Iksander

@Emerald I would argue that the fact that a method works in reality makes it true. Data and trends > Your opinion on female sexuality Not that your opinion doesn't have any merit, but I think the problem has probably been your choice in sexual partners, not men's understanding of female sexuality. There are plenty of men, including in the pick up world that understand female sexuality well. They are drowned out by a sea of retards though, you'll have to keep your eyes open

@Lucas-fgm Yeah dude, read what I said. It's designed FOR beta males, to get them out of the beta mindset and throw them into the lions den. I didn't say pick up is beta.

It's not inaccurate if it works. If it works, where is the distortion?

Why is there so much discussion about 'pickup' when it comes to dating topics on this forum? Pickup is a niche and is inherently designed for beta males to learn some 'tricks' to get to sleep with women. The tricks work when applied well, but I don't understand why all of the dating talk is under the umbrella of pickup. It's repetitive and boring and pickup only covers a small proportion of intergender relations (mostly the attraction phase) Most women are never going to be happy and find a guy they love. Their standards are frankly ridiculous and they want so much when they offer fuck-all, especially in the west. It's no wonder why the 'assholes' shag all the women. Need to be a top 20% guy to get a foot in the door with a toe-rag. Also, what women say they want and what they actually respond to are very different things. Mostly, we don't care about the intimacy crap and why would we. We care about pussy and SOME of us companionship. Once we've fucked you we have leverage, which is why vetting is important for women. That's the game. Ultimately to have abundance with women you don't need to care about knowing them on a deep level. Women gatekeep sex and Men gatekeep commitment. @Emerald We can have tons of sex with hot women without the deep intimacy of true female sexual nature. So basically, why should men care? For us, it's fulfilling to have any kind of sex we like

Men want sex from women. You want a man based on what he can do for you. It's simple.

This video literally describes me perfectly. Wow

I have been recently diagnosed, and prescribed slow release Adderall. Thankyou for sharing

@Preety_India right. High quality = hot. gotcha

@Preety_India sure, if he thinks that is high quality he will soon find himself in trouble and that's a guarantee

@Preety_India Sexually desirable and high quality are not the same thing. I would have sex with the devil if she was 10/10. I wouldn't date her, though

@Jacob Morres Bullshit Yeah I think all of these traits are important too

I'm so tired of this. All I do is fulfill biological drives and convince myself of various narratives. This is my life 1) Fulfill drives 2) Bullshit myself about everything I'm looking for a way out of this. The only time I feel good is when I sleep. Sometimes before I sleep I get lucid and see things from a 'higher perspective' and it's incredible. It feels like looking at the world, situations and thoughts through god's eyes. My 'self' isn't there. If I could just find a way to bring this into my day to day life.....

You've all convinced me. If she doesn't call me 'Iksander-Kun' I'm gone

@Lucas-fgm These traits are a good start but they are absolutely not close to the finished article. If this is all you look for then you're going to run into some big problems with women especially in a relationship. If you're just sleeping around then whatever but these traits alone have zero merit in terms of her qualities as a woman and as a human being Yeah I don't think being too selective is high up on the list of reasons for the existence of incels haha, There's 100 reasons that I would put before this

@Lucas-fgm @Jacob Morres Guys the question was what makes a high-quality woman, not what is your low bar standards to sleep with hahah @Jacob Morres Your comment almost made me spit my coffee out. You made my day

Physically attractive Takes care of her health Kind and Caring Open and Honest Intelligent Compassionate Positive BONUS HYPER-RARE TRAIT TAKES RESPONSIBLTY FOR HER LIFE SITUATION AND ACTIONS

@ZzzleepingBear When I said always that was an exaggeration. I have plenty of useful thoughts. However, Basic needs take up more of my mental activity than I would like and it causes suffering. What I would like is some kind of strategies for 'tapping into' this lucid way of seeing things. Because it's loving clarity and it feels like pure bliss.

50% success rate. Fuck me. Not even Genghis Khan had that close rate mate

@CultivateLove Right. Enjoy cultivating all that love

@Gianna Good job. You made progress!

@CultivateLove Nah, I worded it how I wanted to you straw manned me. I personally don't enjoy friendship with women. I enjoy friendship with men. Can Women and Men be friends? Obviously. Read more carefully

@uriel Sounds like your relationship is no longer facilitating your growth. I had a similar situation a year or so ago, I wasn't depressed and I didn't have OCD (which I understand makes things tougher) but I broke up with the girl and my life is much better. You know in your gut when it's time to move on. The longer you leave it the harder it will get.

Yeah. If you aren't mature enough to understand basic needs then that's your problem. Sex is a basic need. Try not eating for two week or shitting for two weeks. Sex is the same, it's a basic need. You also don't seem to understand what a victim mentality is. What personal responsibility am I shouldering off exactly?

@Gianna Many girls act like bitches at first as a defense mechanism, and it's up to the guy to knock her bitch shield down and allow her to relax and have fun by making her laugh ect. (Or just walk away lol) Other times a girl will like you straight away and be friendly Both are fine

@Gianna One final story to help you feel better about being ruthless. When I was 16, I had my heart CRUSHED TWICE in the space of a year by two girls I absolutely adored. I pictured myself being with them, I thought about them a lot and thought about how well I would treat them. They weren't attracted to me and both rejected me and said they just want to be friends. This absolutely killed me to the point I couldn't live with myself. This facilitated personal transformation. I read and re-read countless dating and relationship book, learnt social skills, started lifting weights, taking care of myself, going out and talking to girls until I got really good at it. I had a few relationships and a lot of casual sex, and now I am with a girl who I absolutely love and she loves me very much. We have a bond way better than anything I could have imagined up myself. And you know what? She's way hotter and cooler than the girls who rejected me all those years ago! Who do I have to thank for this? The girls who rejected me! It caused me so much pain that I had to transform. Now there is one more man in the world who know how to treat women, and one very happy girl in a relationship with the man of her dreams