AION

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  1. I’m not nice to them. Surprisingly being mean to them works much better. Just insanely better. Important to keep your boundaries with nice guys. They are not nice usually. And they don’t understand things like value for value.
  2. You don’t deal with those men, nor is it your responsibility. At some point, you have to accept that not everyone is on the same path as you. Some people are stuck in cycles of self-sabotage, victim mentality, or pure laziness and no amount of outside advice will change them unless they have the internal drive to grow. You can’t force someone to wake up, take responsibility, or improve themselves. That spark has to come from within. Your only real duty is to live your life, focus on your own growth, and walk the path of individuation becoming the strongest, most authentic version of yourself. If people around you are inspired by that, great. If not, that’s not your problem. Trying to "save" or "fix" others is usually a waste of time. Most men don’t change because of lectures; they change because life forces them to, or because they see someone living in a way they admire and start mimicking it subconsciously. I have a friend group that practically worships me. They pay for everything when we go out, constantly ask me to hang out, and openly say they see me as their role model. Honestly, I don’t even try to be that for them it’s just how they perceive me because I live by my own rules, make my own decisions, and don’t get caught up in the usual nonsense most people do. But here’s the reality: most people don’t learn through deep discussions or logical arguments. They learn through osmosis...monkey see, monkey do. If you carry yourself with discipline, confidence, and purpose, weaker men will either resent you or try to copy you. The issue is, most men today have no real role models. Society attacks masculinity, the system trains them to be obedient, and most mainstream "success" influencers are just selling empty motivation. The closest thing to a role model for these lost men right now is Andrew Tate. Love him or hate him, he’s one of the few people speaking directly to the frustrations of modern men. Because of him, I started a business, got in shape, and fixed a lot of my mindset issues. He’s controversial, but he gets results and that’s why he resonates with so many. The problem? He’s toxic in a lot of ways, and most guys won’t be able to separate the good advice from the bad. They’ll either reject him completely (missing the useful lessons) or blindly follow everything he says (turning into arrogant clowns). Very few will take what works and leave the rest. At the end of the day, you can’t control how people see you or who they choose to follow. All you can do is lead by example. If they’re smart, they’ll learn from you. If not, that’s their problem, not yours. Focus on your own journey, and let others figure out theirs.
  3. Wow. Emerald is totally unfolding in this thread. Her paradigm is being shattered. It is amazing how the vegan paradigm resembles other extremist paradigms.😣 It’s like watching someone cling to a crumbling worldview, not because it holds up under scrutiny, but because it’s part of their identity. And this is where it gets interesting: many people who follow strict ideologies, whether religious, political, or dietary, often build their entire sense of morality and superiority on them. It becomes less about truth and more about tribal allegiance. Veganism, for some, not all.. becomes a righteous cause, a moral badge, and when challenged, the reaction isn’t rational debate, it’s emotional defensiveness. Just like we see with religious fundamentalists or political ideologues. Emerald’s insistence on dismissing lived experiences and pushing “science says” arguments while cherry-picking studies or ignoring the limitations of nutritional science only reveals how shaky her foundation really is. You can feel the cognitive dissonance surfacing in her replies. She’s confronted with firsthand accounts that contradict her beliefs, and instead of curiosity or humility, she doubles down. This is classic behavior when a paradigm is under threat.😭 It’s also worth noting how diet is one of the last domains where people still feel morally justified in being controlling and judgmental toward others. If you disagree with someone’s spiritual beliefs, you’re supposed to respect it. But if you say you eat steak for breakfast and feel amazing? Suddenly, you’re a murderer, unethical, and deluded according to people like Emerald. There’s a deeper lesson here too: any belief system that cannot tolerate nuance or individual variation is bound to crumble. The carnivore diet, for all its controversy, is presenting undeniable results for many people. And the inability to engage with those results without spiraling into condescension or logical gymnastics says more about the rigidity of the person than the validity of the diet. Watching Emerald struggle is a mirror for all of us who’ve ever been too attached to an idea. But in this case, it also exposes how the “moral high ground” she stands on is really just a tower of sand. And the tragic comical part of it all is that she should know better because she gives shadow work workshops. 😰
  4. People need to let go of the past to make amends. Otherwise there will be never ending bloodshed until one of the populations go extinct.
  5. Palestinians literally sold their lands to Jews for money 😭.. they made their bed, now they have to lay in it. Israel is not going anyway any time soon so Arabs need to find a solution that includes the existence of Israel. I think most people in this thread underestimate how difficult SD red people are. You can’t reason with them.
  6. It just came alive. Infinite potential ✨…
  7. Palestinians are SD red and perhaps even lower. To deal with such neighbors like the Palestinians, one needs to speak their language that they understand so to say. Palestinians people can be snakes. They rebelled against the Ottomans to help the British and then got double crossed and their lands given away. Hard to have sympathy for such people (most pro Palestinian people would have a different opinion if they were the ones who were eating Hamas rockets everyday). Having said that Israel has gone too far. I’m not supporter of Israel and I wouldn’t care if it exist or not but for the Jews it is important. They don’t want to live in constant terror and if Hamas gets stronger that would be the case.
