AION

@bambi do you have a link to your story?

Men don’t enjoy sex the same way women do. Most men want to have sex because they can’t think straight without sex. For women this is not the case of not being able to think straight without sex. Post nut clarity and just being able to relax is what most guys want. Although the sex itself can be enjoyable too. Comparing it to Scooby Doo desires for food is a bastardization of male libido (kundalini up).

Lately I opened up two threads and just one day later a guy opened an identical thread with almost the same thread name and content. It is just a lot of monkey see, monkey do behavior. As for Bambi’s behavior. I have a hard time deciphering his intentions and motivations. Interesting guy. He says he belongs to 1% of the dating pool which is kind of fishy. If you belong to the top echelon of dating and mating. And can get the top shelf of the finest and tightest you aren’t spending hours and hours debating random people on what women really want.

@Emerald I didn’t expect gloryholes from you

That is why I like ChatGPT more than the other AI. You can just talk to it.

@bambi read the room

I don’t know how you related this to sex

People put things on a pedestal because they don’t put god on a pedestal. Human has an intricate desire to worship something. If we don’t worship god we will worship a partner, lifestyle, car, money, guru or other worldly things.

@Emerald it is not a numbers game. I know guys who approach a lot and can’t get a gf or even a date. It is either genetics/looks or their mindset/vibe that fucks them up. Numbers game is just a part of it. Having good bait to catch fish, that is all about. Because if you don’t have good bait it doesn’t matter how many times you throw out the line.

@Buck Edwards you are in for a big surprise then. Your fantasies are telling you something about human nature. I don’t think human nature has changed in the last 80 years of post WW2 peace. You just are (un)fortunate of not living through a war. Just look what is happening in Ukraine. 😭

@bambi what is your point then

I guess you are one of those without logic if you think there are no archetypes in male and female behavior. You should go to all libraries and throw away all sex studies. In general people’s emotions are important for them. For women emotions are even more important but it doesn’t matter. The whole enigma of what makes woman sleep with a guy is simple: her emotions. Because her god is her emotions. Those super logical female friends of yours, they sleep with guys based on their emotions too. You see them make pie charts about who to give a blowjob to?

Feminists didn’t have to meet the Christians at battle. Nor did they had to fight them with machetes. The Christians got lost their power because of the destruction of the nuclear family. If Islamists fail to protect the nuclear family they will the same fate. But the thing is Islamists know this so they protect that strategic value at all cost.

Your fantasy might become a reality after the first moment authority of the state starts to crumble. Without law, like in a war / natural disaster or some kind of chaos; women always become the first target. It is the law stopping guys what they would do if they see a delicious 20 year old prime fertile girl on the street.

*opens up a history book*

It is not about secure or not. Semen just starts building up in your balls and you get aggressive like a wolf because of the testosterone. Some people are less aggressive because of lower testosterone. The thing is that we men can’t choose our testosterone levels.

Antidote to desperation in inspiration. It can be done through stacking up small wins and creating a winner effect.

But the thing is you telling him this won’t make him less desperate. It will only make him self conscious. That is what I was trying to say.

Women can be desperate too and it is very off-putting. It is like a stench but on an emotional level. And it can be smelled although the other one tries to cover it.

Dogs are just wolves who adapted themselves to cater to human emotions to be able to survive in their niche. I do believe there is saintly love. But it is very rare. And only the keen eye can recognize its beauty.

I will leave unconditional love for myself. And give human love to humans. And pig love to pigs. That was my whole ordeal in the last couple of years. Trying to get unconditional love from a woman. It is not possible. There are not a lot of hot 20 year old saintly girls with unconditional love for - special - me, unfortunately.

You either increase your (attraction) value on the marketplace or become a better seller/negotiator. I know friends who have huge value but they can’t sell themselves. They need seduction skills.

Yea it was like casting pearls in front of a swine. She was Christian and kind of religious. I thought she would appreciate my unconditional love and we would figure things out together. Now typing this out I feel so ignorant. 😅

Does real love even exist within human relationships? It seems all transactional and based on mutual survival. To be honest I thought I had unconditional love for my ex gf but if she was fat I wouldn’t love her in the same way. I was just bullshitting myself that my love was divine and transcended

Your view might be biased. Ask a regular guy about this topic to get some grounded insights. Most guys are attracted to 80% of the girls. And most of them will be happy if they can settle down with a descent looking girl. Nowadays if a girl is not fat and old and descent looking and ok-ish personality most guys would be happy to date her at the least. Perhaps it is just my surroundings but a lot of desperate guys who can’t find a descent girl.