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So I watched this documentary of guys who can't get a gf and they take an AI girl as their girlfriend. It is so creepy. I'm in IT and and spirituality and I don't think it is possible to have a relationship with something that doesn't have a soul. AI is just mimicking human behavior. I think it just to have it but you shouldn't take it too seriously or perhaps one should? Some people are like on an island and they don't know how to get socialized while they have the need for socialization. It kind of reminds me of this scene..

One needs both short term and long term strategy .. can't always focus only on long term.. you need multiple tools in the drawer for every situation and time span

You are literally commenting this in his suicide thread insulting everybody but you... Have some respect for the members of this forum

The thing is if you have a lot of personal power, charisma, and skill. You don't need to manipulate. People get manipulated just by your presence. For example if you are a very good fighter, people can sense that from you, and you don't need to show off your power, just by your mere presence, you manipulate your environment and they treat you different. Unfortunately people are stuck with words like manipulation and they are just totally clueless about power and influence.

We are all manipulating. The thing is are we doing it in ethical way or not? If you are applying for a job and you are negotiating the price, you are using manipulation to get the best deal. As long as are fair it is fair game. In dating it is no different, you are trying to get the best deal. If you are not trying to get the best deal, that is ok. You do you.

I wouldn't call it manipulation. I would call it selling (yourself). It is so apparent you never had a sales job. You would be starving. 🤣

This guy is pushing out books like a mf. He is my fav after Wilber.

Mods on this forum always want to shit over the place before leaving. Such a typical Judas move. 😂

That is some simp shit wtf

You are a grown ass man dude

I feel like China is going to surpass US in tech and economy, that is this whole fuss is about..

Nowadays I´m very careful with these random videos. It could be AI video. In the past few days it has become hyper realistic.

This topic misses Preety.

As a child one is very vulnerable because at that age we don't have the analytical mind to protect us. A lot of under compensated people develop this analytical mind to protect themselves (and thus overcompensate) but the thing is the analytical mind also becomes the thing that withholds them access to their inner child and fix it. Basically you have to get in an alpha brain wave state so you can get past your analytical mind. There are special meditations for that. When you are in that state you get access to your sub conscious and you will be able to give yourself in mind what you are lacking by doing these imagination exercises. Basically you have to teach your body to resonate on the level of wholeness instead of separation. This is the only thing that really helps. IFS therapy and other kind of therapy were too analytical and didn't hit my deep psyche. I think IFS therapy is still very helpful for people who have good access to their inner child but I have a very developed analytical mind so for me it was very difficult to get access to my sub conscious. I had like 4 years of regular therapy and there were times it really helped me but most of the time the therapy only scratched the surface because I was so stuck in the analytical mind and couldn't access my emotions.

For me micro dosing MDMA when going out is much better than drinking. It provides me being lose and the brain elasticity to just fuck around and enjoy the night. I mean MDMA is still bad but I just pop a quarter pill and do it only once every two weeks. It is manageable. I never had an alcohol problem. It felt never appealing to be shit faced. As you said you don’t make a good impression. I prefer to have 1-2 drinks at best to get tipsy if I feel the need to.

What is divine for you guys? I’m perplexed

Having children is not like breeding livestock like “ah we need 5 more cows this quarter, let’s make them fuck each other and breed some stock for the farm” .. that is a very SD orange way of looking and reproduction. 🐄 I already explained the spiritual aspects, and children as fruits of our maturation of our psyche but it is ok if you have a different paradigm. 🍎 Personally I think it is good that you guys don’t want children. I’m definitely not going to convince the train 🚆 guy to take children. Just imagine all the things that child will have to go through. 😅

Not at all. I think you do.

That I have to explain this to you is already a topic for you to contemplate about. You are literally playing God, dude. What do you want me to say?

I wouldn’t get married in this day and age. Marriage is like going to a casino where all odds are against you. It is true that a lot of families fall apart but at least they have children. These people rarely regret having their children. In fact they say it is their greatest joy in life. I believe humans have this inherent need to reproduce after (!!!!) they reach a certain level of maturity and individuation. In the same way a plant or tree bares fruit and reproduces after a certain maturation. The eternal child aka Peter Pan never reaches this maturation. Always stuck in never land aka fantasy land until death robs that fantasy from them. For a lot eternal children it is their career or their addiction that is their fantasy. In my opinion: relationships and children should happen naturally in the same way a tree bares fruit after a certain maturation but certain trees will never reach this maturation and creation will end with them which is part of the natural selection. Unlike what is being propagated on this forum. Having children is the most divine and holy things you can do. I don’t have children but god willing I hope I will some day. @Consept @Consept

@Consept you make a good point about FOMO but that is life. You can’t have your cake and eat it too so we have to make trade offs all the time. Death is a real thing and a great teacher but obviously it shouldn’t be your only teacher. Rarely I have seen people who have chosen their career instead of a family and be fulfilled and feel belonging. I’m not saying it is not possible. I’m just sharing my experience with what kind of energy they were radiating. They have this very overcompensating vibe. Being an eternal child aka Peter Pan is all fun and games when you are young and vital but it looks sad after a certain age.

Sounds very appealing right

The fear of ending up as a senile lonely old guy with no legacy and kids is what makes you pick 1. What you give up in breadth you gain in depth.

Genius is lead by holism while a madman is lead by separation. Their brains work differently. A genius brain that works holistically is productive and cohesive while a madman brain is not productive and cohesive. A holistic brain is a sharp knife but it can cut into itself when it becomes mad/egoistic. That is why dumb people will never become a Hitler. To be a very successful madman you first need to be a good set of brains to be able to turn it in a madman brain. There are dumb madmen but they will get anything done what they want to achieve. These people are usually their own worst nightmare. Usually they fuck themselves up physically/judicially/in terms of health/or other ways, before anything and try to take others with them.