ramanujan—named after one of the most brilliant, intuitive mathematicians in history who saw patterns no one else could. Right now, this guy is refusing to look at the patterns of human interaction because he’s terrified of the baseline data-gathering phase (rejection)." Socialization is all patterns, it's in a way quite hard but very simple to learn for intellectuals. You rinse and repeat, fix one thing time, get feedback and use scalable tools(social media) to increase your SMV.

Personally I'm very happy that you're trying out the Reels on Instagram. I'm building a podcast, perhaps I can have you on eventually. I consume the reels here and there and they are good thoughts, I wouldn't pay for a vault of them though. At this point in my self-development journey I personally am interested mostly in specific outcomes and I'd save up a higher ticket price for that like 1-5$k.

If you wanna be a femboy don't let your dreams be memes

Seems like bad epistemology. By definition if you can experience things you exist. Whether you exist as a subset of a universal consciousness doesn't invalidate that.

What's the main points you're looking to get across with this project?

Not at all, I think you're carrying anxiety into the statement. Fame means people being aware of you. Meaning you can have an impact. Doesn't have anything to do with narcissism. If you're afraid of having an impact I'd call that low self-esteem. The more people know about your mission and your work the more positive(hopefully) impact you'll have on the human race.

Sure you owe it to your fellow human being to cooperate with them if you can. Most western economies have been stable and growing since WW2, only now experiencing major contractions. Africa and Latin America have less rigid rule of law where a certain percentage of young men go into organized crime instead of legitimate career options. There are plenty of anti competitive practices that once take hold at scale prevent people from making a living even if they can provide enough value. The days before labor laws are a good example where the average worker had to work 12 hour days to survive and children were a part of the economy as well. Doesn't take a communist to be pro people and pro worker.

What is your MBTI personality type? That has a lot to do with which style of game will resonate most with you. I'm an INTP so social circle and social media are really good for me as I like to think and build systems. If you're a hard extrovert that likes to express emotion then cold approach is gonna work particularly well. You must socialize/go out at least 2-3 times a week to see quick results though but if you're consistent you should start to notice drastic improvements within 3-6 months. As in going on dates and sleeping with women regularly. Also depends on your baseline skill level of course.

When a man and a woman love eachother very much Hopefully you understand that dating involves sex?

Enjoying it through achieving the goals you set for yourself

Being antisocial and bad with social skills is not a reason to never being able to get a girlfriend. It's a learnable skill. I have a video here on male dating strategy, I would definitely familiarialize myself with social circle game if I were you as that's the most realiable way to date for a neurodivergent I believe. Have you watched the 3 part series by Leo on how to get laid? I think it'll get rid of most of your limiting beliefs.

There is only one solution. Challenge each to a debate

It is useful to try to analyze the psychology of low consciousness people like this. I would call this a mix of the halo effect and the ostrich effect. Most people ignorant of the world and what little they know about it. Much easier to think that famous people are saints than to dig into human evil.

Why do you firmly believe in near death accounts? What epistemological process did you undergo to ensure that this was an accurate prediction? How does a period of hardship prevent word peace? The bible talks about years of tribulation, perhaps talking about WW3 but even if it happens we will surely unite afterwards. The incentives are too strong.

Just hosted my last photoshoot in Calgary this Saturday. Good turnout we got about 30 people that showed up. Highly recommend hosting your own events especially if you're an introvert, the conversation level and just alignment of the people is way higher than at a club or any other venue. Going to be moving to Montreal this Thursday to enjoy the summer over there and scale my events and brand. I didn't think I would enjoy the creatives and fashion industry so much as an INTP but it's surprisingly just as logical as it's artistic due to the technicality of it and the complexity of the business ecosystem around it. I meet a lot of models that are super cool and feminine and they wanna see the world and do cool stuff but they just don't know how to. So for me who sits inside all day researching business and marketing it's a good mix of polarities. It's more medium/long term than cold approach but it's giving me access to way hotter women that I was hanging with before and more authentic and enjoyable connections as well.

