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As a child one is very vulnerable because at that age we don't have the analytical mind to protect us. A lot of under compensated people develop this analytical mind to protect themselves (and thus overcompensate) but the thing is the analytical mind also becomes the thing that withholds them access to their inner child and fix it. Basically you have to get in an alpha brain wave state so you can get past your analytical mind. There are special meditations for that. When you are in that state you get access to your sub conscious and you will be able to give yourself in mind what you are lacking by doing these imagination exercises. Basically you have to teach your body to resonate on the level of wholeness instead of separation. This is the only thing that really helps. IFS therapy and other kind of therapy were too analytical and didn't hit my deep psyche. I think IFS therapy is still very helpful for people who have good access to their inner child but I have a very developed analytical mind so for me it was very difficult to get access to my sub conscious. I had like 4 years of regular therapy and there were times it really helped me but most of the time the therapy only scratched the surface because I was so stuck in the analytical mind and couldn't access my emotions.

For me micro dosing MDMA when going out is much better than drinking. It provides me being lose and the brain elasticity to just fuck around and enjoy the night. I mean MDMA is still bad but I just pop a quarter pill and do it only once every two weeks. It is manageable. I never had an alcohol problem. It felt never appealing to be shit faced. As you said you don’t make a good impression. I prefer to have 1-2 drinks at best to get tipsy if I feel the need to.

What is divine for you guys? I’m perplexed

Having children is not like breeding livestock like “ah we need 5 more cows this quarter, let’s make them fuck each other and breed some stock for the farm” .. that is a very SD orange way of looking and reproduction. 🐄 I already explained the spiritual aspects, and children as fruits of our maturation of our psyche but it is ok if you have a different paradigm. 🍎 Personally I think it is good that you guys don’t want children. I’m definitely not going to convince the train 🚆 guy to take children. Just imagine all the things that child will have to go through. 😅

Not at all. I think you do.

That I have to explain this to you is already a topic for you to contemplate about. You are literally playing God, dude. What do you want me to say?

I wouldn’t get married in this day and age. Marriage is like going to a casino where all odds are against you. It is true that a lot of families fall apart but at least they have children. These people rarely regret having their children. In fact they say it is their greatest joy in life. I believe humans have this inherent need to reproduce after (!!!!) they reach a certain level of maturity and individuation. In the same way a plant or tree bares fruit and reproduces after a certain maturation. The eternal child aka Peter Pan never reaches this maturation. Always stuck in never land aka fantasy land until death robs that fantasy from them. For a lot eternal children it is their career or their addiction that is their fantasy. In my opinion: relationships and children should happen naturally in the same way a tree bares fruit after a certain maturation but certain trees will never reach this maturation and creation will end with them which is part of the natural selection. Unlike what is being propagated on this forum. Having children is the most divine and holy things you can do. I don’t have children but god willing I hope I will some day. @Consept @Consept

@Consept you make a good point about FOMO but that is life. You can’t have your cake and eat it too so we have to make trade offs all the time. Death is a real thing and a great teacher but obviously it shouldn’t be your only teacher. Rarely I have seen people who have chosen their career instead of a family and be fulfilled and feel belonging. I’m not saying it is not possible. I’m just sharing my experience with what kind of energy they were radiating. They have this very overcompensating vibe. Being an eternal child aka Peter Pan is all fun and games when you are young and vital but it looks sad after a certain age.

Sounds very appealing right

The fear of ending up as a senile lonely old guy with no legacy and kids is what makes you pick 1. What you give up in breadth you gain in depth.

Genius is lead by holism while a madman is lead by separation. Their brains work differently. A genius brain that works holistically is productive and cohesive while a madman brain is not productive and cohesive. A holistic brain is a sharp knife but it can cut into itself when it becomes mad/egoistic. That is why dumb people will never become a Hitler. To be a very successful madman you first need to be a good set of brains to be able to turn it in a madman brain. There are dumb madmen but they will get anything done what they want to achieve. These people are usually their own worst nightmare. Usually they fuck themselves up physically/judicially/in terms of health/or other ways, before anything and try to take others with them.

That is what I wanted to ask. Were you able to replicate it? If you don’t live in a big city and extremely extrovert his game is not going to work. There are only the exceptional few who can get that free life style.

The unconscious or subconscious is below Malkuth in the realm of the Klipoth which are the 9 Hells

I would never pay for a Julien or Owen. Their seminars exist of 50+ up to 100+ people. Rather just stay at home and watch it on youtube. Jeff is the only one who stayed true and didn't go for the money. His work shops are around 10 people. If you go to Owen or Julien, you will be lucky if you can even speak to them.

For me it was "I can't deal with life so let me numb myself with this substance" but on the long term it is detrimental. I rather should have looked for productive dopamine activities and make moves.

It fixed itself without medicine by doing those things I mentioned! But since this year I'm taking medicine and using a spray too. Spray is called minoxidil. Medicine is called Finasteride. And I'm also using a special shampoo.

I actually had a bald spot on my crown and I fixed it through nutrition, more sleep, less stress, work out, and so on. Most important part is our mind. We can make ourselves sick with out thoughts and emotions, and you can lose your hair or even get cancer. Don’t discount the power of the mind. I wouldn’t fall for that genetics sus on this forum.

Those people who look bad in the gym eat shitty food, or pissed away their prime years and try to get in shape later in life when their DNA is already damaged. There are multiple variables at play: age, genetics, nurture, environment and so on. All play a role but personally I think nurture is a big variable. We can see this clearly in cancer. People eat shit and don't work out and get cancer and say it is genetics. Yea, you activated the DNA strains stupid. No shit you are getting cancer. 🤷‍♂️ One can't change genetics anyway, better focus on nurture and start activating good genes and down regulating bad genes. Doc Joe Dispenza has studied this in depth. I wouldn't believe too much what Leo Gura says about this topic for obvious reasons. He is a spiritual guru, not a health expert. Placebo effect is a real thing. The mind is very powerful and it can perform miracles!!! Very underestimated aspect of human health which I won't expand on in this topic..

If women dated down, passport bros wouldn't be a thing.

Something so “natural”shouldn’t be so difficult to implement. I think Integral makes some amazing points. Playing with your nutrition is not child’s play. You are literally playing with fire and people should be given warnings or at least children should be protected by child protection services. It is like pimp hoe dynamics where the pimp says what needs to heard and he so called cares about her health. This is not what ChatGPT should be used for. Something so natural shouldn’t be needed to be defended so much.

I think it has to do with poverty. They don’t have a lot of toys to play with so they play with the toys that god has given them.

I don’t think so. I think Elon Musk is ruling the US through proxy which is a good thing. Notice how he involves Elon in almost everything he talks about and the amount of respect and praise he has for him it can be noticed in his speech.

Science says nurture is superior to genetics so I don’t get this unscientific squabbling. As humans we decide which genes to active or deactivate. The most smartest person can be the most dumbest if he activates his loser genes instead of his winner genes.

Letting it go doesn’t mean pushing it away. Letting go means just dropping things where they fall, and let it be like you said.

For me my break up was like dying. You don’t know what is on the other side. You can resist the transition but it is futile. One just have to embrace it and take the lessons. For me the most important part or lesson was to let go of the bad emotions and take the good emotions with me. And another lesson was that the other has to die in your mind so you can move on. Men are not good at this while women are much better at it. She is physically alive but she is not alive as your darling anymore. The quicker it dies off the quicker the rebirth: a quick death of a relationship is better than a slow agonizing death These are the tips I can give you from the top of my mind.