SoothedByRain

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  1. This is a channel created by a man, predominently for men, but it still does have content women can learn and grow from. The content comes from ego, fuels ego and I'd say is a stage orange, green and yellow approach to understanding evolutionary psychology. He is actually very open minded and coming from a higher consciousness place. But! just a disclaimer for those who might want such . . . this content is ego, need and duality.
  2. @Husseinisdoingfine "I've died everytime I carried a child in my arms. Better me, then them"
  3. If you're interested in a decent protein powder, this is the best I've found. The company has a sale on also. British and Vegan. https://www.rawsport.com/collections/protein-powders/products/female-elite-1kg-repair-protein-powders-available-in-5-flavours?variant=29336927305780 Pricey but you get what ye pay for. I've also been using this MultiVitamin - https://www.amazon.co.uk/gp/product/B01MEGN7O9/ref=ppx_yo_dt_b_asin_title_o02_s00?ie=UTF8&psc=1 Best I've found online. Anyone have a better brand? Better price? Am I just wasting money on shit marketed as gold?
  4. Green Girls Gone Bad
  5. An integrated, Self Actualizing woman who is psychologically and physiologically healthy. One who isn't pulled into and dragged down by the toxic consumerism of our culture. So many women are very emotionally needy. Women seek men as an enhancment to their lives, they seek men to fulfill the things they lack (otherwise they wouldn't need such) Dating and relationships are egoic transactions. The ego alway needs more and is toxic to deep growth, intregration and self-actualization. Why would an ego need anything other than to leech from another and fulfill its needs? If you're thinking "What about healthy people who just want to enjoy and spend time with another without all this unhealthy transaction shit mentioned above. This is a highly toxic view" You're either extremely advanced in your development which I can almost guarantee you are not, or you need to go deeper with the work on Self-Bias, Self-Deception and Survival. Women fuck, date and maintain relationships upwardly. Women rarely date sideways/equally and DO NOT date down. Any women who dates, or even fucks down is doing so from an unhealthy place because she has lots to work through, which is extremely toxic and needy. When a man is spending time with a woman, he is fucking down. This means that he is either putting up with toxicity for sex or for other psychological needs he has, or he is trying to maintain a genuine connection and relationship with a women and in the process is helping to pull her up, which is a draining commitment on him, which is part of the transaction. Yes, a healthy relationship is a mutual transaction where the feminine and the masculine compliment one another. Hence a self-actualized man would have high standards and seek only high quality women, which are extremely rare. Even then, she is fucking up and the transactional benefits have to be earnt by both people in the relationship. If only an unhealthy woman dates down . . . What is it that a healthy, high quality woman has to give and put up with to maintain the relationship with a man she deems high quality and worthy of her time? The physical/sexual for a start, a womans biggest asset within the dating and relationship market (from most mens perspective) She also has to help the man integrate and hone his emotional heart connection. She'll have to put up with a lack of connection that she wishes would be more fulfilling and more deeper. She'll have to put up with her man going out into the world and shaking things up, which will probably mean she will have to put up with instability which most women dislike and with him potentially sleeping with myriad women. (I'm sure that from a woman perpsective you will say that a self-actualized man wouldn't sleep around. Maybe you're right? It depends. Most men are driven to have multiple sexual partners, even if that means only bringing in other women into the sexual relationship with the participation of the long-term partner) My two questions for the women of this forum. * What is it that a healthy, high quality woman has to give and put up with to maintain the relationship with a man she deems high quality and worthy of her time? * Do you feel this statement is true or false? If so, why? Women fuck, date and maintain relationships upwardly. Women rarely date sideways/equally and do not date down. Any women who dates, or even fucks down is doing so from an unhealthy place. --- 1. You're creating a duality between "good" and "bad" emotions. They just are . . . You can't go through life avoiding negative emotions, def can't go through relationships without negative emotions. Seek to understand and embrace them all, with understanding comes peace, unless one egoically needs reality be otherwise of course. unless one egoically needs truth to fit their agenda. 