VioleGrace

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  1. That is a lot clearer thank you Cause i was immediatly agree with @LordFall's insight but the detail you brought make things way more accurate
  2. I am curious about that, can you tell us more about that ?
  3. - Can you lower the expanses keeping the quality or still get higher quality than the cost ? - Can you charge more ? - Can you personalize so you offer less but more impactuf (and cheaper) experiences ? - How do you get your clients ? Can you you it to get groups ? Or clients with more money ? - Can you group several solo traveler ? - Can you negociate the price with the hostels museum etc .. So you get more affordables prices ?
  4. Well i agree with your definition, and i feel that i now by instinct what it is but not deeply it is shallow ... Right ! It is my next subject of contemplation !
  5. Yes the biggest pitfall is to ask to many question and be boring that is why tell story is a great idea But the main general point here is "go with the flow" ask a question go deeper be creative be funny express your personnality And explore different subjects But YOU HAVE to now here as SHE NEEDS to know you and in that way YOU HAVE TO ask questions and she NEEDS TO ask you too Cause iff you dont she wont feels to know you and even if she gives her number in the flow of the moments she won't feel that she knows you so she will be reluctant to go on date with you You have to have the are minimum Name ? Work ? Location ? Age ? (maybe) you have to lead the conversation as a man to know all of this while showinfg your personnality and have a good time When she go out of the interaction sshe have to have a nice picture of you in her head if all you do is telling story par will miss in that picture and she will feel uneasiness in the idea of meeting you You can get to know each other without asking question each 30 sec
  6. Yes i get that you mean to not doing always, but that is the thing, i used to think like you so when i had a question to ask i used to make assumption "seems you are a nurse" instead "What do you work for ?" but with time i think it was a terrible advise When you approach a girl you want to make her chase a bit when you are doing assumptions it is the other way around you will chase for information in a sense But of course this type of assumption can work great ! But not to replace a question more to offer more value or go deeper in a subject but a subject introduce by a question Exemple would be : Wat do you work in -> i am a nurse (assumption) -> Oh you must be a caring person even if you job is really exhausting right ? OR -> i am a nurse -> Story i went in a hospital once ...etc Point is you can make story after a question too, but replace all basic question with assumption is not necessary and can negatively impact your frame Anyway how youasjk question is more important than what you ask
  7. The story is really a good one! but not the "only make assumptions" part it can very subtly come as try hard and not authentic
  8. Are you beginning a cult thing ? Where do i sign ?
  9. Bro i'm living in paris and 5 Meo as ALWAYS BEEN illegal so are 5 meo MALT AND DALT and EVERY other spychedelics I don't suggest you to buy it on the clear web it is mostly scam with 0 testimonies DW look for the good market place And look for good supplier with lot of testimonies will be way more safe in my opinion
  10. Yes that's true too both edge/extrem are to be be warry of Fair point, but what i mean is not anybody will want to do this type of thing for a living, Lot of people won't want to host party run ads for just for the sake of getting laid, especially if they have other life purposes, I guess that you are already passionate by photography, run businesses host party around all of it DM hot girls etc ... This is a lot of work that a lot won't afford to do if it is just to get laid In the dev ewemple for exemple you mentionned above He could just sell websites he doesn't need to host party And for exemple if i take my case i would have a lot more trouble than you, I am a personnal trainer so i have no photography knowledge or really basics ones, and i can't help model exept if they want to get in better shape, but i can't build event around that In paris so appartement are a lot more tiny, so would have to find bigger appartement that are expensive (Not that it is impossible of course just it is way harder and more expensive) What are your results so far in term of income and with girls
  11. Cause of how who and why you use systems Cause yellow is using systems not just to make it work in HIS favor, for yellow the why ? you use system and wich ? One you use is important not just the how ? and for whom ? Even if it is a big part of it too without taking all of these in account you are just at an orange state Moreover i don't think that one or 2 action will be enough to get to a stage or an other but i don't think that is what you meant there anyway Ok i get it now thanks for the explanation But that is not something anybody can apply A Dev can't host business meeting with models for exemple
  12. I am confuse, women are your client ?
  13. It seems to me that you are using overly reductionnism on these stage moreover it being really biased towards orange values
  14. Exactly when it is unconscious that you don't even aware of that @AION it is the problem Everybody is biased that is true the work is to be aware or it ans recognize it when you say "this is truth" using a biased view you get away from the truth
  15. And the best way to do that is to go out and socialize with woman not stay in you room living in your own head
  16. Put more nuances in your short content on blog i think trying to avoid sentences that can be understand as overgeneralisation like "women are X" more of "women are more prone to X cause Y" We know that you mean lot of nuances but a lot of people don't get it and misuse your teachings
  17. I dont understand, what are you suggesting exactly ?
  18. For the second time you did not understand what i said i said that he is rationalising the fact that he is not going out too meet women And again, what are the other way in your opinion ?
  19. No i never said this you should reread my post and understand it And to answer to your comment, is this the only one ? maybe not. is there a better way ? i don't think so But if you know others and better way i am happy to ear it from you And bear in mind that getting out to socialise (what you seem to call pick up) is not just getting over social anxiety, it is one of the main feature yes but just the begining
  20. i dont think that it is natasha per se, A lot of people here don't do the work to really think about what they are posting, When someone like you or leo or zenetsu and other say that "women they are dating are shallow and game is shallow too ..." i can understand that is from experience and that you are not making generalisation or assumption there and you can clearly put just nuances in you speech and thinking But a lot of peoples here are just purely biased and are just repeating some red pills points they fumbled into, it is so clear that they have no deep thinking into their post and no deep experience in women too and no deep thinking into them neither, they are just brainwashed and self deceived about these topic, there is no nuance is there comment So of course when natasha try to get them accountable and think about the BS they are mindlessly spouting they get defensive cause they ego want them to think that they are right And that is just more obvious with Natasha cause she is calling out these types of comment when more often than others That's what i feel when i see the exchanges anyway
  21. Yet you are doing the same thing rationalizing your weakness and not taking actions as someone who would tell a soldier you can help a child better putting a bullet in his head cause it is easier to self deceive himself and cut the throat of is ennemy than resolve a problem in a pacific way (unless you like war, which is fine if you do I suppose.) Like i don't need to get in your head to see that you are just self deceiving yourself to keep taking the soft way Using a reductionist example like your showing again your lack of understanding and epistemology so i will leave this discussion on this. Self-deception and bias are a beach i guess
  22. So you are talking making assumption and conclusion about something you never practiced error 404 in epistemology Of course you don't think so cause you don't know any basic truth about it
  23. With pleasure my friend thank to you to give us so much value, i genuinely appreciate your perspective and experienced view on pick up
  24. With all respect it is obvious for me reading your post that you are not going out to talk to girls and that you are not even trying, Cause you put so many projections and bad assumption within it that it seems just like excuses You can have kissed model that mean nothing and same if you went up a lot especially using drugs Claiming that you natural self can't game can easily be self deception unless you really tried hardcore to do something and be at least slightly good on this THEN at this moment you can tell it is me or not, plus pick up is a spectrum your view is awfully black and white an other indicator that you don't know what you are talking about There is some perspectives available in ur post but that are traps not conscious process to have relationship or get good socially
  25. Just begin with direct approach until you are comfortable enough to be indirect, Dont forget this is ADVANCED advise, To do this correctly ... To be precise TO LEARN to do this correctly you have to be able to approach women and to have a decent conversation with girls before hands, So begin by direct approach it is less efficient BUT IS WORKS When you will be confortable switch to indirect approach Plus you can do direct approach and work on your vibe wittyness and frame