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If this is the case why do you let your child eat meat. You allowing your child to eat meat is admitting doing what you just wrote down.

Summary: Fake Confidence Always Wins (And Why Real Confidence is Overrated) Let me hit you with some real talk that’s gonna piss off the "authenticity" crowd: Fake confidence destroys real confidence in social settings 99% of the time. Yeah, I said it. And just like fake food outsells real food, garbage music tops the charts, and Instagram models with filler get more attention than natural beauties—social dynamics reward the illusion over the substance. The Delusional Confidence Hack You ever see a dude with a fake iced-out watch getting more female attention than the guy wearing a real Rolex? Or a loudmouth club promoter (who still lives with his parents) out-socializing doctors and lawyers? That’s delusional confidence at work. Here’s why it dominates: Real confidence is fragile. It’s tied to achievements—your business, your status, your Super Bowl ring. But what happens when someone outdoes you? When your revenue drops? When you get injured? Your confidence crumbles because it’s conditional. Fake confidence is bulletproof. It’s based on nothing. No achievements, no validation, just pure, unshakable self-belief. And because it’s not tied to reality, it never goes down. The Two Audiences That Matter Now, before you call me a sociopath, understand this: For yourself and God: Be competent. Be authentic. Build real self-esteem. This is your internal world—where integrity matters. For the external world (bars, clubs, parties): Leave that authenticity at home. Social dynamics aren’t about truth; they’re about perception, vibes, and frame. Walking into a club with "real confidence" is like bringing a sword to a gunfight. Naive. Swagger: The Unfiltered Mindset The magic sauce is swagger—the art of being unplugged from group think. Most people are NPCs (Non-Player Characters) regurgitating societal scripts. Swagger means: Seeing the world through your own lens. Speaking, joking, and moving unapologetically. Having zero neurotic holding patterns (no overthinking, no fear of saying the "wrong" thing). Being in your own energy, not seeking validation. This is why corporate drones struggle socially. They’re trained to filter themselves, to follow rules, to fear backlash. That shit kills attractiveness. The God-Level Mindset Pure swagger comes from delusional certainty rooted in: Knowing you’re a child of God (or the universe, if you’re woo-woo). Believing your existence is infinite ("you’re not going anywhere"). Living in depth, not breadth—milking the present moment instead of chasing external validation. Most men are out here trying to build empires to feel worthy. Pathetic. Confidence isn’t something you earn—it’s something you claim. Frame Warfare Social interactions are battles of frame. Your "frame" is your reality—the rules you set for how others perceive you. Example: Donald Trump doesn’t debate on his critics’ terms. He redefines the criteria ("I’m the best because I say so"). Weak men try to qualify themselves in others’ frames. Strong men force others into theirs. The Death of the Provider Male The "protector-provider" role is obsolete for attraction. Optimizing for provisioning turns you into: A societal Oompa Loompa (worker bee, invisible to women). A group thinker (paranoid about perception, stuck in the matrix). A 15-year grind for results a swagger-heavy dude gets in 15 minutes. Instead, become a provider of vibes and seeds. Mental Strength = Social Strength Holding frame requires rejecting societal shit tests: "Toxic masculinity." "Be a nice guy." "You need money to get women." These are tests to see if you’ll fold into group think. The mentally weak comply. The strong see through the bullshit (like knowing a red card is red even when everyone calls it yellow). Why This Isn’t Actually Delusional The ability to hold an unshakable frame—despite ridicule, rejection, or logic—is real potency. NPCs can’t do it. That’s why swagger works: It signals higher status than looks or money ever could. For the average man, frame is the only viable battlefield. You won’t out-rich Bezos or out-look Chris Hemsworth. But you can out-swagger them. The Takeaway Fake it till you make it isn’t a meme—it’s the cheat code. Swagger > substance in social settings (but keep substance for yourself/God). Frame control is the ultimate social skill. Reject group think. Society’s rules are designed to keep you mediocre. Final thought: Babies are the ultimate swagger masters. They scream, laugh, and shit themselves without apology. Reclaim that energy.

