CreamCat

You assume that jeff wanted to divorce because he has a mistress. I don't know whether that is true. I don't care whether he was cheating before the decision to divorce. In any case, because we don't know the real truths behind the divorce, it could be either jeff or his wife who initiated the divorce. I also didn't imply he's mad at her for divorce. I meant that because it is either jeff or his wife who initiated the divorce, I wouldn't be surprised "if" jeff was mad at her for divorce although he said he had no harsh feelings toward his wife. I don't believe jeff's words or his wife's words. Let's not guess what we don't know. I don't blame her. I don't have any strong opinion about her. Whatever the truths are, I am just here to enjoy useless gossip. If there were no billion dollars involved, it wouldn't be as fun a topic. The billion-dollar legal fight would be fun.

I don't understand what this news is about in the context of this conversation.

I've seen many people lie about marriage. I won't be surprised if he was mad at her for divorce. I do as a matter of intellectual curiosity about human life. Until I read about his divorce, it never occurred to me that becoming a divorce attorney would be a lucrative career option. It is a signal that my mind became a lot flexible than it used to be.

Whether she contributed a lot or nothing, divorce entitles her to half of jeff bezos' money. Her divorce attorney is going to make a lot of money even though the attorney had nothing to do with building amazon.

I have had months to sort through what other people were complaining about. Lots of men and women complain that they can't do what they want to do because of criticisms. That's a great excuse to not do what you want to do. Just be yourself. Express yourself in your work. Don't let criticisms stop or delay you. Blow through bullets of criticisms like a terminator. A terminator doesn't use criticism as an excuse to not do the work. Ignore criticisms. But, accept feedbacks which are also known as constructive criticisms.

How can I train to be one? My english reading is somewhat slow because english is my second language and nobody speaks english in my region.

I'll keep reminding myself of illusions. Perhaps, I will review my realizations in a document everyday.

You are looking at it from a defeatist view point. You buy stock when it goes up. Make money from divorce rather than lose money to it. You become a divorce attorney in USA. You can make millions by becoming the divorce attorney for Jeff Bezos' ex-wife. I'm just talking about divorce attorney as an example because becoming one is not my life purpose.

I suspect she divorced him because he had money but was not hot. I think she is going to look for hot guys from now on.

By that logic, co-founders and top engineers of amazon would be entitled to half of his money. To be honest, top-level engineers deserve more money. Our society got its priorities wrong.

You serious, man? He's the founder and CEO of amazon.com

You have tenure and financial stability. I don't have them, yet. That's why I focus more on personal improvements.

Does it matter much if it doesn't impact my life to make a call? I would still do small good things for others. I can't exactly tell you in words. Let's say I am motivated to help others here and there out of good will. Can you explain orgasm in words? I think you're asking too many trivial questions.

I probably wouldn't feel much, though. Families wouldn't celebrate either because nothing actually happened. But, I think the police officers would be happy while smacking the head of the perpetrator with their palms.

I don't mind getting no credit because the police did the heavy lifting and risked their lives. I just gave a phone call which doesn't take more than 2 minutes. I think you can anticipate answers to further questions.

Yes. I think calling the police anonymously is the right way. Otherwise, the bomber might target me later.

I think I will. I want to do good for others.

Because I want to stop him. I don't want him to blow up my neighborhood. I'm doing what I want. So, practically, you don't have total freedom. But, you should still ignore criticisms but accept feedbacks. Were terrorists ever receptive to criticisms? I don't think so. That can be a good trait if terrorists fought the right fights. I advocate becoming a warrior in a garden. A warrior in a garden cultivates one's own life calmly, patiently, and playfully even when adversities burn its garden. A warrior in a garden doesn't stop cultivating its own garden because of criticisms.

Yes, I would do it in a way that doesn't harm me. I wouldn't risk my life for it by fighting the perpetrator. But, I would definitely call the police and alert the private security. I would do it in my neighborhood because I don't want chaos to blow up in my neighborhood.

This one still holds even if you do what you want without harming others.

Perhaps, I can work on simplifying it further. I'm not sure about that. But, I wouldn't expect open-mindedness and compassion from myself either when I am fooling around aimlessly. I didn't say I figured it all out. If I did, I would have sounded a lot more confident, or I would have just directly manifested my understanding in a physical form.

I agree with it although you can still just do what you want if you are willing to face adverse consequences. I don't harm others because I don't want to harm others. I do what I want as long as it doesn't harm others because I want to do so and because I know it is practically the most amount of freedom I can have and the most amount of freedom that I want others to have. Physical damage Imposing limitations on thoughts and actions without giving people a practical option to opt out and do their own things elsewhere. I don't care about toxic subcultures as long as they stay in their comfort zones although I think they need help with getting out of comfort zones. People should go beyond their own comfort zones as much as possible. Consistent libel toward one specific person?? The punishment for libel should be up to individual venues like conferences.

I was mostly reacting randomly to your points, based on what I know. As you said, I was giving random talking points. I was fooling around without a direction on this forum. Personally, I thought you might be better off without a lot of conceptualization, but that's just my opinion. To me, MGTOW, incel, SJW, etc, ... are just people who keep complaining in their comfort zones(i.e. their echo chambers). And, I don't worry that they will turn into something as threatening as KKK or nazi. I'm done fighting against ideologies. Don't take my criticisms too seriously. In retrospect, I realize that results will speak for themselves. Direct experience speaks truths. If whatever you're doing gets results that you want, keep doing it. Ignore my theories if your direct experience contradicts my theories.

There is a line you want to defend. It's like asking whether a CEO should keep a toxic high performer in one's company. Not in the long term.

Probably because I was not motivated to learn and understand your framework which is quite complex. Understanding your comments requires non-trivial amounts of background knowledge. Yin, yang, feminine, divine feminine, etc, etc, ... That's a lot of pre-conceived notions. As you said, you are talking about esoteric concepts that your youtube channel subscribers might understand. My framework is simple, and I want it to stay simple. Let's say your framework is not particularly suitable for my life and vice versa.