AION

Being a potentially good father is somebody who resolved his own personal issues. I believe if a person does that getting a girl and having good relationships just as a matter of being. But the thing is that for some guys just resolving your personal issues is a huge task because of the sheer amount of emotional baggage. Finding a good therapist is difficult and even if you find one it is still a hard job. Telling these people to just go out and talk to girls will only re-enact the rejection they experienced in their childhood. And rightfully they will give up because they are trying to fix something outside themselves that they need to fix inside of themselves.

Give time stamp ffs

They have some self esteem / self image issues. I tried to explain them about psycho cybernetics but they have a very short attention span, they don’t understand it. And they don’t have faith in the power of the sub conscious. It will be very hard for them to get rid of being thick skulled so they can change their self image. So most likely they won’t reproduce because they are stuck in their self fulling prophecy that is caused by their negative self image. So most likely they won’t reproduce. Historically only 33% of men have reproduced in history. So saying that all men are eligible to reproduce is not true. Some men just don’t have it in them. It is part of natural selection which is not something bad actually. It is just is as it is. You keep reiterating some anecdotal stories but things work different in hillbilly sub culture. Those women in hillbilly sub culture tend to act different than non hill Billy girls.

Just because murderers can get women doesn’t mean all men are now safe and are eligible for reproduction. I have some nice guy friends who look good, have good teeth, nice car and hygiene and can’t get a gf to save their life.

To breed and reproduce.

A girl’s value (youthful looks and fertility) is given to her by god and L’Oreal. While we men have to earn our value. That is why we aren’t the same and this should be accountant for in the value exchange that is called a relationship.

What kind of value?

The reason why those girls don’t go for you but go for killers and stranglers is for the vibe and emotional roller coaster he provides.

This is not true.

Masculinity is when you mirror yourself in the image of God and become God-like.

They probably don't look at you but they do look around just like guys. I actually had this happen to me today in a restaurant. But when I locked eyes they quickly disengaged the eye contact. Women appreciate good vibes that a guy has. If a guy looks good but has a bad vibe, they don't tend to look.

@bambi do you have a link to your story?

Men don’t enjoy sex the same way women do. Most men want to have sex because they can’t think straight without sex. For women this is not the case of not being able to think straight without sex. Post nut clarity and just being able to relax is what most guys want. Although the sex itself can be enjoyable too. Comparing it to Scooby Doo desires for food is a bastardization of male libido (kundalini up).

Lately I opened up two threads and just one day later a guy opened an identical thread with almost the same thread name and content. It is just a lot of monkey see, monkey do behavior. As for Bambi’s behavior. I have a hard time deciphering his intentions and motivations. Interesting guy. He says he belongs to 1% of the dating pool which is kind of fishy. If you belong to the top echelon of dating and mating. And can get the top shelf of the finest and tightest you aren’t spending hours and hours debating random people on what women really want.

@Emerald I didn’t expect gloryholes from you

That is why I like ChatGPT more than the other AI. You can just talk to it.

@bambi read the room

I don’t know how you related this to sex

People put things on a pedestal because they don’t put god on a pedestal. Human has an intricate desire to worship something. If we don’t worship god we will worship a partner, lifestyle, car, money, guru or other worldly things.

@Emerald it is not a numbers game. I know guys who approach a lot and can’t get a gf or even a date. It is either genetics/looks or their mindset/vibe that fucks them up. Numbers game is just a part of it. Having good bait to catch fish, that is all about. Because if you don’t have good bait it doesn’t matter how many times you throw out the line.

@Buck Edwards you are in for a big surprise then. Your fantasies are telling you something about human nature. I don’t think human nature has changed in the last 80 years of post WW2 peace. You just are (un)fortunate of not living through a war. Just look what is happening in Ukraine. 😭

@bambi what is your point then

I guess you are one of those without logic if you think there are no archetypes in male and female behavior. You should go to all libraries and throw away all sex studies. In general people’s emotions are important for them. For women emotions are even more important but it doesn’t matter. The whole enigma of what makes woman sleep with a guy is simple: her emotions. Because her god is her emotions. Those super logical female friends of yours, they sleep with guys based on their emotions too. You see them make pie charts about who to give a blowjob to?

Feminists didn’t have to meet the Christians at battle. Nor did they had to fight them with machetes. The Christians got lost their power because of the destruction of the nuclear family. If Islamists fail to protect the nuclear family they will the same fate. But the thing is Islamists know this so they protect that strategic value at all cost.

Your fantasy might become a reality after the first moment authority of the state starts to crumble. Without law, like in a war / natural disaster or some kind of chaos; women always become the first target. It is the law stopping guys what they would do if they see a delicious 20 year old prime fertile girl on the street.