Somebody you look up to Or try to borrow something from.. Share your pick in this thread No butt hurt or judging. Just sharing. I like this guy. Amazing vibe:

You could try it. Perhaps they might accept it and after you KO all of those whipper snappers that might be your ticket to fame.

Jewish mysticism is insane. It is no coincidence that they dominate.

He did well considering the amount of whipper-snappers he had to face.

Golden currency in social interaction is authenticity

We are the last generation to build wealth before AI reaches singularity by 2030-2040. AI has developed insanely in just 1 year. Insane times are awaiting us if you factor in exponential growth. I do think a lot of people will lose their jobs because they are doing a bad job. For example therapists, I can’t wait for them to lose their jobs Just like everything we humans need a way to adapt. Playing field is going to change in every way possible.

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Amazing list. Almost complete. I have my own list.

@Emeraldthose are some good points

Any advice that tells you to not be yourself is bogus advice. Because if you play the mask game you won’t grow as a person but just optimize for fakery. Like don’t whine, don’t be desperate, don’t act needy because she won’t like that. Fuck what she likes. Start respecting yourself. Self respect is most attractive thing and you shouldn’t have self respect because it is attractive but because it is authentic self respect without a calculated thing.

It is not hard to fall into such paradigms. Even Owen Cook is juggling these paradigms although he is not red pill. He says marriage is a trap and men are being played across the board in dating. He says traditional roles that men had which was being a provider and/or protector doesn’t apply anymore. Women can make their own living and are protected by the state. This means men have to find a role for themselves. He says men should focus on charisma/swagger, organic attraction and status game. A lot of men are struggling with this so it is easy to be sucked in low paradigms or being taken advantage of.

Self esteem is important. If one is insecure it is easy to be manipulated.

@something_else I bet you are fun at parties 😭 it is called game for a reason

Middle class is being fucked over in the Netherlands. You either have to be upper middle class or upper class or the lower class to get the benefit. If you have your own business it works fine too. Business owners get a lot of social and tax benefits.

@SwiftQuill look into the book whole brain child, to balance your brain and become less left brain. I also give coaching if you are interested.

What most guys don’t get because nobody told them about it; there is a social hierarchy. And women are very aware of this. If you hang out with losers you are one of them. I do hang out with them but they are not my equals and they know it. The only reason I do is because I want to give back, and when I teach another I grow myself too. To get girls in a nut shell is that you have to frame or position yourself and socially higher than her. But these nice guys put girls on a pedestal and they immediately get disqualified. They need to work on themselves and build their self esteem by transmuting jealousy, fear and other emotions they have into productivity.

I’m not nice to them. Surprisingly being mean to them works much better. Just insanely better. Important to keep your boundaries with nice guys. They are not nice usually. And they don’t understand things like value for value.

