AION

I don’t have a fear of dying. In the same way I don’t have a fear of stepping on a train. I have a fear of ending in between the train and platform; having to suffer a slow and miserable death. Transition is part of life. It is foolish to resist that but I don’t see you wanting to end up between the train and the platform.

I have been through all the anima integration exercises. All anima integration exercises are all yang based exercises like journalling, active imagination, shadow work, putting the man even more into yang energy because its put the guy in his head analyzing "huh am I this or am I do and how should I be?". The feminine doesn't think like that, it just feels and it is. Most of the guys who lack anima integration already think too much and these exercises put these guys even more in their head instead of the body which is the home of the anima (subconscious of the psyche which is the body). Guys should be doing bioenergetic grounding, dancing, yin yoga or some other kind of body based therapy. I would even argue that guys don't even need to know about the anima. Most guys who have an integrated anima don't know anything about the anima nor should they know about it for their own sake. For me becoming flexible with yin yoga made my mind also become more flexible. But I had a very hard time relaxing which got me into bioenergetic grounding. The body is kind of brushed under the table with Leo Gura's work too. Things like "you are not your body" can be interpreted as neglect your body. And a lot of spiritual people actually do with health problems as a result. Leo is the living evidence of this. Having a strong, versatile, powerful and flexible body means a strong, powerful and flexible mind. One can clearly see Leo's mind is also not that strong and flexible anymore. Spirituality should be learned from battle tested people. And you should have an integrated and holistic model for spirituality touching on all areas. Recently I opened a thread about this and almost nobody answered. They rather answer to stupid threads.

I don't agree. Masculinity (hardness) and femininity (softness) are like yin and yang or another way we could say they are two polar opposites causing attraction or repulsion. Too much femininity can go at the cost of masculinity and visa-versa. It is about knowing when to be "hard" and when to be "soft" no phun intended.

It worked for you because you weren't a hard case. You would have coasted by either way. Although both Teal and Emerald are nice women and I respect them and I wish more women were like them, I don't think they are in the position to help men. Even Leo and Emerald regularly fight over this and I'm not going to shy away from saying this although it won't be popular. Men have to develop the skill to extract wisdom from both masculinity and femininity energies. The one is not better than the other, it is about what is needed at that particular moment. It is like saying leaning left is better than leaning right. It totally depends on the moment. So Emerald saying men should learn left, is not good advice. I wouldn't say incels are not emotional enough if you ever met them. Their problem is that they oscillate between two extremes of being too masculine neglecting their body or acting out too much from their body, watching porn or other addictions they have. The thing is that men don't have good role models. The closest thing that comes to it is Andrew Tate but he is toxic. But that guy helped me a lot helping me to start my business and focus on myself. Women will come as a by product of it. Of course it is nice if guys develop their anima and shit, but it is not really needed to get the goods from the other sex. One should do anima integration for one's own health and development, not for a woman. For men with trouble with women and life, bioenergetics is the way to go though. It works directly with the body and strikes at the Gordian knot. I watched both Teal's videos and Emeralds and it is all intellectualizing and all in the head which is masculine to begin with: they are both overcompensating their traumas by becoming too manly. One has to work with the body aka man's femininity. That is what you did very well. You also seem to have a passion for dancing which a lot of incels don't have so I'm glad it worked out for you. But it worked out for you because you worked with your body. Intellectualizng about anima/animus won't do much.

For me all this philosophizing about anima integration hasn't really worked until I started doing bio-energetics and start removing emotional blocks from my system and idd become a more fluid vessel of the divine/universe. Bio-energetic grounding really strikes at where the anima is for the men: the body. One could be better off just saying men should be more connected and attuned to their body and treat their body like you would treat a nice lady. A nerd is a nerd because he totally neglects his body: you can see this in actual nerds who treat their body just as something to drag along. The anima integration stages are really about how you relate to your body and developing the feeling function at the cost of thinking function. Anima integration does have a price but it is a price worth paying. For me it is all about balancing, just like yin and yang. The paradoxal thing is that guys who neglect their anima get regularly swallowed up by it and become emotional, irrational, and have all kinds of neurosis like a pyscho bitch. These nerds with a rigid body usually have a psycho bitch inside of them that likes to act out. One can't really suppress it. So to answer the question of this thread: I would say the modern day guy isn't liked because he is too feminine and there is no polarity, because these guys have become bitches themselves, and the reason why is because they listened to feminists and castrated themselves. And the tragicomic thing is that, women say men don't listen enough, and they should listen more to them which will only make men's problems even worse. It is the archetypal story of prideful Adam listening to naive Eve and eating poison which leads to shame. The core of a man is that man defines man by looking to himSelf, and not listen to naive opinions. When it comes to men's issues, they shouldn't listen to women but start listening to themSelves and to other men who walked the path and got to the promised land.

Most people talk about epistemology but they wouldn’t be able to talk about it for 10 minutes. That is the whole problem.

I sit down to quiet my mind… and suddenly my brain serves up its BEST material: A genius solution to that work problem A life-changing epiphany about my childhood It’s like my mind panics at silence and starts yelling, “Wait! Don’t waste this productivity! Here’s a TED Talk idea!” I know meditation is supposed to be about ‘letting go,’ but how do you let go when your brain won’t shut up? These things helping me: I keep a notebook nearby or do voice memo. It is really a luxury problem but at the same time very annoying being in a split

A Judas archetype can be recognized from a breath away ; I recognize them immediately and get rid of them

It will collapse this forum in time/space.

I know the true secret but I won't share it here because it is a woman friendly forum

This guy has 7k posts on this forum and he still doesn’t understand what it is about. It is not about if Jesus existed or not. It is about the weird way you came to that conclusion. 😭

It is like giving chatGPT to a monkey. The monkey will remain a monkey. Even if you put it in a Tesla with AI in it. It will try to run over others for bananas, get more sex and other monkey business. Having ChatGPT is no substitute for developing our brains.

That is the point. It will say anything I want it to say.

Hahah, the side effect is that they all think they are geniuses because chatGPT tells them what they want to hear. At the end chatGPT is commercial so they want to keep their customers happy and stupid.

Do you want to know what ChatGPT said about your mom 🤓

They are you.

Bio energetic grounding does wonders for stress. You can do it while meditating or contemplating on an insight. You can’t love shit if your body is on lock. Even on 5 MeO.

In the sense how six pillars of self esteem or psycho-cybernetics formalized self help. Who is your pick?

Agreed but Leo keeps talking about the devil is if it real though.

On the long term social media is more profitable for your time. In the beginning you need to invest the time but once you have things rolling you can maintain social circle and the leads from social circle will be solid compared the leads you have running around town.

Lucifer was archangel before it became the devil. Food for thought.

@Princess Arabia @Sugarcoat formalized spirituality = system of spiritual principles that the teacher uses An example: Integral Spirituality by Wilber

I'm kind of surprised by the reaction in this thread considering what some suppose to know about the fabric of reality.