Big Marsha

My parents are extremely rich. I grew up rich. I am born into money. Growing up my father spoiled me, i always had what i wanted for free. i always compared myself to my friends who were in a less economical class . I had better things than them. If i broke something, it was just a funny joke how clumsy i am and it got replaced immediately. When i was 14 year old my best friend came to our house for the first time she kept saying "wow". She was really impressed that we had 2 TV's, it embarrassed me enough that I didn't tell her we had 4.Eating out every single day. At least one, if not both meals were delivered to the house every day, sometimes from really fancy restaurants. I always thought that home cooked food and family dinners on tv were fake. I only realized It was abnormal when my friend came over and when we were talking said she liked the pasta at this local Italian restaurant, so I went on the phone and ordered (we were about 16 at the time) and she was in complete shock that I was allowed to do that. Being able to go to college/school without thinking about cost. I never had to worry about money growing up. I went to an elite private school and had private tutors, went on lavish holidays and lived in a nice big house. I've been able to set up a comfortable life for myself at my parents expense and I’m grateful for that. Vacations big time. Being unable to understand why people wanted to raise taxes. Country clubs and $50,000+ weddings. Being able to afford maids, accountants, and being in contact with a lawyer constantly. People sometimes make me feel guilty for being rich. Should I feel guilty or lucky for being born well-off? "guilty" is a bad word for this but I can't think of another one to describe the feeling. I know this is so trivial compared to what other people go through/ free but i just want to get it off my chest.

Male attention tends to be sexual or weird. Women have been either complimentary/touchy feely or aggressive and mean. I face this in public a lot. If I'm in public and a woman is giving me nasty looks for no reason, I just smile. I think the best defense against hateful or jealous people is kindness. I know that sounds so cliché, but there's nothing more gratifying than watching someone who wants to get under your skin realize they can't. They look like the azhole, you look graceful. It's a win-win. Some women here ignored me for a while and then they started to be very rude. They would make offhanded comments about me, insult me, and told me that I am a giant , arrogant, overdressed cow. They tend to just call me a giant cow and it's really starting to tick me off. At first, which was nine months ago, I was fine and just ignored and laughed along side (I know I shouldn't have, never made the wisest choice). These days though I'm getting annoying and want to put a stop to it. It's insulting and demeaning. I have to put up with the constant insults for nine months. I don’t care that they don’t like me, but it is getting tiring. Problem is I don't want to be direct about it because it won't play out normally where people will just stop. I don't know to go about it but I'd like to make sure there's an end to this. One thing I can think of right now is just saying "Don't call me a giant cow" in a serious tone and that's it but not sure what to do after if it gets ignored.

These women gropers are physically completely harmless. They are not not tough and strong. They don't look intimidating. They are just short, skinny, tiny women. I am much bigger and physically stronger than these women. Maybe subconsciously i know that these short women are not physically threatening to me at all. they are short skinny physically weak women, there 'is not an automatic fear of being physically assaulted like there might be with a man (at least one i didn't know and trust)

I literally had these women my gropers tell me that before they met me they hated me because I was overdressed which means I must be a high maintenance bitch, snob, and diva, and they were “surprised” to find out I’m letting them to grope me in public.

Yes. You are totally right. These type of women short, skinny, unattractive are groping me and touching me because they want to dominate me. To dominate someone you otherwise feel inferior to is quite a common kink. This is where it can create confusion, i am much bigger and stronger than these gropers yet they kinda control me, not physically but mentally. Domination is not about physically subjugating someone its about mentally controlling them. When the control is physical it is domineering bullying or even abusive assault but this is so much more subtle and about real control. These gropers don't respect my boundaries, and because of their out of the ordinary behavior they put me in the position of being humiliated/submissive. Part of the reason they do is because they are envious of me and i have an intimidating and frigid aura around me that might have excite them because they see a challenge to overcome. Honestly at this point i would let any small tiny women to grope me in public . I realized I take no issue with small women doing it. It is like is instilled in my mind now, that i am there for any short tiny woman who wants to grope me in public .