2. It sounds like you're cradling her perhaps? Help her self-actualize to the point where she won't need you? Accept that people move on, breaks ups are messy hurtful things and know that you were always going to cause her suffering from the moment you said hello to her told her all the things that made her smile. Flowers bloom, cresendo and wither and within One, within non-duality . . . nothing is wasted. 3. Try get over feeling like you're a "bad guy" for breaking up, moving on and hurting her. Situations like this are like hostage situations. This is toxic, even coming from a seemingly healthy and introspective, caring place such as what yours seems to be. 4. When you've gotten over 3. and left, who knows, maybe she'll follow and maybe one day you'll both get to a point where you can spend time with one another without clinging and needing one another to fill empty space within. 5. If you're an ego, an undeveloped person like most of humanity, you've been telling yourself and her porky pies since you first said hello because you needed to fulfill your needs. Now you are no longer being held by those needs and now you have to start looking at all the self-deception and unconscious manipulation. Seeing all this, seeing it all coming into the light is potentially driving your sadness and pain more than her potential upcoming suffering? . . . Maybe you're a saint and none of that relates to you. I dunno. Why are you having to look at all the porky pies now? Because now you have new needs, and they seemingly don't involve her because she can't fulfill them . . . Well it ain't no use to sit and wonder why, babe Ifin' you don't know by now An' it ain't no use to sit and wonder why, babe It'll never do some how I'm a-thinkin' and a-wond'rin' wallkin' way down the road I once loved a woman, a child I am told I give her my heart but she wanted my soul But don't think twice, it's all right So long honey babe Where I'm bound, I can't tell Goodbye is too good a word, babe So I just say fare thee well I ain't sayin' you treated me unkind You could have done better but I don't mind You just kinda wasted my precious time But don't think twice, it's all right
  6. Steve Cutts has multiple stage green artistic videos on his channel
  7. Haha I'm laughing at the frog and joeblacks head ghost
  8. EDIT: I double posted like a goon. Deleted.
  9. @Arcangelo She doesn't understand her privilege, she doesn't understand the otherside of dating. If she had to go out and work like a male to date she would fail and then go seeking understanding via self-education. Don't hold it against her, recognise the privileges you have over most/some women and observe her self-bias and self-defense survival at work. Egoic devilry is a masterpiece of neurological genius. Everything in a womans neurological make up has evolved to protect her against maliciously deceitful and/or self-deceived men who would could impregnate her and then never come back. Of course women paint most, if not all PU as trash, it goes against their agenda and makes them feel unsettled. The external is chaos, she seeks a relationship and friendship for safety. Her selfish and self-deceived dating mechanisms are called love and romance (not absolute love) She doesn't understand that you going out approaching and needing to hone your social skills and understanding of women is a necessity if you want to attract any women, let alone a high quality woman. The attention she receives falls into her lap, she doesn't understand that within the world of dating, she has won the lottery, mean while you need to get yourself a suit, learn the social game, hone your skills and go get employement so you can earn a wage. The only time a woman doesn't have the "upper, easy hand" in dating is when she is either naive, not attractive or trying to reel in a man who is above her in myriad ways, a man she is attracted to, in which case she then has to start working to get what she wants/needs.
  10. @Flowerfaeiry xxx
  11. Add other videos that you have seen, when and if you care to Add others as 2020 goes on
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  13. @MAYA EL Pretty sure Leo isn't his real name either. Actually, I think Leonid is a common male name in Russia? His real name is probably Bob
  14. @Leo Gura Haha, you used Spock and The Vulcans as an example in your Stage Yellow lecture. You sacrilegious fiend.
  15. Junaid Hafeez: Academic sentenced to death for blasphemy in Pakistan https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/world-asia-50878432
  16. @Leo Gura Cheer for your time and response. Beard Tickles!!
  17. Day after day, alone on a hill The man with the foolish grin is keeping perfectly still But nobody wants to know him, they can see that he's just a fool And he never gives an answer But the Sage on the hill sees the sun going down And the eyes in his head see the world spinning around Ohhhhh Round and round and round and round and round