Ramasta9

@Jannes Trust me if she really likes you its going to be very hard to get rid of her. Dick size is one of the least important things. Of course there are those immature girls who don't know what they say, want or need half of the time and just running an old programmed instilled in their minds by society, but you don't want that anyway, or do you

@Natasha Tori Maru I am more interested in the dude if he can take honest feedback in bed and not shrivel into mincey balls baby ego mode. ^^^ why can't people be brutally honesty anymore, I find almost nothing more attractive. Its the highest intimacy !

i've been wanting to create this topic for some time now and haven't really found the window of opportunity to deliver it until now. So bare with me. The topic is around why text‑only communication fundamentally distorts certain types of exchanges, especially those involving presence, consciousness, or energetic nuance. I share this because I have noticed how many exchanges i have with people online, or exchanges people have online in general, often end up in misunderstandings, projections and ego-driven arguments, and a big part of this is because there is no solid ground or physical medium through which the expressions can be fully expressed or released, rather everything gets squeezed through a mental filter, which is incomplete, and what this does energetically is that it doesn't allow full expression or needed exchange, and lacks emotional, somatic and relational layers that allow two people to truly meet. When we communicate in person, we receive the full signal: tone, presence, body language, micro-expressions and overall energy signatures of one another. This multilayered exchange is essential for understanding where someone is actually coming from and allows conversations to come full circle. In my experience, I find 90% of online conflict completely dissolves when the same two people sit down together by the fire enjoying a cuppa. I personally have experienced many clashes with people online that when i requested we continue this in person, it was resolved in 5 minutes or less. Suddenly we can feel each other... the defensiveness drops, the misunderstandings evaporate, and what was once an argument becomes a human moment. At the end of the day we are vibrational beings. Our energy fields interact even before our words do, and online text strips that layer away, and without it, people are left to (fill in the blanks) with their own projections. That's why online clashes feel so distorted, because the actual energetic exchange is missing, and the connection never fully lands, after all, its an artificial medium, there's only so much that can be transmitted through. So whats missing in text and online chats? Lets explore this a little deeper. * Tone & Cadence: softness, intensity, sincerity, breath, pauses, timing, rhythm... which reveals the overall state of consciousness, not just the ideas. * Body Language: posture, eye contact, gestures, micro-expression... that transmit truthfulness, coherence, confidence, vulnerability and emotional regulation. * Energetic Field: sensing someones presence, the depth of groundedness, openness or contraction, clarity or confusion, thus you can feel if someone is centered or scattered - online text hides all of this. * Emotional Resonance: You can feel and hear a persons heart through their voice, text reduces everything to ideas, not presence. Some of these topics like: awareness, embodiment, alignment, intuition, truthfulness ect... cannot be communicated purely through information, rather they are properly transmitted through being. Text is like an information-medium, where Presence is a consciousness-medium. Non-dual or metaphysical insight is not just conceptual, its a shift in felt experience. When people talk about these things in text, the entire felt dimension is amputated. This is why online spiritual arguments become so neurotic and disconnected, everyone is arguing about states they aren't feeling each other in. What are some illusions text-only communication creates? * Fake Clarity: Writing can sound "clean" or "wise" even if the person is not embodied. * Ego Inflation: Text rewards intellectual sharpness, not actual presence. * Misinterpretation: Without tone, almost anything can be read as: anger, arrogance, defensiveness and sarcasm, and thus people tend to fill emotional gaps with their own projections. And we also experience Dehumanization and forget there is a nervous system behind the words... So such deeper topics are not about content, they are about consciousness, and text flattens consciousness into words, and removes presence, nuance, embodiment, vulnerability, sincerity and energetic transmissions, and those are exactly the ingredients needed for these conversations. Because spiritual, non-dual, or metaphysical insights require felt resonance, not just word manipulation. You can feel if someone is speaking from ego or from depth. --------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- An idea i had would be to add voice or video commands to the forums. This will help bridge-the-gap so we can relate more deeply and accurately with one another. This would naturally bring out authentic expression, make it impossible to hide behind carefully edited text, and encourage everyone to truly stand in their own truth and presence. Conversations would carry tone, emotion, and energy, helping members connect on a much deeper level than text alone allows. Maybe something we can work on in the future? Why this works? Well if you think about it, voice carries tone, eyes carry presence, warmth and coldness or confidence and shakiness are felt/sensed, pauses reflect contemplation, emotions are witnessed more directly. Suddenly subtlety returns, misunderstandings drop, people naturally respect each other more, the "vibration" of the message is felt, and as defensiveness dissolves, arguments turn into valuable conversations. Otherwise we could have meet-ups / circles / gatherings in different countries or zones, this could be very effective in building a stronger support group. And to those playing the AI Police lately, this took a lot of time and energy to write so please go away, if you cant handle such a post, its not my problem. I trust this will spark something upon the forums, peace be with you.