@Butters Thank you. I definitely feel safe with these small tiny women because they are physically harmless. But i admit to you that if a tall, fat or muscular woman starts groping me , i will get upset. I literally had these women my gropers tell me that before they met me they hated me because I was overdressed which means I must be a high maintenance bitch, snob, and diva, and they were “surprised” to find out I’m letting them to grope me in public

I am 41 year old recently divorced woman. I have a son. I often feel powerful and confident, thought sometimes I feel like I can be accidentally intimidating (I’m 6 foot tall”). I’ve learned to be a little extra friendly or goofy with new people so they don’t get that impression. When I’m feeling low self esteem sometimes I feel too big, and get very self conscious about being larger than other women. But usually I can get out of that headspace by putting on a badass outfit that only a very tall statuesque woman could pull off. . I identify as straight. I am exclusively attracted to men. I moved here in this small town about nine months ago. I moved here because is very near my son's boarding school. My parents are extremely rich. I grew up rich. I am dressing up everywhere (even for grocery shopping ). The whole shebang, satin/leather/shiny pants/skirts, satin/silk blouses, pantyhose, shapewear, high heels, full make up on, be it morning, noon or evening. Most of my outfits are well-coordinated in terms of color I love my style and get lots of compliments on my clothes. . But I moved here in this smallish town about a year ago. I moved here because is very near my son's boarding school. My clothing makes me stick out like a sore thumb in this town. I am always dressed up to the max, on high heels, full make up on. However, some acquaintances here in this town think I overdress for daily activities. Most people here think I am stuck up. On the other hand I feel confident this way, so i don't want to dress down . Since i moved here in this small town I keep finding myself in situations where other women just randomly start touching my boobs and butt. I was totally unprepared for that behavior from anyone. I've always had big boobs. I easily had the largest chest in my high school. But I was one of the lucky ones that's never had her boobs grabbed, touched, or jiggled before. Probably because of my size and my bitch resting face. My lack of familiarity with this type of situations was not just limited to being groped either, as so far i had no involvement with lesbians at all. I’m not even talking about people that I’m familiar with in any way. It usually tends to be older short skinny women. I know it’s a controversial topic , but many women here in this town are fascinated by me and some ask while others just go ahead and touch my boobs or butt. I am letting them. I realized that I’m not a person who really cares too much about my breasts or butt getting groped by other women as long as you’re not being aggressive or trying to undress me. There’s a part of me that realizes that culturally they are probably excited to see something different and not conscious that it is inappropriate. I identify as straight as I think bisexual implies I'm interested in sex with another woman, and I'm not. These women gropers are physically completely harmless. They are not not tough and strong. They don't look intimidating. They are just short, skinny, tiny women. I am much bigger and physically stronger than these women. Maybe subconsciously i know that these short women are not physically threatening to me at all, and the chances that these handsy women could actually rape me are virtually nil. It's not like they don't have a barrier of clothes between them and my skin anyway. Personally, unless they're hurting me, I'd never take action against some these two women copping a feel. What am I? . I thought this would drive me crazy and it doesn't! I'm not bothered by these small women who have touched my breasts/butt without asking. I never thought I’d let it happen, but did and i am okay with it ! I am regularly groped by these short, skinny, weird, women and it doesn't bother me at all. If it was men , I would be pissed and smack them. I’m not a super touchy feely person normally, but it gives me the warm fuzzies when other women are so excited about my breasts and butt and sending good vibes. I also never try to touch other women’s boobs/butts and haven’t ever felt the urge, i am strictly heterosexual lol so I guess it’s kind of weird, but yeah overall I don’t mind at all. I don't mind these small skinny women calling me big or massive or giantess eather, I love my big body. I am ok with this. I got used to occasional small woman’s hand that reaches for my breasts, usually accompanied with questions like “they are huge, are they real?”, or “do you mind if I touch them?” (Usually they don’t wait for the answer). Mostly they go “oh yes I would ask you first!” (As they had literally just been reaching for my boobs). I always let it slide because I don’t want to come across arrogant. This short skinny old woman who is a small grocery store owner became my regular groper. She touches my boobs a few times every time I see her. Like, I'll be walking into her grocery store and she'll grab them and comment on them. It's a little jarring, but I'm not offended or anything. She has grabbed my ass plenty of times.