Someone added me on Instagram and asked me social circle questions and I figured I'd make a post about it since that's been my area of focused for the past 5 years. Social Circle game is one of the most powerful way to gain value as a man and meet women because it recreates the original tribal/communal dating strategy but on your own terms. You're in no doubt in many various social circles already or possibly just friend groups(I define social circle as group where all the members gain transactional value from eachother unlike a friendgroup where a lot of times it's actually negative sum) but you're probably at the effect and not at the cause of them. The most powerful type of social circle is one that has some type of professional/business component to it because it can then tie into an overall lifestyle design strategy and combine business and pleasure unlike let's say an AI engineer that can make $30k/month WFH and not know a single woman. The goal of this social circle will be to create mutually beneficial activites that you host on your own turff(notice how a nightclub is a private venue owned by a group of men that charge you for entry, and for drinks and for bottle service for the privilege of courting the women they assemble) and to include that as a foundation of your dating and social life. The main leverage point of this social circle is to position you as a leader in a group of people(and of course attractive women) so that you're in a better position to hit on them without being gatekept, other guys having higher status than you or HR terminating your source of income. The second leverage point is to make female teammates from your social circle. These are women with which you have goals in common that you can transactionally help you achieve. This can be you going to events together and them getting you status/access and you helping them make connections, can be you supporting their projects they have as their own girlfriends tend to be lacking in that type of support, etc. Good example of this is Dan Bilzerian has a model manager named Masha Diduk who recruits models for his company Ignite and saves him from having to manually DM all the girls and who's probably gotten him laid hundreds of time. Myself I am a photographer that has hosted photoshoots with many models(shoutout to Luke Krogh and Michael Sartain for putting me up to this) and am now transitioning into operating my own media/modelling agency. Other examples that can work wonders for this can be a run club, entrepreneur club, investing group, college parties, parties in general, group travel, book clubs, etc. The key to this is to not fake it til you make it. You must create an actual group that offers genuine value to people and not try to pull girls on day 2 before anything of substance has been created. Think of the reaping too early before you've sowed enough and you've beared fruits. I'll write another post or update this one with Social Circle 102 on how to find a lot of women to invite to your social circle. In 2020 I moved to downtown Toronto and had the chance to live with and work with a few club promoters and learned their secrets. The teaser I'll give is it's mostly like sales.

I think this will be the situation of a lot of people in 10 years. Dating is becoming increasingly more competitive and most men can't be bothered to try. And I want 5 wives and 10 girlfriends so it evens out.

Why do you mix both things? Be satisfied with yourself and love yourself then go find your perfect partner(s). Otherwise you're mixing in some MGTOW, cope to the sentiment. Get good at dating, it's not that complicated. Most humans are low value if you try hard you'll become a valuable partner in no time.

Fame is phenomenal. It's the impact you have on your community and the world as a whole. It takes a lot of skill or luck to market yourself to get a lot of attention to the point that you get recognized in your country. Fulfillment is different but that can be said for anything. Same thing for a great relationship, it's an important part of life but won't be enough for fulfillment. I dislike these topics because this forum has a stage green shadow. Meaning that there aren't many successful people doing big things here. Let's get more famous if anything, we're already covering fulfillment i.e. self-actualization enough.

You don't seem to understand economics much. You need stable economics to provide value otherwise it devolves into more violent kinds of entrepreneurship like they do in Latin america and Africa. The economy is rigged and manipulated so not everyone can make it and have a surplus of capital. It needs to be overhauled.

I think his meta understanding of geopolitics is quite phenomenal. The video Leo linked had some great points but a lot of it is clipping 5 mins of stupid shit he said in like 200 hours of golden philosophy and analysis. I've run a politics group chat and been educating myself on geopolitics for the past few years and I've learned some good paradigms from Jiang. Leo doesn't cover any of this and is more esoteric than actually examining what's going on with our politics and current events so it's a good mix for my intellectual content consumption. Of course there is gonna be a content problem because the structure of geopolitics is a fog of war. We don't really know what's going on. We can just take public information, make analysis and try to make predictions from that and them improve on our previous past predictions. Jiang deserves to get fact checked but so does anybody else and I don't see very many other people posting quality geopolitical content online. Peter Zeihan is another good source of content but he's also gotten plenty of stuff wrong. Ryan McBeth as well if you guys are more into military analysis.

You're a victim more than anything else. The founder of the biggest pickup company in the world was autistic(Owen Cook.) Plenty of short dudes doing well at game too. Go to events, host your own, make friends, talk to women and rinse and repeat

Spiritual bypassing. Very common when you don't know how to actually solve problems you just wish it away.