What are you truly seeking? Maybe you are going about it the wrong way? Have you ever considered maybe its time to try something else and take a break? Usually when things are not working in the way you want them to work is because there is something there trying to show you: Hey ! (this is not working for you right now), its out of alignment with what you may need. The mind will endlessly chase and seek the next high or peak experience, but its never nourished, only inflated more, leaving you miserable and more empty over time, maybe its time now to apply and live those trips and integrate them, give your nervous system a break and relax a little, try take a different turn in life, see how that goes for a while, you might discover something else entirely, hope this helps my friend

What you can try is sleep on the ground or firmer surface, for true relaxation the (skeletal system) needs to hold the body up, so muscles, brain, organs can truly relax and drop, try at first on a yoga matt, maybe with a layer or two of blankets, or invest in thin 10cm Japanese style futon. If you are on the tech a lot, especially in the evenings, best invest in some high quality blue-blocking glasses which made a big difference for me. Exercise daily, not too hard, and not to failure, but exercise to success, it has to be enjoyed. I also find going outside and putting my feet on the soil/grass and or sitting and doing some deep breathing 5 - 10 minutes before bed helps a lot. This will help discharge a lot of the electricity we pick up in modern environments. I also turn off all electronics, wifi, noises, lights and keep my room as dark but also as cool fresh air coming in always keeping windows slightly open or as much as you need. I would also try stop eating around 6 - 7 pm the latest, and sleep on an empty stomach, and maybe a herbal tea that helps with sleep, like chamomile, lavender, valerian, skullcap, passionflower ect... Eat lots of fruits and veggies, try get at least 2 - 3 liters of spring or living water in a day, get at least 30 minutes of sunshine a day, full body exposure if you can, all these things should help. Its often the same advice for almost every issue modern humans struggles with. Most city dwellers are basically living inside a man-made motherboard, our nervous system is not designed for this shit. So don't beat yourself up, take it easy, slow down, do less, rest and relax more, be at ease and peace.

Embracing my feminine side was one of the greatest things I ever done in my life. Its very rare to come across males deeply in tune with their feminine. And my father as a military man, so growing up and being my natural self was extremely challenging and deeply suppressed until many years later. Finding the balance between feminine and masculine within is what its all about, that's where enlightenment stands in its fullness. Most men need to awaken the divine feminine within them, and most women need to awaken the divine masculine.

There is no "fixed" how much, everyone is unique and different, and lifestyle, diet, environment play big roles here. In my experience the more you eat, the more stressed and out of alignment you are, and especially if your living in a toxic or draining environment and lifestyle that's not serving you, the more sleep you need. I sleep anywhere from 4 - 8 hours depending on those ^ factors. The best i ever felt in my life i was averaging 2 - 4 hours of sleep a day, mostly living in my tent, hiking, eating berries and meditating ect... I was so nourished by the environment and minimalist lifestyle, bathing in healing forests, i would recharge in a fraction of the time. In the city and more stressful environments I need more sleep, maybe 6 - 8hours, and when i eat less, its less, when i fast its even less. Many things come into play, listen to your body and intuition.

