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She probably has anxious attachment style, and her past relationship made it worse. that's only a guess, ask her if she has that, if she doesn't know, tell her to ask some professional since she's getting professional help. that'll help so much.

self-awareness how? what does it mean in this context?

I don't understand your idea, can you give me an example?

Thanks for sharing Guys, i already learned more in this post than most posts on the forum.

This guy's name is Younghoon Kim. He probably needs to watch the "8 Unique & Original Proofs Of God" since it is more in a rational language, then step out of his rational paradigm. also embrace the paradoxical nature of reality. He also believes we live in a simulation. that's because he assumes God is external to reality.

I guess that's his point when he says 70%. not everyone can do that. most people are unconscious and are spiralling in vicious cycles of struggle and suffering most of their life, they just don't know any better.

will give it a read for sure.

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Thanks, hope to be able to have some friends after reading this.

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to a weak unstable mind without any purpose or meaningful life, yes. or an unconscious one. so, I assume rejection is not directly causing the disorders, it is just removing a huge part of what gives meaning. if you are internally grounded, no amount of rejection will make you lose your shit. but this is a strong point, imma think about that more.

I respect the effort, but it's a false interpretation, (and probably a projection) I'm just looking for challenges of my opinion, and where I'm wrong and whether I'm missing something or someone has a bigger picture. so far most of the responses are criticizing the idea. where is the validation in that?

When you first get into Spirituality: After maturing a bit: What's the next stage after this?

systems thinking?

Yeah, authenticity is a huge part of reintegrating the ego after trying to deny it through spirituality.

just because rejection hurts and validation feels good doesn't mean it's a psychological need. I agree that it is a developmental thing, that's probably what my idea is missing. almost no one is born like that, but you grow towards it.

what do you mean by authenticity in this context ?

This comment says more about you than the post owner. you can't judge someone's character like that.

But that's the thing, you can live like that and be fulfilled. once you know that, you become free of social validation, and you get to do actually what you want to do without any external pressure. social validation is like an addiction, being rejected of socially misaligned feels like withdrawal at first, it is painful but after that it is freeing as fuck. it's just most people are deep in that addiction.

lol

But that's only a survival strategy, not a phycological dependency. you can totally choose not to play those tribal/social games, if they're not necessary for your survival.

yeah exactly, playing validation games are a choice, not something we depend on.

what does self-validation mean here?

that's a different thing, social validation in this context is a strategy, it is functional and has nothing to do with psychological dependency. and i agree, survival requires validation, in business and career, that's literally the game being played of who's valid most to a certain group of people (Leo's work example)