You don’t deal with those men, nor is it your responsibility. At some point, you have to accept that not everyone is on the same path as you. Some people are stuck in cycles of self-sabotage, victim mentality, or pure laziness and no amount of outside advice will change them unless they have the internal drive to grow. You can’t force someone to wake up, take responsibility, or improve themselves. That spark has to come from within. Your only real duty is to live your life, focus on your own growth, and walk the path of individuation becoming the strongest, most authentic version of yourself. If people around you are inspired by that, great. If not, that’s not your problem. Trying to "save" or "fix" others is usually a waste of time. Most men don’t change because of lectures; they change because life forces them to, or because they see someone living in a way they admire and start mimicking it subconsciously. I have a friend group that practically worships me. They pay for everything when we go out, constantly ask me to hang out, and openly say they see me as their role model. Honestly, I don’t even try to be that for them it’s just how they perceive me because I live by my own rules, make my own decisions, and don’t get caught up in the usual nonsense most people do. But here’s the reality: most people don’t learn through deep discussions or logical arguments. They learn through osmosis...monkey see, monkey do. If you carry yourself with discipline, confidence, and purpose, weaker men will either resent you or try to copy you. The issue is, most men today have no real role models. Society attacks masculinity, the system trains them to be obedient, and most mainstream "success" influencers are just selling empty motivation. The closest thing to a role model for these lost men right now is Andrew Tate. Love him or hate him, he’s one of the few people speaking directly to the frustrations of modern men. Because of him, I started a business, got in shape, and fixed a lot of my mindset issues. He’s controversial, but he gets results and that’s why he resonates with so many. The problem? He’s toxic in a lot of ways, and most guys won’t be able to separate the good advice from the bad. They’ll either reject him completely (missing the useful lessons) or blindly follow everything he says (turning into arrogant clowns). Very few will take what works and leave the rest. At the end of the day, you can’t control how people see you or who they choose to follow. All you can do is lead by example. If they’re smart, they’ll learn from you. If not, that’s their problem, not yours. Focus on your own journey, and let others figure out theirs.

Wow. Emerald is totally unfolding in this thread. Her paradigm is being shattered. It is amazing how the vegan paradigm resembles other extremist paradigms.😣 It’s like watching someone cling to a crumbling worldview, not because it holds up under scrutiny, but because it’s part of their identity. And this is where it gets interesting: many people who follow strict ideologies, whether religious, political, or dietary, often build their entire sense of morality and superiority on them. It becomes less about truth and more about tribal allegiance. Veganism, for some, not all.. becomes a righteous cause, a moral badge, and when challenged, the reaction isn’t rational debate, it’s emotional defensiveness. Just like we see with religious fundamentalists or political ideologues. Emerald’s insistence on dismissing lived experiences and pushing “science says” arguments while cherry-picking studies or ignoring the limitations of nutritional science only reveals how shaky her foundation really is. You can feel the cognitive dissonance surfacing in her replies. She’s confronted with firsthand accounts that contradict her beliefs, and instead of curiosity or humility, she doubles down. This is classic behavior when a paradigm is under threat.😭 It’s also worth noting how diet is one of the last domains where people still feel morally justified in being controlling and judgmental toward others. If you disagree with someone’s spiritual beliefs, you’re supposed to respect it. But if you say you eat steak for breakfast and feel amazing? Suddenly, you’re a murderer, unethical, and deluded according to people like Emerald. There’s a deeper lesson here too: any belief system that cannot tolerate nuance or individual variation is bound to crumble. The carnivore diet, for all its controversy, is presenting undeniable results for many people. And the inability to engage with those results without spiraling into condescension or logical gymnastics says more about the rigidity of the person than the validity of the diet. Watching Emerald struggle is a mirror for all of us who’ve ever been too attached to an idea. But in this case, it also exposes how the “moral high ground” she stands on is really just a tower of sand. And the tragic comical part of it all is that she should know better because she gives shadow work workshops. 😰

People need to let go of the past to make amends. Otherwise there will be never ending bloodshed until one of the populations go extinct.

Palestinians literally sold their lands to Jews for money 😭.. they made their bed, now they have to lay in it. Israel is not going anyway any time soon so Arabs need to find a solution that includes the existence of Israel. I think most people in this thread underestimate how difficult SD red people are. You can’t reason with them.

It just came alive. Infinite potential ✨…

Palestinians are SD red and perhaps even lower. To deal with such neighbors like the Palestinians, one needs to speak their language that they understand so to say. Palestinians people can be snakes. They rebelled against the Ottomans to help the British and then got double crossed and their lands given away. Hard to have sympathy for such people (most pro Palestinian people would have a different opinion if they were the ones who were eating Hamas rockets everyday). Having said that Israel has gone too far. I’m not supporter of Israel and I wouldn’t care if it exist or not but for the Jews it is important. They don’t want to live in constant terror and if Hamas gets stronger that would be the case.