James123

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  1. @AION c completely wrong. When you go more deeper and realize whatever comes, comes from god. And you are nothing, any taking action is ego.
  2. This is what completely surrendering is. You do what you do, but without any expectations for self, goal for self, etc.... for self.
  3. Surrendering the is key, surrender till last atom of your body, only after that love will welcome you.
  4. The person who thinks about solipsism, must realize that thinker is an illusion in first place.
  5. The one who is questioning for solipsm is an illisiuon in first place.
  6. Thank you very much for beautiful words brother. I am deeply appreciate and thankful to you. Thank you. 🙏 🙏 🙏
  7. As Rumi says; Break your heart until it opens.
  8. Unbearable pain is must to surrender. That's what happened to me.
  9. @Breakingthewall I work in finance, my work is going okey. But without desire of ME. just for them. When ı die, nothing will so called exist. Therefore, I am not even afraid of death. However, I will live for them or enviorenment but not for myself.
  10. His sickness is thyacardia. He is doing so so right now. But even that effect me so much. Moreover, we are talking and on path for years, this was the final cut for me to completely surrender. Nothing under my control, I gave up, I am literally no one, nobody, nothing.
  11. Thats totally fine brother. Much love to you.
  12. I loved my son so much so much so much. But, As you know after my son deasese, I totally realize that nothing NOTHING under my control, and I totally say fuck it. I can not control anything and let go. Because, literally I have no control whatsoever. Why this effort, struggle, endeavour, for what? I don't give a shit, if I die now. I stopped even looking a mirror.
  13. Personal growth self development. Spritual growth self killing.
  14. @MarioGabrielJ It is possible. Believe me. So difficult, but possible. I mean surrendering everything every expectations and welcoming whatever it comes.
  15. Existence is an illusion, including word of illusion.
  16. How do you fundamentally know that you are a human?
  17. @BlueOak nice story. But self is an illusion in first place or experiencer.
  18. Nothing has never happened, birth, life and death is just an illusion. Enlightenment is simply being where you already are.
  19. What happened, how did you experience your past lives? Meanwhile you are experiencing your past lives in this life, isn't it correct? For example yesterday you experience your past life.
  20. Please tell me a thing that you remember before your so called birth.
  21. I dont remember anything before so called birth, because there is no me there. and thats Real Me. Therefore, no ideology, belief or theory.