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I never tried one, i learned everything on YouTube. but I've always been athletic since i opened my eyes so it wasn't difficult for me at all.

yeah that's the mindset. that's an insane physique to have at 40, i respect the dedication. hope nothing stops you from training.

Respect, that's insane consistency. almost my age lol

I'm just setting the bar very low, to show how easy it is.

For those who want to escape reality through drugs or other mind numbing things or distractions. that always fails to work. and the way to actually "escape reality" is by being present. because you don't actually want to escape reality, you want to escape how your brain is constructing your suffering. once you train presence and master your mind and thoughts, that's the real escape.

That's a tough thing to go through, hope it gets better.

yeah. or stretch and do light recovery stuff.

That's a real pattern. I've been there myself

a secure person doesn't "need" to be in a relationship, especially if it has only been a week. also, be careful she might be in rebound territory, ask her how recently has she had a break up. anyway you're handling it in a mature way. good luck with your dating

I'm curious about your takes in this forum, that would be helpful a lot. Do you think INTPs lean more towards loose structure over rigid schedule, and they value solitude, curiosity, deep work over the more discipline like productivity? do you notice some distinctions about INTP productivity?...

These are huge signs of the anxious - avoidant attachment style dynamic. Her neediness (telling you please not leave her) and her constantly showing to you she wants something romantic might be her being clingy. your indecisiveness might be the fear of commitment that people with avoidant attachment have. also you listening to her early and letting ger open up and feel safe is classic pattern avoidants have. all these signs - on their own - are normal relationships stuff, but all of them combined in this case, especially since you said you're just getting to know her suggests that it might be this dynamic. you might wanna consider the fact that maybe it's attachment not love. I'm talking from experience btw, I'm not a psychologist.

Or course sellers on social media as well, especially ones that sell their own systems that they work with personally.

being in your head a lot without creativity is a recipe for staying in basements lol

God damn, i did not think this thread would be this insightful. I contemplated on it a bit and those 2 are accurate ideas about INTPs, especially with the modeling and originality part.

Being a content creator or create content in general either for you or for someone else is great way to monetize that in my experience.

this is really insightful for me and made things click because I've switched careers 4 times and now work as a social media ghostwriter, which constantly requires research, insight, creativity... i didn't think before that the intellectual part is what's missing. until i tried ghostwriting. I always thought I'm not a writer or intellectual at all, and that I'm just someone who's curious about intellectual stuff.

Good luck with your stuff

You are assuming actualized.org is only about awakening. that's only the end of tier 2 in spiral dynamics, that's rare af. + it's not an ideology competition. Actualized.org teachings don't go against anything that Islam or Christianity is teaching, it rather goes meta and tells you, you gotta figure it out yourself and not subscribe to any ideology or doctrine, or rely on belief only. It's not a matter of either reject Islam and Christianity or not. that's black and white thinking. But it's about direct experience, evaluation, integration and transcendence.

I guess that's a very important idea. INTPs are mostly either intellectuals or creatives or both. That's what they find most engaging and interesting.

I'm not gonna read the rest of your post, i guess living in a Muslim community and family all my life gives me enough authority to say that this is very very wrong, you're probably making a straw man out of Islam. or cherry picking some things over others. Or making a straw man out of Actualized.org. I actually read the post after writing those 2 lines. you don't know nothing about actualized.org. you are viewing things from a blue stage perspective, thinking actualized.org is some sort of ideology with fixed philosophy and lifestyle and rules and morality.... just watch the "65 Core Principles Of Living The Good Life" video. it's enough to give you a big picture about actualized.org and how meta it is. I'm not being rude or offensive though. it's just a claim that pissed me off lol

Jesus you didn't have to roast them like that lol. It's a harsh truth though. Thanks for the comment

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