About the feminine and masculine in spirituality - Non-duality in this context

[Malkom]

Watching some spiritual gurus, no, watching 100% of them, I noticed that the feminine side predominates in most of them. Where's the masculine side? Personally, I've noticed that I can't ignore this side of myself, no matter how much I practice spirituality. I feel like I'm deceiving myself, as if some part of me craves the manifestation of life, as if without it there's incompleteness, something missing. So. If we consider this in the context of the feminine and masculine, then the feminine is being, feelings, and the masculine is action, doing. This is all exaggerated, but still. If you're a person who constantly waits for the perfect moment, then, on the contrary, you need to take a decisive step, exercise your will, your masculine side. And if you're constantly spinning like a squirrel on a wheel, unable to stop, then, on the contrary, slow down, become aware, this is the feminine side. But with God, there is no masculine and feminine; it's all One. Therefore, I believe that for a fulfilling, real life, you must possess both of these qualities. It's not about masculinity and femininity; they're simply a model. The point is for your energy to flow calmly, for your true self to manifest through you more naturally. This is where God lies, not necessarily Non-Duality itself. I think people get stuck in Non-Duality, as if projecting God externally, thereby disconnecting themselves from Reality. But that's a false spirituality. What kind of spirituality is it that simply escapes reality, instead of experiencing it and being present in it? This is precisely the subject/object relationship, and it's much closer to Non-Duality than even the thoughts and ideas about it. God is manifesting through you right now, and it doesn't matter what your state or situation is. I might not even accept the situation right now. Well, let's say it's bad for me, so what? I accept my rejection. Ahaha, it's just my position: I Am.

If we talk about the chakra system (although I'm skeptical about it, but still), all chakras are important, including the lowest ones. Even in Spiral Dynamics, the lowest stage is important. What's positive and useful about it is that in a state of struggle, a kind of brainstorming occurs. This energy of chaos is simply pure energy, like a kindling fire, and it comes from below—it's the creative force, its potential. In short, all chakras are important. Both masculine and feminine are important. The most important thing is Unity and Fullness, and the harmony of this and freedom... Emptiness = Fullness, Non-duality = Duality.
Do you think I'm right or wrong?

Edited 15 hours ago by Malkom