I have this same mentality. Only men who don't want to work hard in being stronger in their masculine keep judging women.  It comes from a place of insecurity and lack.  I have never seen fulfilled secure strong men complain about women.  And what can a strong man not do? Can't he just reject the woman and move on to the woman he truly wants?  What are these guys even complaining about?  Seems like they just want an excuse to not do anything. Their focus is always external rather than internal.  If they constantly judge women, they lose themselves in the rabbit hole of judgement. They don't even see how they are creating their own rabbit holes and traps.  What a pity!