Axioms of Optimism

[ryoko]

1 hour ago, Ziran said:

Moral Quandary Edition

Was that supposed to be a joke?

Well, if one scenario pissed off more. It's just an excuse to not face the other situations' weight. I guess. If the behaviour itself is like so, better approach would be to talk about the compulsion openly and frankly let the other do what they want. While you negotiate commitment. Because the problem with cheating is not cheating itself, it's the why behind it and the how it affects the significant other.  

[Ziran]

25 minutes ago, ryoko said:

Was that supposed to be a joke?

yes.  

26 minutes ago, ryoko said:

Well, if one scenario pissed off more. It's just an excuse to not face the other situations' weight. I guess. If the behaviour itself is like so, better approach would be to talk about the compulsion openly and frankly let the other do what they want. While you negotiate commitment. Because the problem with cheating is not cheating itself, it's the why behind it and the how it affects the significant other.  

... the cheating doesn't matter as much as the affects/effects?

I agree.  It's optimistic, isn't it?  Or is it pessimistic?  Or neither?  ( Please don't say neither. )

[ryoko]

5 minutes ago, Ziran said:

It's optimistic, isn't it?

Ehh.. it's just natural. also people have limits my guy. We're not living inside a cult. 

**Blink twice if you need help**

[Ziran]

20 minutes ago, ryoko said:

Ehh.. it's just natural. also people have limits my guy. We're not living inside a cult. 

**Blink twice if you need help**

Good grief.  It's not that serious a question.  I'm having fun. 

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