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Yeah but that's even more stimulation. That's even more stimuli for arrousal for me, like, I'd get hard just by the smell itself. That's what makes sex much better in the first place. So that kinda goes against this erectile dysfunction stuff

Where's the proof of that? Have all of those porn watchers self reported that their dick were no longer functioning? Or did the researchers all watched the guy trying to fuck his chick and his shit not working? How is getting arroused by a woman in porn video any different than having your dick hard in the real situation? I think unhealthy life style is much bigger culprit but porn isn't one of those factors. Seems like BS to me. Has this study accounted for lifestyle as well btw?

Would you be able to explain how exactly would that happen? Ok, we see that in this study, porn watchers tend to have this particuliar area of the brain more active. And? So what? Can you explain exactly how that leads to erectile dysfunctions?

Well I like my prostate. A lot. Takes 21 times a month to reduce the prostate cancer risks to a minimum, and in general it seems that there's an inverse correlation/association between the ammount of times you're doing it and the risks of you getting prostate cancer. You won't be able to jerk off that many times just by using your mind, that's way too boring and it just takes forever to get off that way, and orgasms aren't that good. I'm emptying the sacks once a day at least and never encountered these "desensitization" issues or seeking more and more extreme content. Seems to me like these problems have nothing to do with porn and more with us being so anti social and socially inept while also lacking this sort of social courage

@Lucasxp64 It is kinda difficult to build good insta, you know, for you to be able to add good photos you need to have some life in the first place, a lifestyle worthy of taking photos off. And you need to somehow build your followers. But that's still fine, what's actually bad is that on these apps you are constrained and forced to play these stupid games such as who ghosts who, are you texting too much, etc. But the fundamental problem is that people can ignore you or text you 300 years later. You don't encounter these issues in real life

Gotta get some momentum going

Purpose over pleasure. Action over passivity

@Princess Arabia How am I a hypocrite, I never went to a prostitute or used such a service (althought I thought about it for some time before deciding not to, but who wouldn't at least consider it) and evaded all opportunities of having casual sex as well. You are the one doing mental acrobatics around this topic of prostitution, you did say you had sex with men for money couple of times so you basically are a retired prostitute, but found better ways of making money without having to do that work. And that's fine. But don't expect us to applause you for your bitter transactional way of looking at relationships with men, stemming from your vast "work" experience

@Princess Arabia Prostitution belongs to a job group akin to cleaning sewers or cleaning public toilets imo, it's trying to solve certain problems of society in a dishonourable, non-ideal way. It's just 100x more paid. You cannot compare them to honourable jobs. I wouldn't want to look at relationships and sex the way you do, so transactionally

I think people's selfishness is the biggest hurdle to overcome in both relationships and in regards to children, like, if both men and women understood each other, were very aware of their flaws and genuinely took responsibility over their flaws (that one's very important) and served each's needs and applied the same mindset to their children then most problems would just dissapear. It's the selfishness, narcisism, lack of self awareness and not taking responsibility and taking concrete actions to fix their flaws while also being genuinely unwilling to serve the needs of the other that creates all the relationship problems. And the problem with all this is that, even if you as a man (or you as a woman) were to do all these things on your part, there's no guarantee that the other party would be willing to do the same for you, i.e. meet you half way. So it's not so much about any one specific isolated thing but just about the general attitude and self absorbtion in an attempt to serve only ones interests. Our interests should be taken care off but ideally in a natural way

No they don't know it. You are over estimating intuition of women heavilly. How are they supposed to know what your intentions are unless you tell them? And btw, even if they do "know" it, there's a difference between knowing and feeling. Right now you are in your logical state of mind so there's no sense in debating this with you. Literaly no point at all

@Princess Arabia well, the best middle ground imo is to be straight forward (and ballsy) with woman and outright say that I'd want to fuck her, and just be explicit, and then have relationship and kids with that woman, I dont think I'd have to lie. I believe that we all can be honest and get what we want its just that the path to success can become longer (but so would the path covered with lies)

That's very true. The purpose of the act should be respected and adhered to, but since it's enjoyable for a reason (to make the most ammount of children) it also makes sense to make it as enjoyable as possible for the woman

All men only want sex. It's women who think of sex as a leverage to gain something else, or additional besides pleasure from the act So yeah that's a lie if you keep saying you want something else from women

Let's be real - the only realistic way for men and women to "not be using each other" is if they work towards a common goal for which both of them have to sacrifice themselves. That goal being having children and starting a family

Korea will finally become united, under a mercifull loving gaze of the Kim dynasty

If hugely popular dating apps are mostly made out of losers, how do you expect this idea to pan out? Expect double or tripple loosery LUL it's like those attempts at creating conservative dating apps. LOOOOSEEEERS LEL

Have to turn my attention into building my job skills and just working out. I see no other purpose in my life

Imagine writing paragraphs upon paragraphs of text, thinking someone is giving even a iota of a shit about you to read it after you, gotta be narcisism at it's peak. This shit blows my fucking mind Anyway, job search continues

Fuck everyone. You're all bellow me

I don't know about hell or heaven, but one thing is for sure - you're born without your consent or awareness. And since humans have enough consciousness and brain power to recognise this fact, therefore it is inherently unetical to bring new humans into this world

Just a bunch of populist BS and you guys got your panties wet from that already. Literaly just a bunch of meaningless word salad, though maybe I underestimated your guy's capacity for word salad acceptance Interesting that during the process of answering that question it hadn't occured to him that it is a typical retard wokie question (which it is, screw wokies), no, now it's not about culture wars, but suddenly it's about loving women and how women are so amazing LOL. And then he turns it into ranting about democrats ofc LEL. He'll just say anything, do anything to mantain this narcisistic positive image of himself

Jamaican people are such beggars LMAO literaly It's like it's their culture LOL now I understand that incessant materialism and misandry Like goddamn I'm so glad I live in Europe. Gotta honour this fact a lot more in my day to day life for real

I'm in a fairly shitty situation regarding my job prospects right now. The job market situation is going to get pretty shitty in general. Needless to say, I've got a lot of financial cushions to protect me, but I still need to get some income. I've got approximately a few months — until the end of September — before the money in my current bank account runs out. That's because my expenses are absolutely minimal, but I still have some necessary monthly payments to make. However, my parents' income is high enough to cover even those expenses pretty easily. It would just be awkward for me to let them pay for my stuff again — kind of embarrassing. I've also got an additional €3,500 saved up, and I keep sending money there, but that's not to be touched before retirement — it's my retirement fund. I could rent out the apartment, but I'd rather not, as I want to live there eventually and use it for my own purposes. It would feel desperate if I had to do that. But, it's an option. A certain audacious plan came to mind — a very daring and complex one — but still, it might be worth a try.