Not always a bad sign, we require less sleep because the body is turning off its largest engine that uses the most energy, digestion. Dry fasting is not about purely raising your vibration, if you do it for that then its not the correct approach. Your vibration is already high, its just clouded with layers and layers of build-up. 2 - 3 days is mostly the physical layers. When i eat less i sleep less, this is very evident. When i feel fully nourished and high on life i sometimes don't sleep much at all.

The real question is, why are you afraid to date a real woman? Why are you being so impatient and needy to get your ins? High conscious women are not usually found in the usual dating places, they are found in more wholesome environments. You are exhausted because you are out of alignment with what you truly need my friend. That's my take at least.

Wake up at between 4 - 5 am, set intention to enter the dream with absolute lucidity, lay on your back, resist turning over or moving, breathe deeply and relax, and either let go or willingly arise from your body without actually moving an inch. Also if you wake up don't turn any lights on or anything jarring, and if you need an alarm put something like very gentle (low volume) zen flute or nature sounds, you don't wanna shock your system. Try that, see how it goes

Things have been mostly great for me since I reunited with myself back in 2012, after that things only became easier and easier, in all areas of life, especially as i learned to relax and surrender more and more.I never resonated with the "dating life" in the traditional sense, nor ever went out seeking, I simply allowed things to unfold naturally and had some very deep and meaningful relationships and big lessons of growth and expansion since. Now don't get me wrong, not saying it has been perfect, there was a lot of ups and downs, but its been a very enlivening process. I stopped looking at age, and looks and such long ago too, i only see my spirit getting brighter and brighter the more in alignment i stand within myself. I know this may sound full-on but its really simple, if you can be yourself, rediscover who you truly are behind all the masks we wear, everything changes, everyone will notice you, be drawn to you, curious, or even threatened by you, you become an electromagnetic beacon. I used to suffer from some of those things you shared, nowadays they barely exist, maybe a tiny spark here and there, at most. So yeah, i think it all comes down to how true you can be to yourself and allow that to shine through, that's what's attractive, your uniqueness. God gave you a fingerprint no one else has so you can leave an imprint no one else can. We often fail at life when we try to copy others. Fine your souls tune, and express it. Excuse my spiritfullness

Ahh good old Jay, he was a good soul, very heart-centered, shared a lot of good videos, then left the online platform entirely. I believe his original channel was called (Master of Earth), that's when utube was good and spirituality was more simple and not all over the place. I'm in total alignment with what he says about hair being an extension of our nervous system. I also see them as roots or energetic roots. I feel far more grounded and connected with long hair, and especially in tune with nature and the environment around me. I can pick things up much sooner and sense things from, afar like weather changes or danger and what not. I simply gave up on having to continue to cut it or trim it, the routines started to bother me, and as i became more and more sensitive, i started to get the intuition to allow what nature had gifted me to develop naturally in its full expression. Now its very wild and beautiful and two toned. Women be jealous i tell ya

Yey more psychic pollution ! Lets all continue to insert foreign images into a persons mind and make them want things they don't need that gradually weaken focus and distract them from their soul purpose. We must keep them asleep and in cycles. No critical thinkers, no awakened ones. I have add-blockers everywhere, ghostery and duckduckgo to name a few, there is also an app called 'brave' if you want to watch utube on your phone without adds. I am glad i found this because i enjoy listening to long tracks or podcasts while driving, and I am not paying a dime for some premium bs, we're already paying for enough. Whats next we have to pay to breathe and think? Its so off-putting, always having to find a work-around things. RIP the good old days, when things were simple. And trying to make profit out of every little hole they can find is one of the biggest diseases man faces today. A psychological parasite at its finest.

I thought I was Nahm and I can't "play" you? Now I am a mystery? Make up your mind? and why does it matter so much? What's the underlying "urge" or "need" to know? What is it that i represent that makes you uncomfortable? Maybe the fear of the unknown? :0

That's cause We Are. There is nothing we can do about it. We are literally e n e r g y ~vibrating~ at various f r e q u e n c i e s. And there would be no point to tell a hungry homeless man that unless he was receptive to make use of it, but first I'd still give him food. That's how you build a connection, give people what they need, not what you "think" they want.

