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I met a lot of friends that I still know to this day at free tours years ago around 2017. Its a bit harder if you're not from New Orleans yourself but finding wings and building a social circle is the best thing to do at free tours IMO. It helps you get motivated and keep the momentum going for a while.

@AION Have you done this or are you imagining that it would work? Some people are naturally extraverted and could go by themselves to a club and make friends in there but that's veteran mode. I'd definitely finding guys into it on Reddit, forums and then going out together. Having people with a similar goal to keep eachother motivated and trade notes is vital to the game journey.

What's her reasoning for not wanting you to take psychedelics? If it's because each time you have a bad trip and she needs to babysit you that's one thing. If it's because of some vague fear and anti drug stance then I would talk through that and explain your reasoning for it. I would have the ultimate stance that if you aim to keep exploring your consciousness and she offers to credible argument against it then you're probably not compatible people. Especially if your main draw towards this relationship is good pussy lol, you can get that many places brother.

Society does need to improve and be more fair but it does not mean that you are helpless. What are your top skills in life? Learning programming is great and I'd recommend it but what do you envision afterwards? Is your business idea something that could be started on with $300 to a coder on Fiverr? I would highly recommend joining an entrepreneurship/business community or mastermind so the entrepreneurial mindset slowly bleeds into yours. Entrepreneurs make stuff happen out of thin air. The general public complains that the world isn't fair while not doing anything on a daily basis to improve their own lives as well as the lives of their communities.

I would call it people fighting me on things that I have authority in and they seem to want. Clearly I have some ego around it as well since it triggers me but when I try to help someone and they argue with me over the very thing I'm trying to help them with, even when I try to empathize and see it from their perspective, it totally turns me off from trying to help them. Idk what it says about my ability as a teacher but idk if I really like helping people or I just have a calling and responsability towards it. Something I gotta explore further. I'm an INTP so I mostly like teaching people new ways to think that I believe will lead them to great rewards but I don't like actually being in there with the doing the thing.

I think the most interesting question is in the effectiveness of the strategy. Women have an easy time to "brand build" by posting hot pics on IG while a men have to put a bit more effort into the content we put out there. I think ideally a woman's brand should be put to use in building your collective mission and not solely to post bikini pics on IG. If my girls help me do that but wanna feel hot posting stuff I don't really mind.

Yeah tbh I don't have a massive interest in dedicating myself to helping young men either but I do have a soft spot for them. When guys message me or I see them struggling in a way I can easily fix I tend to try to connect them through the big social circle I have but it's definitely an issue of moving on to different problems. Some of them suffer from an entitlement issue and lack of growth mindset and I'm also not sure how to fix that.

You should add more than cold approach to your repertoire. Social media and social circle will help you bang hotties more than spamming cold approaches. In my experience cold approach works best on average girls and tourists.

Sounds like spiritual bypassing if you're too good for fucking because of karmic entanglement lol

@Javfly33 You arguing against duality itself. The whole point of nonduality isn't that duality doesn't exist; it's that it's not the ultimate truth. Some people like to fuck, others to get fucked and some people enjoy both. Those are pretty extremes modes of being though. Femininity definitely exists. There is a reason some humans like to doll themselves up and present themselves as a prize to be fought over by other humans. If I was a god split into various parts that would be a pretty obvious duality to take sweet advantage of.

If I were you at 21 I would tryout a serious monogamous relationship and see how you like it. Have the expectation that it won't last though and then go out to the field and figure out a way to get maximum abundance. Plenty of men never go through the pickup journey and don't sleep with 20 girls and end up married just fine. Then we also have the 53% divorce rate and deadbedrooms for the % still in their marriage. Having said that though part of the issue is not just cold approach skill but how high value/in demand you are in general. There is no reason you can't work on your social status and social circle while still in a monogamous relationship. Just don't be the guy that isolates himself with a GF and comes out 3 years later with no social network, destroyed confidence and no options.

Totally agree, there is a big gap in the market for a more holistic version of Andrew Tate. Humanity and young men in general need a new mission or purpose to rally toward. I think generally we are going towards world alignment in the coming decade so that is an inspiring mission to get behind; literally world peace.

@KoryKat I'm still in the research mode. I have a few projects going on but I wanna start selling these AI services by the end of November. I want to focus on the voice agents as they seem the most versatile to me and I can see that clearly being the future. The 5 niches he talks about are: 1) General automation workflows 2) Text based agents 3) Voice based agents 4) Zapier based ecosystems 5) Chatbot specific agents @Lyubov I think AI can be hugely paired along with life coaching. I think for example if you're a coach working with students you could set them up with custom GPTs that they can talk to and do self-inquiry on and you could have access to what comes out and be able to help your clients better and better as the AI gets to use them more. Eventually AI therapy services will come out and be commercialized for a subscription but this is a nice in between step where a human expert can just use the AI as an exploration tool to help their clients learn more about themselves.

I think social media breaks can be good for a few weeks. Not learning how to use it for your advantage leaves you really vulnerable in today's world though. I think anyone that's not actively working on making Instagram work to the benefit of their dating/networking/business life is crazy. I use it for business and pleasure daily.

I try to make my social circle very specific and hangout mostly with people that have the same ambitions I do. Back in my game days it was mostly pickup guys now it's evolved to mostly business people. I'm a photographer and starting a content agency so I hangout with a lot of women through that as well.

Would you make a video breaking him down similar to how you did with Jordan Peterson?

Seems pretty cool, I tested a few queries seem to be a good bank of information. Did you run into many censoring issues while getting it to focus on pickup topics?

I don't think he's fully a scammer, his content and courses offer good value. The deceptive and pushy sales strategy are definitely offputting, and specifically his NFT project is quite shady. I got a month of his Educate course and it was fairly solid for the $50/month it costs.

Unexpectedly great video on levels of consciousness, spiral dynamics, susan cook-Greuter's developmental levels models and AQAL by Ken wilder He made this simplified chart too, overall probably some of the best consciousness video I've seen outside of Leo's work

It wouldn't be fun otherwise

@Princess Arabia If we ever meet you'll have a good time

I didn't watch the whole video but I think she makes some phenomenal points. Relationships should be transactional in that most people should be satisfied with the experience and person they're getting. Biology blessed us this way like I'm very much a provider male. As my businesses grow any woman dating me would not need to work and would have their needs provided for. In exchange I want basically total compliance within reason and no disrespecting me nor toxic complaining or anything that would distract me from my purpose. I would say my relationships will be more transactional than most but also happier than most.

I didn’t watch it but you know that as much as 40% of relationships now start on dating apps? You have to put a bit of thought into your dating strategy to make it work like if you’re a guy you probably will need to buy a professional photoshoot and if you’re an attractive woman have a vetting or screening process. If used properly I think they work great.

I would summarize it as the burden of competence. Are you able to provide value and security to the women, friends, family and community around you?

@PsychedelicEagle Mother earth created every single part of the process involved with veneers. As well as cancer.