  8. It is not that they love Israel and Jews. Their animosity for the brown man is just bigger.
  9. This thread in a nutshell
  10. It doesn’t matter how one calls it. I would call it influence. I discovered this with self respect. I started respecting myself more and other people who I knew and didn’t knew started respecting me more too. My conclusion was that the non-physical plane has an influence on the physical plane. Influence is not done by doing but by taking a position and holding. Especially women are very susceptible to frames. Men are kind of blind to it because our strength is in the physical. Real influence/manipulation is done in the non physical aka mind. And it is second nature to them. As an experiment, I once went to a store and I saw a woman there. I didn’t speak a word to her. And I convinced myself I was the shit and she was shit and she basically read my mind and she was insulted by it. I was like wtf. I didn’t even speak to her or acted in a certain way. The mind is very powerful.
  11. When 3D meat comes out it won’t be vegan. It is just alive as a cow but it won’t have the sentience.
  12. You already manipulate somebody just by being. People are too pig headed about manipulation. Everybody does it all the time without knowing and just by existing. If you go in a room and you have a certain frame, everybody will be influenced by it.
  13. Saying people eat meat for their pleasure sounds so kinky. I never looked at eating meat that way. I just eat it because my biology requires it.
  14. The thing is that these deep inner dogmas keep our identity in place. When we start kicking at these dogmatic pillars our whole identity will tremble and that is what she is fearing.
  15. Emerald is fighting so hard in these vegan debates because she craves that meat. I just know.
  16. Perhaps I could have framed it another way but I think shadow work is serious business. Psychology is a serious business. And only a conscious person can help to unravel someone’s else unconscious which is what shadow work is. I have bad experiences with psychologists. That is why I reacted so harsh. Consciousness works in mysterious ways. Usually we feel attraction to the polar opposite of what we are. So there a lot of these nice guys who follow Andrew Tate because he as something they don’t have in their psyche. They are feeling the attraction for integration with qualities they lack themselves. Same dynamic could be possible between Sadh Ghuru and Donald Trump. They are polar opposites.
  17. Doesn't matter what the generals want without the soldiers. Most Ukrainians don't want to fight anymore and they rather settle with Russia.
  18. I explained this in the other thread and then she ignored me out of nowhere 😰
  19. Best motivations for incels … full stop ✋🏾 I don’t see anybody else care as much for incels as Andrew Tate and that is just heart warming
  20. What you just all said I can flip it back onto you. I'm not even campaigning against veganism so I won't engage in a discussion about the health aspect. There is evidence for and against it and you obviously you cite pro-vegan arguments without citing the anti-vegan arguments. About me coping, I don't know how I would be doing that because I accept the shame of being alive aka my co2 footprint and the death of other animals/plants/fungi for my human habitat/lifestyle to exist. You created a mental bubble thinking your existence doesn't go at the cost of other species. That is just not true. Vegan diet can even be more environmentally taxing depending on which diet/lifestyle you are following. I know vegans who don't eat meat and then go traveling 4 times per year... 😅😅😅... this pretentious moral superiority of vegans is not pleasant to say the least... To be honest I expected you to be more intellectually curious about your own shame since you are so into shadow work but that is ok. It is just something I noticed within the vegan community. I still think vegans have a good heart but they just deal with their existential shame to be alive in unhealthy ways, some going even into hating humans and even worse coping mechanisms.
  21. @Emerald I seriously consider you contemplate on the shame I talked about. Veganism is just a mental construct you bought into. If I put a perfectly smoked salmon in front of your eyes, you know your body wants to merge with it. I believe you could still reduce your co2 footprint by just eating it once a month because I think on the long term it is not healthy to stay vegan. Most vegans struggle with this. Only certain people can get away with vegan lifestyle for a life time: Vegans who campaign for their diet kind or reminds me with my struggle with porn. When I struggled with my porn addiction, I would go on thet internet and put up this air of being this guy who defeated my lusts and start virtue signalling. I discovered this was just a coping mechanism. Trying to fight an outer battle to avoid the inner battle. I think most fervent vegans who campaign for veganism have the same dynamic. We all want to reduce co2 footprint but you being vegan doesn't zero your co2. If you truly want to zero your co2 footprint you have to unalive yourself. So in other words, to be alive we commit a certain evil at the expense of the world. I have come to terms with this in my own way. I like to travel, drive a car and do all kinds of things that destroy the environment but that is part of being human.
  22. He uses this word all the time but he doesn’t define what his definition of state is
  23. Andrew Tate doesn’t advise men to manipulate. He advices you to get your life in order and women will automatically come into your life through attraction. To get what you want attraction is much more useful than manipulation. The lines between attraction and manipulation are very thin. Good manipulation doesn’t look like manipulation. It looks like attraction. If you have charisma which is attraction, you don’t even try to get her and that will make her want her to get you.