Thanks for sharing your perspective and understanding, appreciated. I haven't heard of Bernardo Kastrup, I'll have to check him out one day.

No, the owner of the "other forum" created these little non-dual Nahmlings you see everywhere, I am the one who attempted to bring this inevitable "side-effect" to his awareness, as did Leo and Joseph I believe. Such teachings should not be 'broadcasted' onto a wide-audience, and ancient teachings and spiritual lineages know of this and have spoken of this. Unfortunately the modern / online world, and the lack of real guru-disciple / mystic-initiate / teacher-student relationships are missing, hence, you are left with people in~between realms and not truly grounded and embodied in their truth. And different folks require different responses. I live and behave intuitively, in that case, placing a clearer mirror felt needed.

@Natasha Tori Maru There's a fine few moderators i resonate with, and I feel someone like you is exactly what this forum needs. Keep it up

Its such a weird but hilarious take tho, I do admire the effort. I think Leo and Nahm can both learn of one another, but honestly, I feel these days I relate with Leo more than Nahm, even though I don't always agree with their excessiveness in regrades to somethings I won't get into. I would really be amazed if you can figure out who I am, or was. I've given many hints away already, but it doesn't really matter. I have little to no attachment to the past characters and plays, why I never mind creating new accounts.

@Someone here Hehe, Nahm may say: "Horseshit" to that @Carl-Richard Thanks for your exchanges. If i am being honest, I find it challenging to resonate with your comments in many different topics, and often don't know how to respond. I don't seem to feel them as much. To me, they come across as more top-down or too meta-analytic, and they can feel somewhat disembodied from the experiential side of things. Just sharing my experience, that I often feel this "offness" with your comments.

Indeed. I have been dealing with this for some time now, and attempting to convey the importance of what you said, and even made some posts on multiple forums about it, unfortunately only a few grounded and more open individuals seem receptive enough, or willing to admit the truth in it all. There is a "spiritual-hierarchy" role that is being held onto too strongly with neo non-dual teachers, and especially on online forums. I find my nature simply threatens that paradigm because I am not afraid to point things out that others aren't seeing or pointing out themselves, and often when I do, whether its Leo, Nahm or anyone else, I mostly get shit from all the minions that blindly follow them without realizing the truth for themselves and the greater importance of the core message that i am attempting to convey. Whats coming from love is then seen as the threat. There was a whole post on depression i recently had to detach from, and the person expressing it only became more confused in the end, he did thank me though, for keeping it real and meeting him where he was at and needed to be met, while N was completely ignoring or oblivious to this. And I feel its all because they become too Identified with the "teacher" role, that their presence on the forum is built around being the one who "knows", and needing to appear "unshakable". And when people introduce anything that suggests vulnerability, relatability or the emotional field, it threatens that very self‑image. Simply avoiding being humanized, as that would potentially collapse the imaginary pedestal they stand on. Otherwise i feel this "clinging" to the nondual realizations is used to avoid feeling their own disowned emotions. And that's what denial looks like in a spiritual context, The Absolute becomes (armor) against vulnerability. This is ego trying to survive under the mask of spiritual authority. Its too masculine and to one-sided, the feminine has been divorced, and one becomes blinded by the light.

We are drowning in knowledge but starving in wisdom.

Yeah not that he wasn't he was great, but where i was attempting to bridge-the-gap was that the non-dual concepts don't always land too well, especially online when you cannot feel and read the energy of the individual your communicating with, so you can't always truly sense what they need in the moment, so i was nudging to find a middle way, bit closer to an human/earthy relation and point of reference. I think this is why Leo had to ban him from the forums because of the almost non-human like responses that may be conceptually true, they didn't always, and more often than so, actually help instead cause more confusion in forums, which i feel Nahm was more suited for advanced seekers. I been on his other forum on and off and I have notriced people who struggle to grasp his method and teachings naturally find meaning in my comments. I still love Nahm, even though we have our differences.