Mellowmarsh

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  1. Thanks for explaining it cannot be explained. Thoughts may well come and go, but imagine a reality without ever being aware of thought. That’s just not our experience. Even during deep sleep we are aware of dreams. But many people simply deny what is obvious to them. It’d be likened to “the unexamined life is not worth living” “ The only thing I know is I know nothing” So what, there’s still a knowing. It’s okay to be lucid within our own dreaming. It’s okay to suffer, already knowing nothing was ever born or can die. Be aware, that the dream is still real, it’s an undeniable experience. It’s realised instantly upon awakening from the dream that my character that I’d imagined to be real and separate was just an apparition. But so what, I am aware I am dreaming, and yes, these are simply empty words, appearing as a story appearing to awareness, and that’s pretty magical how empty words seem to animate a real live living movie show upon the screen of awareness, imagine, starring in your very own movie, being everything imaginable, the lights, the camera, the stage, the props, the actors, and the audience. It’s all you, irrefutably so.
  2. The one asking. But many people simply deny what is obvious to them.
  3. But this knowledge is still contingent on the dual nature of awareness manifesting as both subject and object. This is obvious knowing, knowing itself of which cannot know anything to be existing outside of that arena. Something knows breathing is happening, this is known, by that which can only know itself, you are that knowing, right?
  4. Do you mean Awareness as like this…. ➡️
  5. @Princess Arabia In answer to your OP..my two pence worth. The reason others pain is not felt as your pain is because others are only an idea in you, the you is awareness. So all physical pain is known fundamentally only from the perspective of the awareness that is you. In the awareness that is you, the idea of others can manifest as a sense of others feeling what you feel, but this is an illusion because there are no others. Just as there’s no multiple separate awareness’s, and is why we all see the same things, feel and sense the same things. Yet these things are all manifestations within boundless awareness, they don’t exist outside of awareness. Awareness is fundamentally solipsistic in nature. In that it doesn’t recognise the existence of other awareness’s outside of awareness itself, it’s all there is. Awareness being infinitely boundless and aware of every manifestation, cannot itself recognise separation existing outside of itself.It is also both one with and free of all this apparent manifestation.
  6. What’s alive then that’s able to witness a dead ego?
  7. Call it ego then. That’s alive and kicking aware of itself. Does it matter if ego is a comedy?
  8. The “ somebody “ is the same one asking who is somebody. There’s something curious and something able to be aware of this curiosity. And there’s something that gives curiosity a name.
  9. I never journeyed beyond my front door. The outside is my inside out. 👊🙃
  10. Thanks Leo for everything you put your bonny heart into. Much appreciation here! 👍
  11. These so called masters you appear to revere are masters of their own delusion. They are simply puppets of their own deceptive script writing, playing out their own self scripted character, the very character they deny exists. Listen, and then laugh at yourself so long and hard that you burst open into a zillion atoms and live out the rest of your life with expansive infinity of invisibility. It’s really fun being invisible, there’s nothing more delightful than no one giving you any more attention.
  12. Also, solipsism doesn’t deny an external world of otherness and multiplicity, the external world exists, except there’s zero access to it, the external world is simply being “Looked Upon” through the lens of an invisible seer. Seeing, I am “Looked Upon” See! 👀 Two eyes, seemingly looking, but only one reality seen. Only one I am looking and being seen.
  13. @James123 Wake up, you’re dreaming.
  14. If it’s a shift from ego centred solipsism to a shift of witnessing unity, both are shifts. All sounds rather shifty. Solipsism simply means there’s nothing outside of everything, except more everything. This basic understanding doesn’t need to be made complicated. You either understand the concept or you don’t, and nothing will change. Solipsism will still be the case. It can’t be proven or disproven either, solipsism simply is. Just this ever present eternal now, in full flow, without beginning, or end, going nowhere. All alone, all one, without a second. This has nothing to do with ownership. Nothing can own everything, except everything.
  15. It is said “death” has a beginning, but no discernible end. Kind of like being caught in the eternal middleness. Waking up in the middle of nowhere man.
  16. The paradox of the one and only God. The belief in an all-knowing one and only God requires believing in solipsism. But an all-knowing one and only God is an impossibility anyway, because even a one and only God cannot know whether or not that solipsism is actually true. There’s just no arriving at the other side of infinity. Infinity has no horizon that can be crossed.
  17. The good news is that a “Somebody” knows they are God. That’s a good feeling, nothing compares. This is home. Here, I’m always home with the beloved, my self.
  18. Can infinity of God’s be as simple as infinite You’s? You are God and so are you and you and you etc…..
  19. AI Hey I-I get by with a little help from my imaginary friends! 😂 Shallow love focuses on superficial aspects, such as appearance or convenience, and lacks depth, emotional connection, and commitment, often leading to disappointment.Deep love, conversely, involves a strong, enduring bond built on loyalty, trust, vulnerability, and a choice to accept and forgive the partner's true self, even through difficulties. This enduring love is resilient, grows over time, and uplifts both individuals, fostering a connection that feels like home rather than a source of constant compromise or harm. Shallow Love: Focus on the Superficial: Centers on external factors like appearance, status, or convenience rather than deep emotional connection. Lack of Depth: Avoids serious conversations and focuses on trivial matters, leading to superficial interactions. Eroding Intensity: Initial infatuation or fascination fades as reality sets in, revealing a lack of substance in the relationship. Compromising Self: Involves diminishing one's light or losing oneself to please another, rather than being fully seen and heard. Temporary and Frail: Easily broken by difficulties, misunderstandings, or emotional strain, lacking the resilience to endure. Deep Love: Built on True Connection: Characterized by a profound emotional connection, quiet understanding, and unwavering support. Commitment and Choice: A conscious decision to care for and forgive each other, especially when it's difficult, and a commitment to being there through messy times. Vulnerability and Acceptance: Involves a willingness to be vulnerable and to accept the person, including their flaws and scars, with grace and mercy. Uplifting and Enduring: Doesn't ask you to shrink or dim your light but helps you become more fully yourself and brings you back to your true essence. Resilience and Healing: It endures storms, heals wounds, and restores broken relationships by choosing grace over bitterness and compassion over resentment. In essence, deep love is a journey of consistent effort, mutual commitment, and acceptance of imperfection, creating a sustainable and enriching bond. Shallow love, on the other hand, often proves inadequate when faced with life's challenges, highlighting a critical difference in connection and character.