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Being a content creator or create content in general either for you or for someone else is great way to monetize that in my experience.

this is really insightful for me and made things click because I've switched careers 4 times and now work as a social media ghostwriter, which constantly requires research, insight, creativity... i didn't think before that the intellectual part is what's missing. until i tried ghostwriting. I always thought I'm not a writer or intellectual at all, and that I'm just someone who's curious about intellectual stuff.

Good luck with your stuff

You are assuming actualized.org is only about awakening. that's only the end of tier 2 in spiral dynamics, that's rare af. + it's not an ideology competition. Actualized.org teachings don't go against anything that Islam or Christianity is teaching, it rather goes meta and tells you, you gotta figure it out yourself and not subscribe to any ideology or doctrine, or rely on belief only. It's not a matter of either reject Islam and Christianity or not. that's black and white thinking. But it's about direct experience, evaluation, integration and transcendence.

I guess that's a very important idea. INTPs are mostly either intellectuals or creatives or both. That's what they find most engaging and interesting.

I'm not gonna read the rest of your post, i guess living in a Muslim community and family all my life gives me enough authority to say that this is very very wrong, you're probably making a straw man out of Islam. or cherry picking some things over others. Or making a straw man out of Actualized.org. I actually read the post after writing those 2 lines. you don't know nothing about actualized.org. you are viewing things from a blue stage perspective, thinking actualized.org is some sort of ideology with fixed philosophy and lifestyle and rules and morality.... just watch the "65 Core Principles Of Living The Good Life" video. it's enough to give you a big picture about actualized.org and how meta it is. I'm not being rude or offensive though. it's just a claim that pissed me off lol

Jesus you didn't have to roast them like that lol. It's a harsh truth though. Thanks for the comment

Bro 1: Bro ! holy fuck ! Bro 2: Bro ! what's going on? Bro 1: Bro! Listen ! She was there alone, broken. she triggered in me the savior syndrome, so i wanted to fix her, so i walked right to her, she was shy, i was nervous, but i eventually got to fixing her. the connection was unreal, we are talking sparks and flow states. it took us a while, even though we were codependent, me being dependent on the challenge of fixing her and her depending on my full continuous attention, we eventually worked things out. then, i felt like i deserved her love, so i plugged my thing into her and oh my god electricity was flowing literally God damn Bro 2: Bro ! holy fuck ! that's messed up ! Bro 1: Bro ! I'm talking about a wall socket, Bro! Bro 2: Bruh

"If you have a problem, that means it can be solved. If it cannot be solved, then it is not a problem. It is a reality to be accepted"

If you aren't weird, you probably aren't acting authentic enough. There's a real desire to act goofy and irrational within us, and many people suppress that in their shadow. If you are actually authentic, approval and conformity wouldn't be as important as expression. being weird is just part of expressing oneself.

Thanks

a simpler way: pattern recognition that leads to synthesis. how? by living a polymath's lifestyle.

This post would be cringe if no one posts on this megathread

this is some conformity type shit fr fr, you low key got it on point my g.

What would happen if we give truth seekers and philosophers 100× the normal amount of drive for achievement and creation?

Synthesis. Once you create in so many ways, and are interested in so many things, that shapes you and how you see and approach creativity. you start to see patterns, you develop analogical thinking and a unique taste. Originality and style in my opinion are a bit advanced because they require a bit of holism and authenticity. the people that are naturally talented that can be original and authentic easily are a unique case.

I might have found a way Leo, just keep an open mind lol: https://www.instagram.com/reel/Dbj6mf-Rscq/?igsh=bW13emh0eXRtcjU1

people that think that can't be bothered watching a video that long lol

Lol, as a Moroccan, this would never happen in a million years. shit doesn't happen like that here.

That's why i actually said that, because many spiritual truth seekers transcend Orange stage consciousness and don't care much about material stuff.

average content coach be like

The title has a general intellectual sophisticated esthetic, might not even be that people care about depth.

My guess: It has more comments, more shares and most importantly more saves, more than average. why? probably because it's a broad and fundamental topic that anyone with small or big interest in intellectual stuff would be curious about. it is also a huge claim that needs contemplation, which might explain 800+ saves. and because of the captions having clear niche keywords (epistemology and ontology) that help the algorithm know which audience to show it to.

Persuasion at the big picture, is just due to passion for truth.

The most important distinction when it comes to trauma is this. Trauma and Complex trauma. "childhood trauma" is too broad of a term. I'm too lazy to explain, so i asked Claude instead, here's the response: "Trauma (sometimes called single-incident or "big-T" trauma) usually stems from one discrete event — an accident, assault, natural disaster, sudden loss. It has a clear before-and-after. The nervous system encodes a specific threat memory, and treatment often focuses on processing that one event (e.g., EMDR, prolonged exposure). Complex trauma (C-PTSD) comes from prolonged, repeated exposure to harm — usually in childhood, and usually within relationships the person depended on for survival (a caregiver, a family system). Think chronic neglect, ongoing abuse, emotional invalidation, or growing up in an unpredictable or unsafe home. Because it happens developmentally, it doesn't just create a fear response to a specific memory — it shapes: Identity and self-concept — often a core sense of being "bad," unlovable, or defective (toxic shame) Emotional regulation — a nervous system wired for chronic hypervigilance or shutdown, since there was no safe caregiver to help down-regulate distress Relationships — attachment strategies (anxious, avoidant, disorganized) built around managing an unsafe or inconsistent bond Sense of danger and trust — the world itself, not just one event, feels unsafe So where PTSD is often "something happened to me," C-PTSD is closer to "this is who I had to become to survive." Treatment for complex trauma usually needs to go beyond memory processing to address self-worth, emotional regulation skills, and relational patterns — which is part of why it takes longer and often needs a phased approach (safety/stabilization first, then processing, then integration). 6 Complex trauma examples: Chronic emotional neglect — a caregiver who was physically present but consistently unavailable, dismissive, or unresponsive to the child's emotional needs (no abuse required — just absence of attunement). Domestic violence exposure — growing up witnessing ongoing conflict, intimidation, or violence between caregivers, even if not directly targeted. Childhood emotional abuse — repeated criticism, humiliation, conditional love, or being made to feel like a burden or a disappointment. Enmeshment / role reversal (parentification) — a child forced to manage a parent's emotions, become their confidant, or take on adult responsibilities (caretaking siblings, functioning as a parent's therapist). Living with a caregiver's untreated mental illness or addiction — unpredictability, instability, or having to "walk on eggshells" for years because a parent's mood or presence couldn't be relied on. Chronic school bullying — sustained peer harassment, exclusion, or humiliation over months or years, especially when adults didn't intervene effectively."