Mellowmarsh

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Nothing is forever.

Except atoms, my soul exists partly in eternity and partly in time.

 

As in Darkness he shall be thy piercing Light.

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If you’re going to love. Love deeply on the unconditional level only. It’s the only real and true love. 

 

 

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Hey I-I get by with a little help from my imaginary friends!  😂 

Shallow love focuses on superficial aspects, such as appearance or convenience, and lacks depth, emotional connection, and commitment, often leading to disappointment.Deep love, conversely, involves a strong, enduring bond built on loyalty, trust, vulnerability, and a choice to accept and forgive the partner's true self, even through difficulties. This enduring love is resilient, grows over time, and uplifts both individuals, fostering a connection that feels like home rather than a source of constant compromise or harm. 

Shallow Love:

Focus on the Superficial:

Centers on external factors like appearance, status, or convenience rather than deep emotional connection. 

Lack of Depth:

Avoids serious conversations and focuses on trivial matters, leading to superficial interactions. 

Eroding Intensity:

Initial infatuation or fascination fades as reality sets in, revealing a lack of substance in the relationship. 

Compromising Self:

Involves diminishing one's light or losing oneself to please another, rather than being fully seen and heard. 

Temporary and Frail:

Easily broken by difficulties, misunderstandings, or emotional strain, lacking the resilience to endure. 

Deep Love:

Built on True Connection:

Characterized by a profound emotional connection, quiet understanding, and unwavering support. 

Commitment and Choice:

A conscious decision to care for and forgive each other, especially when it's difficult, and a commitment to being there through messy times. 

Vulnerability and Acceptance:

Involves a willingness to be vulnerable and to accept the person, including their flaws and scars, with grace and mercy. 

Uplifting and Enduring:

Doesn't ask you to shrink or dim your light but helps you become more fully yourself and brings you back to your true essence. 

Resilience and Healing:

It endures storms, heals wounds, and restores broken relationships by choosing grace over bitterness and compassion over resentment. 

In essence, deep love is a journey of consistent effort, mutual commitment, and acceptance of imperfection, creating a sustainable and enriching bond. Shallow love, on the other hand, often proves inadequate when faced with life's challenges, highlighting a critical difference in connection and character. 

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