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How can that old man even keep up. I’m doing something wrong in my life.

Why do people go to psychologists for? It is very varying. Psychologists are not there to solve your problems.

Psychologist are like those nurses who clean diapers of clients and can’t do anything more than just cleaning (emotional) diapers. They are good at what they do but if you ask them any medical advice they will just be useless most of the time. A good psychologist is very rare.

I’m 1700 with regular chess 10:10 and I wouldn’t say that is high. People at this level still make a lot of mistakes and they don’t have solid game. Serious players start at 2000. And being good at chess is like going to the gym. You have to train every muscle in isolation and in compound.

It is so beautiful and sad really. She was the pinnacle of sex appeal as in this video: As I kid I just knew I was just awestruck and put in a trance but it is just all in vain. It is just temporary, fleeting and deceitful. A play of nature to lure you in to procreate so it life can keep existing. To be honest Christina still looks good but she has done a lot of cosmetics and always has a tone of makeup. With Britney with whom I had this infatuation as well has'nt turned ok. She looks like you can find her on a street corner. https://www.latimes.com/entertainment-arts/story/2024-05-07/britney-spears-ankle-surgery-chateau-marmont-pajamas (I can't link the pic) Time is huge a beautiful teacher. One of the greatest lessons for men is to get over this superficiality and vanity. Most men are worshiping fleeting beauty, not knowing they are worshiping false gods. No women is more worth than you just because she has some good genetics by pure luck. God and Loreal gave her the beauty while as a man you have to earn your worth.

Share your pearls and jewels of wisdom Let me begin.. For me the biggest lesson was about god. There is no God’s plan for you as the ego. He won’t come and save you just because of faith. It was very painful, embarrassing and humiliating to admit I was so foolish in that regard. God only helps the powerful.

We all know about her

I combined LSD with magic mushrooms once and that was a wild ride

Perhaps in certain situation there are nice/bad guys who double down on the wrong paradigm. I don't think this is the pivot point what is going wrong though. Usually there are more "knobs" to turn than the nice/bad guy knob. But in general it is not good to be a nice guy because these guys are handing out free niceness and people don't appreciate something they get for free. In general it is better to be 100% yourself and in most cases you are not nice. It is actually better to not be nice because people will label that as "he is a guy who doesn't need to be nice so he is high value".. Yea, woman brain works like that. Probably most guys trying to bank on being fake nice and there is an inflation of fake niceness on the market. It is better to crank up free expression aka charisma. Just telling how it is and trying out new things. Eventually you will find a shortie who will buy your bullshit.

It is actually possible to stop time. It is in-sane.

Woke is being used in a cynical way. So when somebody says a girl is woke, it actually means she is asleep. Woke refers to her consciousness being woken/wake while actually she is just sleeping, not aware of the realities of life because she lives in her SD green bubble. By the way I'm not saying I'm above this. I have some wokeness in me. Wokeness reminds me of wankerness. It is spirituality done to itch your spiritual g spot. You are not really fucking with reality, just basking in your own delusion. From my observation wokeness is also done as posturing and value signalling to others.

@Spiral Wizardhow do you join these calls?

Another big one for me is that “who am I?” Is a question I should ask everyday. Our attention is literally gold. And if you spend it on stupid things and stupid people one is literally feeding pearls to pigs. Time = attention And the weird thing is that once you embody the level of conscious you will get that external thing by the law of correspondence anyway

@integral how did you feed that to Claude? Because Claude says it can't open url's.

This is true even in stage green countries. Male character is only a small variable in the female gaze. Obviously a guy should have the bare minimum of moral upstanding but it is not the thing that draws her in. She is not like "look at that guy, he is such a good person, I want to do this and that with him". Character is not the thing that creates sexual attraction. Most of the time, a lot women at the end of their reproductive value go for guys with high moral standing when there are more fun options out there for her, only out of necessity and the biological wall that is approaching.

Psychedelic trip can be more than the real thing. I think you are theorizing about me allegedly theorizing but as I said each human has its male and female pole. Your dad was a male and your mother a female. Men not being able to understand women is like saying we couldn't understand electricity. For the first human who saw it it was mysterious and wondrous "something we will never understand" but it is quite simple and straight forward if one de-mystifies it. When somebody says "we will never understand this" all of your alarm bells should go off. Women are very straight forward in their nature once you stop listening to them and start understanding them

Nah, it is possible to understand the opposite sex as a guy from my experience. One really needs to go of one's identity to be able to. Especially on psychedelic trips it is possible to go in a woman's paradigm. At the end we both have the masculine and feminine pole. The problem arises is when women come here and tell men what to do and how to think from their own POV. Current zeitgeist is very feminist dominated so they have a lot of blind spots in the same way in the times of the patriarchy, guys had their blind spots, and when you would say something about it they would go in a hissy fit.

If even Emerald doesn’t get it, it is a lost cause trying to explain it. I think it is part of the zeitgeist though.

@Leo Gura It depends on the definition. For me charisma is about high vibe energy and the ability to express it. In my head I would put charisma under character i.e personality But I see that in the English language, character is used for moral standing and integrity. In that case I agree that character is not needed for attraction. I guess I should have used the word personality instead of character

If you have no character. You are boring as hell. And the worst thing you can do is bore her. Having no character is the worst. Having a bad character is much better. At least you are not boring. But the best is to have a strong character with some edgy parts.

You are better off focusing on character building instead of focusing on what you can get like sex or a relationship. If you have this strong identity you will become like a magnet. Because your highest desire is not pussy. It is self actualization aka desiring to become yourself instead of desiring to get some If you don’t have this individuating identity, in the eyes of a girl, you are just a boy in a grown ass body.

Women will never give what you want. They will only give what you already have. So if you have self approval they will grant you approval. If you like yourself they will like you too. if you dislike yourself they will dislike you too. Everything you give to a women, and she accepts. She multiplies. This also happens with when you give her your sperm. She gives you a baby.

@Buck Edwards You are lucky you live in India then. People don't care about that shit.

@Buck Edwards In India it is not common, but in some places plastic surgery is more common because it is more accessible and affordable.

They are not brand new. I don't get how you came to that conclusion to be honest. Unfortunately no warranty left. But even if there was warranty, it doesn't apply to problems like this. It is a software problem, so changing hardware wouldn't suffice.